(The September 17, 2008 ^Jortlanb ©bscruer Page A3 Westside Max Turns 10 Portland Mall next P hoto by M ark W ashington /T he P ortland O bserver The Rose City Vaudeville players brought stilts, acrobats, musicians, jugglers and more to the delight o f thousands of spectators for Saturday's annual Alberta Street Fair parade in northeast Portland. Dear Deanna! Dear Deanna! Dear Deanna! I made the mistake and m ar­ ried a man that was a virgin. Everything in the relation­ ship has always been w on­ derful until our w edding night. I was disappointed because I’ve been with oth­ ers and had experiences that were 10 times better. I’m not sure I w ant to stay in the marriage because I can’tdeal with this. W hat do I do? -- Tw o o f my friends have been m aking me suspicious about my husband because he com es hom e late from work. They have been filling up my head with stuff and have successfully led me to think h e’s having an affair. 1 follow ed him in a different car, pushed re-dial on the tele­ phone and checked his pockets for phone numbers. His behavior h asn 't changed but my friends keep trying to convince me h e’s m essing around. I c a n 't find anything. Am I losing it? —Paranoid; When my husband and I were together he took excellent care o f our kids. Now that w e're divorced he has amnesia and forgot he has obligations of child support and health care. D on’t get me wrong, I still care for him but now 1 have to go through so much stress to get him to help me. I have legal documents outlining his responsibilities. How long do I wait before taking him through the court system? -Allison Kramer; Ask Deanna1. Real People, Real Advice An advice column known for reality based subjects ! Misha Tyler; Fort Hood, Texas Bronx, N. Y. Dear Paranoid, Dear Misha: Be glad you m arried a man that avoided sexual im m orality. Y our virgin elim inated your exposure to A ID S , diseases and baby m om m a dram a. A p­ p aren tly there w ere things oth er than sex that m ade you love him and accept his hand in m ar­ riage. If you w ere sm art, y o u ’d realize y o u 're the teach er w ith a perm anent student w hose skills are g o in g to get b e tte r and im p ro v e w ith each le s s o n ...if you know w hat I m ean. G row up and stop doing childish things like playing Inspector Gadget. If your spouse d o esn 't display signs o f infidelity d o n 't look for any. If your man com es hom e late, and he says he was w orking— trust him. You are borrow ing trouble and setting your m arriage up for a dow nfall by listening to your friends. W hen your girlfriends start trying to cause dram a, stop them dead in their tracks. If they keep at it, tel I them to get lost so you can keep your marriage happy and healthy. Omaha, Neb. Dear Allison: Daycare bills, tight clothes, and hungry stomachs don’t have time to wait for daddy to grow up. At this rate, your kids will be senior citizens collecting a pension before your ex-husband steps up to the plate. The court order that he violated gives you front row seating with a judge. If he has no sympathy or concern for hischildren's welfare, then you need to handle your business and take him to court at lightning speed. Rest assured that G od is going to fiercely deal with him for neglecting and rejecting thecareof his flesh and bkxid. Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M. Write Ask Deanna! Email; askdeanna I @yahoo.com or 264 S. LaCienega Bird. Suite 1283 Beverly Hills, CA 90211. Website: www,askdeanna. < om The 18-mile W estside MAX Blue Line turned 10 years old last week and has totaled 105 million rides since opening on Sept. 12, 1998. T h at's more than 200 rides for every person living in W ashington County. Transit trips along the W estside corri­ dor have tripled since opening. In July 2008, W estside MAX weekday ridership was 42,400, a 94 percent increase in 10 years. "There has been trem endous transfor­ m a tio n alo n g th e W e stsid e M A X line sin ce o p en in g ," said TriM et General M an­ ager Fred Hansen. "It has helped serve as a catalyst for more than $2 billion in develop­ ment near the M AX I ine, helping to create new Fred Hansen n e ig h b o rh o o d s an d strengthen existing ones. It's really exciting to see the change and see riders be able to make more connections throughout the region as the MAX system continues to expand." TriM et's fifth light rail line is under con­ struction. The 8.3-mile l-205/Portland Mall MAX Light Rail Project will add light rail to Fifth and Sixth avenues in downtown Port­ land between Union Station and Portland State University, and between Gateway Tran­ sit Center and Clackamas Town Center. It is the first light rail extension into Clackam as County and it will serve the .heart o f downtown Portland. When it pens in September 2009, it will help revitalize the Portland Mall and poise the region for future rail extensions. Smith Rejects Portland Debate U.S. Sen. Gordon Smith o f Oregon has declined an invitation to participate in a Portland City Club Forum debate with his opponent, Oregon State Rep. Jeff Merkley. The City C lub extended an invitation to both candidates to debate the issues over a month ago, offering the option of multiple dates, but received word Tuesday that Smith has chosen not to appear. O fficials from the organization called Sm ith’s decision disappointing and regret­ table. The fact that Rep. Merkley has accepted the club's invitation entitles him to appear at a Friday Forum debate on Oct. 17, City Club officials said. THE GREATEST GIFT WE CAN PASS ON TO OUR CHILDREN IS THE GIFT OF HOPE. -Barack Obama REGISTER TO VOTE TODAY. 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