Porttanh (Observer Page 4 June 2, 2010 Student Shares Amazing Story Surviving war, discrimination on her journey to success 11er story covers surviving a w ar in A fghanistan, discrim ination and harassm ent in Pakistan, acclim ating to a new country in the U nited States and finding her identity at one o f the country's largest com m unity co l­ leges. M irai R ezayee B essed, 29, will share her a m azin g story as she graduates from Portland C o m m u ­ nity C ollege and is honored as the school’s com m encem ent speaker on Friday, June 11. As a kid, B essed survived five rocket explosions in her hom etow n o f Kabul, A fghanistan, and her fam ­ ily escaped the violence by trav el­ ing across the border into Pakistan in 1992. Pakistan w asn't m uch better. H er family endured extrem e poverty and discrim ination com m only directed tow ard A fghan expats and, being a w om an from a liberal family, was the target o f sexual and verbal violence. "D iscrim ination against w om en is a huge problem in Peshaw ar, Pa­ kistan, especially im m igrant w om en w ho cam e from A fghanistan," she said. "T here is a lot o f hate out there and the equality line is very blurry. But I was able to survive it and still had the chance to get an education because o f an open-m inded fam ily, w ho put ed u catio n first, so I'm lucky." In 2000, B essed m oved to Port­ land to be w ith her husband and im m ediately had to fight another battle - assim ilation. "It was absurdly hard," B essed added. "M y first tim e aw ay from my hom e w as com ing halfw ay around the w orld as well as flying in an airplane for the very first tim e. C o n ­ sidering this, can you im agine hav­ ing to hop four flights to get here? It w as a horrifying experience, but, hey, I m ade it. T hat is part o f w hat has helped be w ho I am today." H er husband happened to be a PCC student and he encouraged her to enroll. B essed said she rem em ­ bers clearly com ing to the college's Sylvania C am pus and taking the placem ent test in 2001. B ecause o f the language barrier and not being strong at m ath, she placed all the w ay at the bottom in M ath 20 and R eadingand W riting90. But like all challenges in her life, she didn't let low first scores stop her. Interested in a rigorous education for your child? Come learn about The SEI Academy • A holistic education that includes values, critical thinking and community service. • Exposure to dance, drama, music and the arts. • A learning community where your child will build meaningful relationships with teachers and peers. • Our test scores surpass the district’s average and comparable middle schools’ test scores for our student population in reading, writing and science. S E I Academy 3920 N. Kerby Ave. Portland, OR 97227 Mirai Rezayee Bessed survived war in Afghanistan, discrimination in Pakistan and assimilation in a new country to graduate with honors from Portland Community College. "I had to w ork m y se lf up from there and com pleted a lot o f p re­ requisites," B essed rem em bered. A lay o ff forced her husband out o f w ork and her into it. C ollege w as put on stand-by as she becam e a professional Jew eler for Ben B ridge Jew elers in C lackam as. She w as so successful sellin g d iam onds and luxury tim epieces (more than $ 1 m il­ lion in total sales) that she w as re ­ cently honored at a luncheon w ith billionaire investor W arren B uffett o f B erkshire H athaw ay. B essed a c ­ com plished this feat despite going to PCC full-tim e w hile w orking full­ tim e starting back in 2007. She is now w ell on h er w ay to ­ w ard being a jo u rn alist, a pro fes­ sion that she said seem s a good fit for her. It's a career that can help her in her quest to shine a light on w om en's rights back hom e and it's an issue she feels she can do a lot o f good for as a jo u rn alist. "It is in m y blood," said B essed, w ho is fluent in fo u r languages. "M y father w as a jo u rn a list and m y uncle too. A s an A fghan w ith strong ties to Pakistan and to A m erica, I can relate to the bicultural issues o f d isc rim in a tio n , o p p re ssio n , re li­ gious dom ination, and assim ilation that is often forced. A s a w om an, I am well positioned to see gen d er inequity, p articu larly w h en it is coupled w ith m y ethnicity. I so far have been successful at everything I have started. So on m y w ay up, I w ant to lift o th er w om en w ith m e to p ro o f the fact that su ccess doesn't have lim its o f eth n icity an d gender. T hat is m y m ain source o f inspira­ tion." She credits h er husband o f 11 years, fam ily and esp ecially PC C instructors for giving h er the sup­ port she needed to excel in h er stud­ ies and becom e a big success at the college. 48th PCC Graduation Ceremony Portland Com munity College is celebrating its 48th gradua­ tion with a com m encem ent cer­ emony beginning at 7 p.m. on Friday, June 11, at the M emorial Coliseum. Family, friends, faculty and staff will be on hand to congratu- late the graduates and celebrate their accomplishments as they take center stage. PCC will be awarding nearly 3,000 diplomas and certificates, with approximately600 graduates expecting to walk on stage during the commencement ceremony. 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