February 10. 2010
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k Deanna'.
Portland Observer Black HiStOiy Month
only sees her as a young, energetic
w om an clim bing the ladder. I ’ve
done nothing to m ake m y w ife inse
w in k ed o r w ag g ed th en y o u ’ve
given the office hens som ething to
Real People, Real Advice
talk about. O ffice talk is 99 percent
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cure and sh e ’s going crazy listening gossip w ith a one percent sm ell o f
known for reality
to office gossip. I ’m not quitting my truth. Y our w ife has an insecurity
bused subjects’
jo b and m y w ife still insists that I issue that started before now and
should. W hat do I do? —A n o n y this is sim ply an excuse. Y ou have a
Dear Deanna!
m ous; Jacksonville, Fla.
choice to fix your m arriage, fix your
M y spouse is trying to force m e to
jo b o r fix yourself.
quit m y stable jo b o f 10 years. I ’ve Dear Anonymous:
never had problem s and the b e n 1 f you ’ ve had the sam e jo b and sam e Dear Deanna!
efits are great. T he issue is a new spouse w ith no issues, then so m e M y fiancé cheated before w e w ere
departm ent secretary. I have no in thing has been triggered w ith the
m arried and I recently learned that
terest in this w om an but m y w ife arrival your new em ployee. Ify o u ’ve h e ’s still seein g the w o m an he
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cheated with. I w ant to get out o f the
relationship but feel w e should go
to counseling. 1 find it hard to for
give him because I ’m scared h e ’ll do
it again. W hat should I do about
this? -A le x a n d ria ; W ashington,
DC.
Dear Alexandria:
Y ou had your w arning signs before
you got m arried and you knew
y ou w ere g e ttin g y o u rs e lf
M ost w om en that are in tune
their relationship know w hen
w hat
into.
w ith
their
m ate is cheating. Y ou should seek
professional co u n selin g not only
for y o u r m arriage but y o u rs e lf as
well. If it d o e sn ’t w ork you ’ll be able
to breathe instead o f sharing y our
spouse o r w alking around being
scared and w orrying ab o u t a m an.
Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M.
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