September 8, 20I0 u fJortlanh (Obserue t'r Recovering from Traumatic Events Page 7 To Place Your Classified Advertisement Contact: Phone: 503-288-0033 Fax: 503-288-0015 e-mail: classifieds@portlandobserver.com f l i f í l t ,í traumatic incidents while working for the police bureau’s Crisis Re­ ~ f f t f t f ’i t t f f r ttte tte e tf i harrowing events, but there are a sponse Team, which has taken her B arber & B eauty S a l o n J number o f organizations and indi­ all over the city. viduals out there willing to extend a Aaron Peterson , O w ner The team is composed o f spe- Cosmetologist / Barber / Stylist helping hand. cially-trained volunteers who help An event that d ram a tic ally Hrs: 10:30am - 7pm / Mon. • Sat. « defuse tense law enforcement situ- (5 0 3 )2 6 8 -3 6 6 1 ’ changed the course o f the life o f ations, and are often the first people I g h 5800 NF. MLK Jr. Blvd. Portland, OR 072! 1 Stasha Loosli took place in May to contact a family that has lost a 2009 when her husband, Everett, loved one. (Next to The Cash Connection/ was murdered by a neighbor out- The idea behind the program is side o f her St. Helens home for rea that crisis volunteers are better ac- sons she still doesn’t understand quainted with certain communities s ä ' * Loosli was left alone to raise and help ease the shock some her two sons. one might be experiencing, in “I can’t do this on my own,” Rib dinners special: 3 Ribs 2 sides and bread $9.49 hopes that they provide useful was Loosli o f her first reaction, information to police. Zeke’s is having a 2 month special (June-July 3rd): who said her life began to "W e may not have the an­ • Wings with toast $ 1.99 steadily unravel. swer to the ‘w hy,’” said Ward “One Voice, Healing Hearts, ” In addition to the loss o f a • 12 wings with Toast and fries $9.49 o f what she often tells victims, second income and difficulties an event fo r people who are • 3 wings fries and Toast $4.49 "but we are looking for the answering questions a father recovering from a traumatic event, ‘how.’” Hot Link or German Sausage with soda $2.99 would traditionally answer, she will be held this Saturday, Sept. She remembers in 2004 get­ Chilli fritos with soda$2.99 « - had moments that were par­ ting a call in church about an 11, at Holladay Park, at Northeast ticularly straining. When her urgent situation in the St. 11th Avenue and Holladay Street Come by Today son graduated from pre-school, Johns area. from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. Open 10:30am till 8:00pm. Monday through Saturday she was reminded o f her loss Ward said she arrived still The program will feature 5800 NE MLK Jr. Bid., Portland • 503-321-5121 looking at the other families. wearing her Sunday best to performances from Linda She felt the sting again when find that the police had already "The chicken tastes better then Jacks"' Hornbuckle and the Self Enhance­ her I0-year-old son started SM BS taped o ff five blocks. ment, Inc. Youth Choir as well as playing football, which is some­ Jahar Perez, an unarmed thing his father had always informational booths from organi­ black motorist, had been shot looked forward to seeing. zations that deal with the issue. dead by the police, and the seasons and Cannon’s Rib Express Present: But with a little help, things crowd that had amassed was got better. She started attend­ teetering toward becoming ri­ ing a support group at the Dougy designed. otous. Center every other week with her The mother o f the family cham- “There was death in the crowd, boys, which helped the fam ily re- pioned the issue and started lobby- and death on the other side o f the Sundays 5-8pm alize that they w eren’t the only ing car manufacturers to make cars yellow tape,” said Ward. a t Cannon’s / ' • j te»# > ones in their situation and learned that have seatbelts in the back seat Working with other Crisis Re- Rib Express fc ways to cope with their loss. Her that are more accessible. sp o n se T eam v o lu n te e rs, she father-in-law also moved in to help Loosli said that she underwent helped calm the crowd. Afterwards with the raising o f the boys. her own growth. She said that fol- she ditched her high-heel shoes, 5 4 1 0 NE 33rd Ave '* . Loosli said her home is still deco- lowing her husband’s death she is and then made her way to the apart- (Next to New Seasons) **" IS f aOB /». rated with images o f her deceased a stronger more independent per- ment o f Perez’s mother, husband, and still keeps his F250 son. Additionally, she said she’s She comforted the woman who Sunshine, BBQ and a FREE, truck. Johnny Cash, one o f his less likely to get upset about what was still trying to understand the all-ages, outdoor show by a New favorite musicians, is often played she now knows are trivial things. death. After the crowd steadily dis- Orleans’ sax legend, Grammy at the house, which causes her older “ It’s hard forme to get mad about persed and under the cover o f night, nominated pianist JANICE son s face to light up instantly, stuff,” she said. she escorted the mother to a nearby SCROGGINS, bass virtuoso Steadily she realized that she Rev. Renee Ward has dealt with Baptist church where she could say BEN JONES & powerhouse could do it. no shortage o f people reeling from her final goodbyes to her son. June 6 drummer TYRONE HENDRIX. c o n t i n u e d f r o m front Schuurman said that the public often hears the term "post-traumatic stress disorder.” But she wants another term to become more com- mon: "post-traumatic growth.” Working at the Dougy Center, she described one family o f five that had a bad accident where the car they were in rolled. Everyone sur- vived except for their son who was riding in the back seat and didn’t have a seat belt on, which was partly because o f the way the vehicle was Z eke's Ready Ribs is now Open!! Healing Hearts Event Saturday Cnn REGGIE HOUSTON’S C’EX ALL STARS h IQ «11 I |»»trii' HMIW Acid Attack Victim Recovering c o n tin u e d fr o m 2 burn unit in P ortland Sunday. She had underw ent surgery to rem ove dead skin from her face. D octors say she probably will need m ore surgery in the fu­ ture, although it is too soon to tell ju s t how m uch she w ill need. The Aug. 31 attack appears to be random and carried out by som eone unknow n to Storro. Bethany Storro •* p P olice have no suspect in the case and are co n tin u in g their investigation. S torro, w ho said she could hear her skin bubbling as she hit the gro u n d fo llo w in g the a t­ tack, w hen asked w hat w ould she say to her attack er, said "I w ould say, 'did you w ake up and say 'I'm going to carry som e acid in a cup and throw it on the first person I see?" What could be better? ... Well, you never know what amazing surprise guest musician will sit in! »•**>♦»»»»*» ► » •>»»#, June 13 June 20 July 4 July 11 July 18 July 25 Aug 1 Aug 8 Aug 15 Aug 22 Aug 29 Sept 5 Sept 12 Sept 19 Sept 26 reg9iehouston.com