May 19. 2010
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and printed invitations. It’s get
ting out of hand and I’m nervous
and scared. How do I end this
now? — Wrong Groom; W ash
ington, D.C.
T erry F amily
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Dear Wrong:
You need to put the brakes on
this ordeal immediately. Many
people are going to be hurt but
you should prevent financial loss,
pain and embarrassment while
Real People, Real
you can. Be a man and tell your
girlfriend the truth and offer to
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they've spent. Once you ’ ve done
this, you need toend the relation
Dear Deanna!
ship. If you choose not to be
I ended my relationship with my
committed, don't play any more
boyfriend because I thought I
games. You need to close the
wanted someone more active,
deal on a good note and keep it
exciting and could give me thrills.
moving.
I now realize I had everything I
needed in the man I was with. Dear Deanna!
My ex-boyfriend has a good job, 1' m having huge arguments with
making a lot of money and he’s my girlfriend because she can’t
dating someone else. I want him seem to get enough of her friends.
back and it hurts me looking at We have a social life that’s ac
this woman living the life I was tive considering our jobs and
supposed to have. How do I lifestyle. All of a sudden she
approach him and let him know wants to go out three nights a
that I want another chance? — week and she’s hanging out on
Anonymous; Charleston, S.C.
work nights. The only time I see
her is when she’s on the phone
Dear Worried:
You didn’t miss the water until making more plans or leaving
the well ran dry and now you the house. How do I ask her to
have to look at the life you missed choose me or her friends and her
out on. You got what you de new party life? — Walt; Phoe
nix, Ariz.
served because you were self
ish and only thought about your Dear Walt:
self and your agenda. It appears There’s a possibility your prob
h e’s happy in his new relation lems are more about the rela
ship. You can call him on the tionship than about her friends.
phone or talk to him direct. How You should offer to join her when
ever, you must remember that she goes out and if she says no,
you left him for another man. If then be prepared to have a con
he rejects you or hurts your feel versation. Be direct and ask her
ings, get over it because the why she has the need to be so
pendulum of karma just swung active, what can you do to im
back.
prove your social life and be
w illin g to m ake p erso n a l
Dear Deanna!
changes. However if her hon
I’m in a dilemma and don ’ t know
esty hurts your feelings don’t
how to get out of it. I got caught
take it personal but use the feed
up in my relationship and asked
my girlfriend to marry me. I back to improve your situation.
realize now this- is the wrong
decision and this is not the woman
I want to spend my life with.
W e’ve dated for a few years
and now her wedding plans are
in full swing. Her mother has
called caterers, ordered dresses,
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