îh'Î J n r t la u ô (n b e e ru c r B l a c k Page A2 H lS tO fy M o n t h ___________________________ February 4, 2009 Ask Deanna! Real People, Real Advice t „ m l t i l i ’ co lu m n know n fo r re a lity h a ie tl subjects! Dear Deanna! My husband o f seven years left me for a younger woman. He dogged me and broke my heart but I’m over it. The problem isnow with this woman. H e’s putting her through the same dram a he put me through and she calls me for advice. T he first tim e 1 tolerated her because she caught m e o ff guard. I’m at the point where 1 ’ m ready to tel 1 her she reaped w hat she sow ed but 1 ca n ’t do it. W hy? —Leslie; Boston Dear Leslie: You can definitely say she got what she deserved. 1 guess your husband saw the grass w asn’t greener on the other. W hen she calls again, let her know in your sw eetest voice you ap­ preciate her seeking your advice but you had enough dram a from both o f them to last a lifetime. Share some w ords o f w isdom that if a m arried man cheats on his wife, h e’ll cheat on any­ body and keep it moving. A WES commuter train accepts passengers at the Beaverton Transit Center during its ceremonial first run on 14-7 miles o f track serving Beaverton, Tigard, Tualatin and Wilsonville. The new mass transit option is a project o f TriMet, Washington County, Metro, the Oregon Department of Transportation, and the four communities. WES Commuter Rail Opens Connecting Wilsonville to Beaverton After nearly 15 years in the making, the state’s first com m uter rail line opened for regular service M onday. T riM et’s W ES (W estside Express Service) com m uter rail is a 14.7-mile line that provides weekday rush hour s e rv ic e b e tw e e n th e c itie s o f B eav erto n , T ig a rd , T u a la tin and W ilsonville. “W ES will provide fast, convenient com m uter service to an area that is difficult to serve with traditional bus service,” said TriM et G eneral M an­ ager Fred Hansen. “By utilizing active freight tracks forcom m uter service we were able to make use of an existing resource while adding a new travel option for our riders.” C ongressm an D avid W u added, “O nce again O regon is proving to the country that we are a leader in public transportation. We were so far ahead o f the gam e that some people in the past ad m in istra tio n b eliev ed this project could not becom e a reality.” Wu said he was looking forward to seeing m ore and more people begin to use W ES as a safe, environm entally friendly and enjoyable way to com ­ m ute every day. The W ES service schedule calls for the first train to leave W ilsonville at W hatt0 Eat? co n tin u ed fr o m f r o n t ethnicities. L arg e c h a in sto re s h av e 2010. Interestingly; the report eaught on to this trend and also m entioned thafrAfrivan-Ameri- offer up selections of-natural cans are the biggest consum ers<-eats. u o f organics com pared to other But Rohter said the national 5:19 a.m. and arrive in Beaverton at 5 :46 a.m. The train will operate every 30 m inutes during weekday rush hour for a total o f 32 trips a day. Trains travelanaverageof37 mph, with a top speed o f 60 mph over the 14.7 miles Bus service will connect to each o f the stations; W ES will also connect to M A X Blue and Red line trains in Beaverton. In W ilsonville, riders can connect to bus service within the city, to Salem and Canby. The fare for boarding WES is $2.30, the price o f aT riM et All-Zone ticket. The com m uter line also provides free W i-Fi and about 700 Park & Ride spaces at four o f the five stations, with parking lim ited to 24 hours. chains “m ostly sell co n v en ­ tional foods with some organic an d n atu ra l fo o d s, an d w e mostly sell organic, natural, and local foods with som e conven­ tional foods." ; W hat’s also innovative for New Seasons is its em phasis on supporting local producers o f natural and finer foods. It seeks Dear Deanna! W hen m y h u sb an d and I w ere to ­ g eth er he took ex cellen t care o f our kids. N ow that w e’re d iv o rce d he has am n esia and fo rg o t he has o b ­ lig atio n s o f ch ild su p p o rt an d health care. D o n ’t g et me w rong, I still care fo r him but now 1 have to go through so m uch stress to get him to help me. I have legal d o cu m en ts o u tlin in g his resp o n sib ilities. H ow long do 1 w ait before tak in g him th ro u g h the co u rt sy stem ? —Allison Kramer; Omaha, Neb. Dear Allison: D aycare bills, tight clothes, and hun­ gry stom achs d o n ’t have tim e to wait for daddy to grow up. At this rate, your kids will be senior citizens col­ lecting a pension before your ex-hus- band steps up to the plate. T he court order that he violated gives you front row seating w ith a judge. If he has no sym pathy or concern for his children’s w elfare, then you need to handle your business and take him to court at lightning speed. Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M. Write A sk D eanna! at the email askdeanna 1 @ yahoo.com or 264 S. LaCienega Blvd. Suite ¡283 Beverly H ills, CA 90211. W ebsite; www.askdeanna.com Annual Fix-It Fair Saturday A Portland Fix-It Fair, a free event designed to save you money and connect you to resources is sched­ uled Saturday, Feb. 7 from 8:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. at George Middle School, 10000 N. B urr Ave. The Portland Bureau o f Planning and S ustainability, in partnership w ith other city bureaus, the Energy Trust o f Oregon, Pacific Power, Port­ land General Electric and the P ort­ land D evelopment Com mission, hold o u t e a s te rn O re g o n b e e f, W illamette Valley wine, olive oil from northern California, and other regional vittles. The store w ants to support regional be­ cause doing so keeps m oney local, helps retain ÉMWM ition in food, and the im pact-on the environm ent mim i “ It’s obvious to us tn a fif we don't support our local food growers, they're going to go out o f business,” said R ohter o f the buy local approach. H aving a store stocked with such fine goods has given New Seasons a reputation that it’s tooexpensi ve for Portlanders of more m odest means. However, Rohter said that this simply isn't so- and he can prove it. By periodically doing price surveys betw een its stores and other grocery options, Rohter said he can docum ent that New Seasons stocks enough o f the conventional products (not lo­ cally produced or organic) that a shopper could get the same basket o f goods from New S ea­ sons and pay about the same as they w ould at a national grocery chain. Barry Bushue, the president o f the Oregon Farm Bureau, said that he appreciates N ew Sea­ sons doing business with local fam ily farms. He added that people are more rem oved from agriculture in their daily lives than ever before, and sees in­ creasin g interest in farm er's the fairs annually for neighbors to talk to experts about how to spend less and stay healthy. E x h ib its an d h o u rly w o rk sh o p s p ro v id e in fo rm atio n and reso u rces fo r w a te r a n d en e rg y sa v in g s, ho m e and p erso n al h ea lth , food a n d n u tr itio n , c o m m u n ity r e ­ so u rces, recy clin g and y ard care, lead testin g an d m ore. Free lunch and childcare are pro­ vided. m arkets and local food as a yearning for som e sem blance of a distant agrarian past. "L ocal foods are here to stay," quipped Bushue, w ho said he expects there to b e ,a steady m arket for local fi "For us it's a questiono] m u n ity fo o d secu rity . Rohter, w ho points out that oil prices could easily skyrocket again- m aking locally produced food the norm. A side from reaching out to regional food producers, New Seasons has worked at being a socially conscience local em ­ ployer, R ohter said. said Julie Piper Finley, spokes­ person for Loaves and Fishes- w hich runs M eals on W heels, w ith a laugh. She explained that her orga- n y^jGc^neets a cut o f the profit ’ loaf o f sourdough afth e store and that (ca n donate to the organization at checkout. She added that N ew Seasons em ployees are required to help deliver food for the organiza­ tion, some on bikes. Rohter him ­ self drives a delivery route. R ohter said that w ith the econom y in the tank New Sea­ sons is w eathering it reason­ I t’s obvious to us that if we don't support our local food growers, they're going to go out o f business. He explained how his co m ­ pany actively w orks to keep its w orkforce diverse in the way of gender, race, age, and sexual orientation. He also m entioned that New Seasons has an inter­ nal m inim um wage o f $10 per hour and pays benefits for its em ployees. New Seasons also shells out 10 percent o f its after tax profits to local charitable causes like M eals on W heels. " I think w e're their favorite," ably well. "W e're being more careful," he said, adding that it has put off m ore capital projects, but hasn't laid o ff any staff and is still on course to open its 10th store on H aw thorne B oulevard in 2010. A lthough the future o f food production in Portland and the c o u n try m ay be u n c e rta in , R ohter seem s relaxed about where his com pany is. 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