September 9. 2009 PageAó Obama Challenges Kids on Education speech on television in schools across the country. "And you have a responsibility to your­ self to discover what that is." P re sid e n ts o ften visit schools, and Obama was not (AP) -- In a pep talk that kept the first one to offer a back-to- c le a r o f p o litic s. P resid en t school address aimed at m il­ B arack O bam a on T uesday lions of students in every grade. challenged the nation's stu ­ Yet this speech came with a dents to take pride and owner­ dose of controversy, as several ship in their education — and conservative organizations and stick with it even if they don't m any c o n c e rn e d paren ts like every class or must over­ warned Obama was trying to come tough circumstances at sell his political agenda. That home. concern was caused in part by "Every single one of you has an accompanying administra­ something that you're good at. tion lesson plan encouraging Every single one of you has students to "help the p resi­ something to offer," Obama told dent," which the White House students at W akefield High later revised. Obama preceded his broad- School in suburban Arlington, scale talk with a meeting with Va., and children watching his Urges students to take pride, ownership Philadelphia CMB Church Pastor’s According To My Heart from Jeremiah 3:15 Celebrating 15 years Postering Rev Roy E Clay, Sr. • Rev 1 st Lady Lottie Clay Featuring Guest Speakers'. Bishop Freddie Brown & Pastor Alvin Ellerby Sunday Sept 6th @ 3:30 Pm 238 NE Mason ST., Portland OR 97217 503-281-6017 • 503-249-7291 Northwest Voice for Christ Ministries Presents a one o f a kind workshop! “Addiction in the Church” “For that which I do 1 allow not” ( Romans 7:15-19) Presenter: Bishop H.L. Hodge, Ph.D. Pastor/Behavioral Health Scientist Come and Learn about the hidden crisis o f m any that sit in church pews each Sunday. Hidden topics • Prescription Drug Abuse • Alcohol Abuse • Chemical Dependency "God grant me the serenity to accept the thing's I can not change: to change the things I can. and the wisdom to know the difference.” Saturday September 2 6 ,2(X)9 10:30 A .M .-1:30P.M . 4800 NE 30th Avenue Telephone: 503-863-6545 Cost: $20.00 Lunch will be available President Barack Obama delivers a speech on education Tuesday at Wakefield High School in Arlington, Va. ((AP Photo) Wakefield students, where at Obama said, "I was a little bit of one point he advised them to a goof-off. My main goal was "be careful what you post on to get on the varsity basketball Facebook. Whatever you do, it team and have fun." Obama said that not having will be pulled up again later a father at home "forced me to somewhere in your life." O bam a, a cco m p an ied by grow up faster." One young person asked the E d u catio n S e c re ta ry A rne Duncan, met with some 40 stu­ p re sid e n t w hom he w ould dents gathered in a school li­ choose to dine with if he could brary before the speech carried make only one such selection. "Gandhi," O bam a replied. on ESPN and on the W hite "He's somebody I find a lot of House Web site. "W hen I w as yo u r age," inspiration in. He inspired Dr. (Martin Luther) King" with his message of nonviolence. "He ended up doing so much and changed the world just by the pow er o f his eth ics," Obama said of the inspirational leader Mahatma Gandhi. At an­ other point, Obama told the stu­ dents that "a lot of people are counting on me." Obama proceeded later with the speech the W hite House had released a day early, virtu­ ally unchanged. 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