Page A3 July 2. 2008 A cool taste sensation is a welcome treat for Inez Jackson at last weekend's Good in the Neighborhood celebration at King School Park. G o o d the Neighborhood photos by M ark W ashington /T he P ortland O bserver Seattle's Northside Drill Team and Drum Squad from Seattle highlight last Saturday's Good in the Neighborhood parade along Northeast Martin Luther King Jr. Boulevard, an official Rose Festival event. Birth Record Required at DMV (A P ) — N e e d to re n e w o r re p la c e y o u r d riv e r's lic e n se ? S tart hunting fo r that passport o r birth certificate. D rivers w ho w ant a license in O reg o n m ust now prove they're in the country legally. T he new rule w ent into effect T uesday. B esides arriving w ith their p a ss­ port, original birth certificate o r Dear Deanna! I’ve spent tons o f money on dates and dining but get nothing in re­ turn. 1 try to hold on to chivalry in this day and age but women need to get with the program and spend as well. I’m tired o f w atching other men do the sam e? How do I let a w om an know 1 want to date her but I’m not willing to part with my m oney too soon? —Roger Davis; Atlanta, Ga. im m igration papers, drivers will also need do cu m en ts that list their S ocial S ecurity nu m b er, such as a ta x r e tu rn o r e m p lo y m e n t re c o rd . "E ven if they sh o w ed a birth ce rtificate years ago w hen they got their license, we'Ve got to see it again," said D avid H ouse, a sp o k esm an fo r the D riv er and M otor V ehicle S ervices D ivision. G ov. T ed K ulongoski o rdered the D M V to start v erify in g Social S ecurity num bers in February. L aw m ak ers then took it a step further and gave the state explicit authority to ch eck a d riv er's legal statu s. H ouse said the agency has seen a 10 p ercent d ro p in the n um ber Ask ö spending most o f the time with her. W hat are my options? —A nony­ mous; Buffalo, N.Y. Dear Anonymous: Y ou’re trying to be im pressive by spending money like a fake Donald T rum p. If “g ettin g som ething" drives your motivation for dinner and dating then you got what you deserved. Nothing. It’s none of your business how other men spend their money. You should lead by example. Before your next date have a money discussion and determ ine w h o 's paying or if y ou'll go Dutch and keep it moving. Dear Deanna! I’ve been dating a guy for three years and he claim s that he loves me. However, I often w onder how we can love one another when we really don't know each other. We never go out together although we spend tim e at each oth er's home. He blam es it on his job. It’s true he w orks a lot, but I feel that if you really w ant to be with som eone you'll m aketim e. I turned 4 0 o n my birthday and feel it's time to move on. -Jean ette; O n-Line Reader Dear Jeanette: T h ere's a huge com m unication gap Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M. Write Ask Deanna! Email: askdeannal@yahoo.com or 264 in this relationship. It’s odd to be S. LaCienega Blvd. Suite 1283 with som eone for 4 years and still Beverly Hills. CA 90211. Website: fall short on quality time. H e’s sim ­ www.askdeanna.coni ply not into you but y o u ’ve m ade it easy for him to be in this relation­ ship. You should get a new attitude and lay your cards on the table and express yourdesires. If he still wants to be dead weight using his jo b as an excuse, then hit the road and d o n ’t look back. Dear Deanna! My h u sb a n d 's d au ghter from a previous m arriage will spend the sum m er with us. Her m other never liked me and has passed this ju d g ­ ment onto her daughter. Her mother has threatened to fight me if I ver­ bally or physically discipline her. My husband has given me author­ ity to discipline as needed espe­ cially since I'm the one that will be C ritics o f illegal im m igration called the state a hav en for the undocum ented, and said anything less than a p ro o f-o f-le g al-p res­ ence stan d ard o p en s the w ay to drug traffick in g and terrorism . O p p o n en ts o f the d o cu m en ta­ tion req u irem en ts say peo p le w ho are poor, eld erly or live in rural areas m ay h av e a to u g h tim e g ettin g ID card s o r d riv er's li­ censes. N atio n ally , ab o u t 11 m il­ lion U.S. citiz en s lack birth c e r­ tificates o r passports. "T he reality is that not ev e ry ­ body has these d o cu m en ts, and m ay h av e d iffic u lty o b ta in in g them ," said R ick B ennett, a lo b ­ byist for the se n io r citizen s group, A A R P O regon. Local Intern Goes to Washington - som ething that resonates with Lewis because she was diagnosed rew arding - there’s som ething with a learning d isab ility -d y slex ia different every day.” - when she was a young girl. Despite the hard work, she has “ It’s im portant to understand managed to find time to see the that people with disabilities are part many museum s and m onum ents o f the human condition." she said. that dot the W ashington D.C. “W e are here; living our lives every landscape. d ay .” One landmark that she found Ironically, the question o f dis­ particularly inspiring was the ability has recently hit hom e in Sen. Franklin Delano Roosevelt M e­ K ennedy's office. The M assachu­ morial. Roosevelt guided the na­ setts senator is on leave after being tion through one of its most try­ diag n o sed w ith it brain tum or. ing times, the Second W orld War. W hile this has had obvious ram ifi­ despite being wheelchair-bound- cations for his office - he can 't be because o f polio. R oo sev elt’s present in the Senate to deliberate presidency did a great deal to o rto cast votes, fo rex am p le-L ew is dispel widely held myths about said that there is lots to do in the the capability o f disabled people senator’s absence. continued Your husband and his ex-w ife need to let the child know that she must behave and act as if she has some sense. If you and your husband are in agreem ent with the house rules, then nothing else should be said. As for the m other, shut her down and let her know that she ca n 't regulate anything in your house. If she insists, then she can keep the ch i Id at hom e and no one has to deal with any issues. Dear Roger: o f licenses issued since F eb ru ­ ary. Last year, 105,000 licenses w ere issu ed from F eb ru ary to M ay. D u rin g th e sa m e fo u r- m onth period th is year, 9 3 ,0 0 0 w ere issued. Before the rules were changed, O regon was one o f only a handful o f states that did not require p ro o f o f legal residence for a license. New rules started Tuesday fro m Front “The office is optim istic,” she said. “Everyone expects him to recover. But in the meantime, there is plenty o f work to be done. The office has to keep going.” Lewis said her time in W ash­ ington definitely will figure into her future educational and career plans. W hile she still wants to w orkindisahilityadvocacy-even- tually as the head o f a nonprofit organization - she said that she w ants to spend at least som e of her professional life w orking in the federal governm ent. “ I want to m ake a change,” she said. “It's been am azing to w atch policy being ham m ered out in per­ son. You can see change happen right in front o f you.” [NEW SEASO NS] J M A R K E T N O W D E L IV E R IN G Y o u r fa v o rite n e ig h b o r h o o d g r o c e r y s to r e n o w d e liv e r s g r o c e r ie s r ig h t to y o u r h o m e o r o ffic e . 4 Teen Hero Falls from Grace A teenager who was a hero in 2006 for tackling a man w ho had snatched a baby girl from a stroller on a MAX platform has been sen­ tenced to 10 years in prison for shooting tw o teenagers in the legs. L am arC urry, 16, also had faced rap e charges, but those w ere d is­ m issed in a plea bargain. He w as ch arg ed w ith shooting the teen- a g e rs o u ts id e J e ffe rs o n H igh S chool last O cto b er afte r a h o m e­ com ing d ance in w hat p olice said ap p e ared to be a g an g -related incident. T w o years ago, C urry, a local African American male, rescued the baby girl from a deranged man who said he intended to throw her under the train. Transit Riders Hit Hard con tin u ed fro m Front m u te r R ail s e rv ic e b e tw e e n W ilsonville and Beaverton. ( )ver the past several years, Tri Met says it has made several adjustments to its vehicles, making its bus fleet one of the most fuel-efficient in the nation. These actions save more than $600,000annually. I Tri Met has also transferred $ 4 .1 m illion from contingency to offset current fuel costs, as well as elim i­ nated 18 staff positions and re­ duced other programs. M onthly passes for adult cash fares will increase $ 10. TriM et also is creating a new 14-day pass to give riders the savings o f a monthly pass, but purchase it in sm aller in­ crements. w w w .n e w s e a s o n s m a r k e t.c o m you click, we deliver, (or pull up for pick up) »