^ J J o r tla n b tf)b»eruer August 26, 2009 Page A3 Rider Advocates on Chopping Block N/NE Neighborhood group petitions to keep safety team N o rth o a st C o a litio n ot N cighoorhoods'T ri-M ct f nvunrtfl «f pwWc U.ytvl do not intervene physically in problem situations - but they T he P ortland O bserver D avid M iller loves his jo b as do w ork to defuse confronta­ a TriM et R ider A dvocate. He tions that could becom e fights, works to tap down potential dis­ and urge riders to “play by the turbances on P ortland's transit rules.” “ If we see people w ho are system w hile helping people about to get into a fight, we try and generally making life safer and m ore pleasant for riders. to find out what the issues are U nfortunately because o f bud­ and if there’s another way to get cuts, M iller and his seven resolve them,” Miller says. “We co-w orkers w o n ’t be doing it s o m e tim e s h av e to re m in d people to do things like keep much longer. T riM et D irector o f T ransit their feet off the seats. We say, O perations Peggy Hanson has ‘If som eone com es on wearing informed Northeast Coalition of their best clothes, do you think N eighborhoods Executive D i­ they’d want to sit where you’ve rector Paige Colem an that the b e e n p u ttin g y o u r d irty transit agency w ould end its b o o ts ? ” ’ T h ey m ay re m in d contract with NECN to operate young people to give up front the Rider A dvocates program. seats so seniors and the e ld ­ U nless som e other funding erly can use them. “We might say, ‘If you d o n ’t source can som ehow be se ­ cured, the eight A dvocates will want to talk to me, I can call the transit police and you can talk be laid off on Sept. 30. D re sse d in g re e n T riM e t to them ,” ’ M iller says. U sually shirts, R ider A dvocates have this is not necessary. T ransit been riding TriM et buses and riders “see me as being ju st like M A X L ight Rail trains since them, not an authority figure,” 1994, prim arily in north and he says. "They relate to me bet­ northeast Portland but in other ter than they w ould a transit p arts o f the system as w ell. policem an.” They are au th o ­ They are not a security force - rized to give out courtesy bus they do not carry weapons and passes to help defuse any lin- gering bad feeling. T he advocates m onitor p o ­ te n tia l flash p o in ts, such as when school lets out at Benson, G rant, Jefferson and Roosevelt high schools, and B eaum ont M iddle School, because these g ath erin g s som etim es attract gang members looking to recruit or start a fight. A nother flash p o in t is H o llad ay Park n ear Lloyd Center. There, the Rider A dvocates may also ask beg­ Dear Deanna! Dear Deanna! Dear Confused: I m et a guy a few years ago and we really felt a spark. 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"W e've had a lot o f feedback from senior citi­ zens about this program .’’ N o rth east C o alitio n board m em ber Ron Laster says some transit riders have pointed to th e r id e r a d v o c a te s as th e added safety m easure needed to m ake it possible to continue to ride the bus without fear, es­ pecially after school starts. Even in its Aug. 6 termination letter, TriMet praised the profes­ sionalism and shared com m it­ ment o f the Rider Advocates. The $472,(XX) contract is not being term in ated because o f dissatisfaction with the service, Hanson told the Portland O b­ server, explaining how the cuts are part of a $25 million budget shortfall that has caused the agency to lay o ff more than 100 o f its ow n em ployees. In June, H anson suggested cutting the program by 75 per­ cent in order to keep it in opera­ tion. “We looked at w hat we could accom plish under those circum stances, what would be in the best interests o f the com ­ m unity and N ECN ,” Colem an says. “We decided to continue as we w ere even though we knew w e’d be taking a chance the program w ould be elim i­ nated this way.” The neighborhood coalition is fighting to get the funding back. T he g ro u p is circu latin g a p etitio n th at arg u es that the loss will drastically reduce the sense o f security and service o f the TriM et system. D istur­ bances will increase without the mediation and skilled outreach o f the R ider A dvocates team, the petition states. Colem an hopes the program will be back. "We were assured that as we come out of the recession, w e’ll all look for ways for the pro­ gram to resurface in some form," she says. H a n so n sa y s, “ A s th e econom y improves and w e’re able to restore our service cuts, there are all sorts o f possibili­ ties.” For now, however, Coleman says, “A lot o f good people will be out o f a job, and there’ll no longer be advocates to stop in­ cidents from escalating.” As for Miller, he says, “Am 1 bitter or mad? No. I’m sad, but not mad. I’d like to go back to doing outreach with youth at risk, as 1 did before and maybe one day come back to this pro­ gram.” to my husband, let him make de­ support, and everything else as a cisions and manage the finances. result o f his decision to commit Recently I was devastated to lean) adultery, bea liar andatw o timing that he has a double life with bigamist. As the first wife, you another wife, chi Idren and a home. have the court’s favor as well as I’m ready to stand up and fight the favor of God as you proceed. but h e's a bully and scaring me. 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T he larg est public w o rk s p r o je c t e v e r proposed in the Pacific Royce Pollard Tim Leavitt Northwest is em erging as a wedge issue in the election victory in the past, barely cam e that pits Pollard, who has held in second place in the Aug. 18 the office since 1996, against primary, with 42.2 percent o f the Tim Leavitt, an environm ental vote, com pared to 42.4 percent e n g in e e r a n d m e m b e r o f for Leavitt. About 23 percent of eligible voters participated in Vancouver City Council. Pollard, w ho has coasted to the election. A third candidate, C harlie S teinper re ­ ceived about 15 per­ ce n t o f the p rim ary v o te an d w ill n o t qualify in the general elec tio n ru n o ff th is November. Pollard has jo in ed Portland M ayor Sam A d a m s an d m o st o th e r sta te an d r e ­ gional g o v ern m en ts in supporting tolls on both the 1-5 crossing and the I- 205 bridge to help pay a share o f the $4.2 billion C olum bia R iv er C ro ssin g p ro je c t and serve as a brake to expanding traffic w hile also stim ulating mass transit use. E d u c a tio n in its b ro a d e st sense is a n y a ct o r ex p e rie n c e th a t has a f o r m a t iv e effect on th e m in d , character, o r p h y s ic a l a b ilittfto f an in d iv id u a l. , Alive! MAX Yellow Line Service Moves to 5th and 6th Avenues August 30 On the Portland Mall, the MAX Yellow Line w ill begin service August 30, and the new Green Line w ill make simulated service trips Aug. 30-Sept. 11. B ack to Sch ool H ai Septem ber 1 - 12 $10 for A ll Youth G rades K - 12 Jflnra Stay safe and travel legally: • Obey all signals • Drive and bike only in the left lane • Don’t tu rn right from the Mall unless perm itted by signs and signals • Don’t stop to pick up or drop off passengers or deliveries C O M M U N IT Y BUILDS C H A M P I O N S BE O N E MAX Green Line service begins September 12. For more inform ation, visit trim et.org. H O U R S 9 - 7 T U E S D A Y -S A T U R D A Y 3 8 2 7 N E. M LK JR B LVD P O R T L A N D 9 7 2 1 2 SHOP PHO NE: 9 7 1 -2 5 5 -1 2 8 8 cards n o w available! TR I ^ M E T See w h e re it takes you.