November 26, 2 0 0 8 Page A3 Economy Jolts Food Programs con tin u ed fro m Front Our fear is that donations will drop off to the point where we'll have to have a waiting list. nerable because many are on a fixed incom e and rely on stocks - Loaves and Fishes spokesperson Julie Piper Finley. for their retirem ent, w hich have taken a serious hit in recent m onths, she added. "O ur fear is that donations will drop o ff to the point where we'll have to have a waiting list," said Finley. Loaves and Fishes, unlike simi­ lar organizations in other cities, has never had to use a waiting list to cut costs. She added that the group is closely m onitoring its financial situation and is hoping it w on’t com e to that. The O regon Food Bank is in a sim ilar fix. T he organization dis­ tributes food to over 850,000 people a year through 20 affiliate food banks, and is seeing hungry people seeking help in droves. Oregon Food Bank spokesper­ son Jean K em pe-W are said that many o f its affiliates are seeing dem and like never before. An or­ ganizational report finds a 13 per­ cent increase in dem and for food services locally, and 12 percent statewide. N ine out o f the group’s 20 re­ gional food banks have had record num bers o f people seeking assis­ tance, she said. K em pe-W are explained that people are losing jobs and simply photo by M ark W ashington /T he P ortland O bserver d o n ’t have enough m oney to Food donations are stocked onto shelves at the Oregon Food Bank in northeast Portland. Food Bank executive Jean Kempe- support them selves. She added Ware said the organization is seeing demand like never before. Macy’s Holiday Parade Friday M acy 's annual H oliday Pa­ rade will be held on Friday, Nov. 28 with a cast fun-filled march through the streets o f dow n­ tow n Portland. T he parade will start at 8:45 a.m. at Lincoln High School, trav­ els north on Southw est 14th Avenue and then east on A lder Street, w inding past the D ow n­ tow n M acy's, then hanging a Ask ö right on Southw est Second to T aylor Street and ending back near Lincoln High School. K G W Channel 8 will broad­ cast the parade starting at 9 a.m. Shortly after the parade con­ clu d es, S an ta w ill arriv e at M acy’s. Photos with Santa are available daily through Dec. 24 at Santaland, on the low er level o f the store. certain level so he w ould shine. The years have gone by and h e’s burned out but my opportunities are still available. Is it a problem if I go for it? -A n o n y m o u s; Shreveport, LA that many food pantries are see­ ing new faces from fam ilies who thought th ey 'd never fall on hard times. "They're seeing construction workers com ing in for the first tim e. T h ey 're seeing rea lto rs who've gone m onths w ithout a com m ission. They're seeing now a w hole num ber o f groups of people who never im agined in their w ildest dream s that they would need em ergency food," said Kempe-W are. O f p articular concern, said Kempe-W are, is getting food to children. She explained that when chil­ dren are undernourished it af­ fects their developm ent and fu­ ture productivity. Figures show that over half o f the recipients to the Oregon Food Bank have chil­ dren. K em pe-W are counts on the holidays for donations. However, she w onders if people will be as generous as they were in previ­ ous years due to the state o f the eco n o m y , an d w o n ’t h av e a handle on the organization’s fis­ cal state until after the New Year. She added she h asn ’t seen d o n atio n s go dow n w ith the econom y so far, and notes that people have usually seen the value o f the service provided by OFB and continue to donate even in tough times. Zoo Admission Free on Thanksgiving Day In appreciation for the public's support o f a $ 125 million bond measure to improve outdated exhibits and make the O regon Zoo more sus­ tainable, the zoo is holding an open house on Thanksgiving Day, with free adm ission. From polar bears in the frigid Arctic to el­ ephants in the forests o f Asia, Thanksgiving Day visitors can visit anim als from around the world. "W e're thrilled about the zoo's future and w hat the bond measure w.i 11 allow us to accom ­ plish," said Tony Vecchio, zoo director. 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