April 27.2011 a'lft P ortland (Observer Page 7 Unique Garden Engages Communities of Color c o n t i n u e d f r o m fron t ers are anxious to promote health, wellness, and cultural enrichment in the African and African American communities. “Community members expressed a strong desire to have increased gardening space, affordable, cul­ turally relevant fruits and veg­ etables, and to engage in commu­ nity gardening as a means to de­ c rease so cial is o la tio n ,” said Charlene McGee, one of the orga­ nizers of the Urban Harvest Garden who also serves as board president of the African American W omen’s Coalition. Work began on the once vacant lot of 741 N. Beech St. and Albina ik ö e flflM fl! Real People, Real Advice \ n advice column known fo r reality based subjects! D ear D eanna! I loaned money to my girlfriend’s husband and now he won’t pay the money back. I did this personal favor without talking to my friend first. He is now telling me to stop harassing him or he’s going to ac­ cuse me of trying to sleep with him. I ’ ve been sending him e-mails to call along with text messages and I’ve called his cell phone. I thought I was doing the right thing by not men­ tioning the loan. How do I get my money without jeopardizing my friendship? -M iss CeeCee; A t­ lanta, GA D ear CeeCee: It’s to your advantage to go ahead and write the money off unless you’re willing to bring drama in your life. Ifthere’s no promissory note or paper trail indicating you loaned the money and it would be paid back, you’re stuck. You’re being black­ mailed and it’s going to get worse. Tell your friend about the loan, stop looking for payment and whatever happens in their relationship is not your fault because you chose to be honest and have integrity. D ear D eanna! My mother stayed friends with my wife after our divorce. My ex-wife cheated on me, placed me in debt and wrecked another m an’s family. My mother is still holding on to her because my wife was the daughter she never had. I have no use for this woman and wish my mother would do the same. We are arguing more and more and the family is starting to divide. How do I make my mother understand that she needs to let go and move on? -StressedO ut; Pitts­ burgh, PA Advertise in Thc Portland Avenue in February. Owned for over a decade by the local Urban League, the space was first covered with cardboard, dug up, re-soiled, and prepped for spring planting. This month, community members gathered to resume hammering, shoveling, and planting. “We want to give people a chance to garden, especially those who wouldn't normally be able to,” said Kyle Weismann-Yee, a com­ munication associate for the Urban League. “On a tight-budget, it’s hard to buy locally grown, organic foods at the supermarket.” The goal is to plant healthy, fresh foods that are favorites to the local African American and immigrant African populations. The space should provide sufficient room for up to 30 families to plant and harvest their produce. On the recent planting day, vol­ unteers young and old dressed to get dirty and shoveled dark, rich soil atop raised garden beds and rows of earth. Community elders helped young ones drop seeds of baby green lettuce, sweet onions, toma­ toes, collard greens, sweet pota­ toes, okra, leek, chard, and more. “We want the community to uti­ lize this plot, especially African- A m erican p eo p le, said Inger McDowell, head of the diversity and civic leadership program of Urban League of Portland. McDowell continued, “It is im­ p o rta n t that we m ake it intergenerational, a common space for youth and elders to build toward something.” Mapping out designs for the garden, including a wooden fence and a structure to hold six giant rain barrels to collect water for irrigation, was Ty Schwoeffermann, the Port­ land Urban League’s health equity organizer, who learned to garden from his Caribbean mother. “She was around plants her whole life, so she taught me a lot and had us working in the garden,” he said. Schwoeffermann also has experi­ ence from a former job at a molecular biology lab in Eugene where he learned the under workings of grow­ ing com. Just as important as the passing of cultural values and information from one generation to the next, is the principle of recycling and regen­ eration. Volunteers tore apart recycled crates donated by the Rebuilding Center for the wooden planks that would make the fence. Though some funding was made possible through the partnership of the Urban League of Portland and the African W omen’s Coalition, most of the materials needed for the project were donated or recycled. The project received tools, tips, and information about gardening from the Urban Farm Store, shed equipment from Northeast Tool Shed, and bark dust from the city’s forestry department. D ear Stressed Out: A divorce is like death and there must be a grieving period before moving on. Your m other had an em otional attachm ent and fam ­ ily bond with your wife. It’strue that spouses d o n ’t m arry the family but your case is an excep­ tion. Your m other has forgiven her for the pain and you should talk to your m other and seek healing. Ify o u r m other is happy and no harm or disrespect is com ing your way, leave it alone and let things run its course. D ear D eanna! I left a relationship twice and each time I went back. After each separation my boyfriend prom ised he would change by not drinking, not chasing women and w ould h elp a ro u n d the house. It took a m onth or so before he went back to his old ways. I feel the third time would really be different because he’s crying, offering to get saved and b eg g in g rea lly hard. W hat ground rules should I give him if I go down this road again? — M ichelle; Jackson, M S D ear M ichelle: Give him a map with directions to alcoholics anonym ous, a Bible to show him the way of life and a phone num ber for a good coun­ selor. If this relationship is go­ ing to be successful, he needs to work on his issues before trying to be with you or anyone else. After he makes the com m itm ent to him self, you should support him and re-build your friendship. Only time will tell if h e ’s sincere and if he sticks to the plan for a while, it’s worth a shot. Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M. Write Ask Deanna! at the email askdeannal@ yahoo.com or 264 S. 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Website: www, askdeanna. com Observe!? 503-288-0033 Power Seat jobs and other services,” he says. “One size doesn’t fit all neighbor­ hoods.” The Planning Commission has been a respected sounding board c o n t i n u e d f r o m front haven't had as much development and regulator on land use decisions, in the past, we want to preserve but appeals and even greater deci­ the other members have been there the businesses that are there and sion-making power rests with City a long time.” foster growth, and provide op­ Council, and sometimes the Council Bom in North Dakota, Baugh’s portunities for people in those has pushed the point. family moved to Oregon when he neighborhoods to become entre­ Recently the Com m ission rec­ was two, and lived in several cities. preneurs,” he said. “Downtown is om m ended that Portland Public He graduated from Astoria High very im portant, but we also need Schools be required to go through School and the University of Or­ healthy neighborhoods. There we complex land review processes to egon, earning a degree in Political start with small businesses, which change grade levels at schools. Science. He has lived in Portland are 80 percent o f all our busi­ M ayor Sam Adams took the un­ since 1991. n e sse s.” usual step o f ordering the Bureau The Planning and Sustainability Baugh brings credentials of his o f Planning and Sustainability to Commission’s first assignment on own to the issue of equity. He was submit recom m endations more to formulating the Portland Plan is “ex­ among those who called the Port­ the school district’s liking, effec­ tremely important,” Baugh says. land Development Commission to tively pulling an end run around “W e’re planning for the next 25 task for failing to provide opportu­ the Planning Com mission. years. There’s no need to go further nities for women and minority con­ Baugh says he is not bothered by than the census to know that change tractors and construction workers. such treatment. is coming. This city will look differ­ More recently, as a consultant, “Council is the final authority,” ent, and we have to plan for it. Our he was the principal author of a he says. “T hey’re elected, w e’re neighborhoods will change whether diversity study which assessed the appointed. Clearly we want to bet we want them to or not, but how do city’s performance in this area. it right, but we understand it’s we preserve opportunities for the “In the overall scheme of things their right to say, ‘We think it people who are there? It’s hard work PDC has done well,” Baugh says. could be done differently.’ We and messy, and I don’t know one “They have the opportunity to do could do a better jo b of explaining single tool to do it.” more. Have they made progress? our decisions to Council, how we Preliminary goals on the Portland Y es. Could they do more? There are got there. But w e’re not 100 per­ Plan include calls for economic pros­ opportunities.” cent right.” perity (both by businesses and in­ Baugh also has expertise to con­ In the Portland Plan, to make ev­ dividual households), a function­ tribute in the realm of transporta­ erything fit, Baugh says, “We need ing education system, and healthy, tion; he formerly served as a City of to hear from a lot of people, includ­ connected neighborhoods. Portland transportation planner, ing those who don't normally show Over-riding all of the work is the and was project manager on the up for processes such as this, and concept of equity. redesign of Northeast Martin Luther make sure we listen to everyone and The equity goal, Baugh says, King Jr. Boulevard. consider their viewpoints. 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