Page A3 M arth 12. 2008 Mayoral Candidates to Debate Local Issues Will gather Friday at PCC-Cascade Issues o f critic a l im p o rtan ce to P ortland's A frican-A m erican com m u­ nity will be front and center during the first mayoral forum of the campaign sea­ son. Six candidates for P ortland's top of­ fice will weigh in on matters like educa­ tion, jobs, gentrification and more at the forum, set for6-7:30p.m . Friday, March 14, in the Dan M oriarty A uditorium at Portland Community College’s Cascade Cam pus, 705 N. Killingsworth St. The forum - presented by the Urban League o f Portland and PCC Cascade Campus and, sponsored by the African American Alliance, the African A m eri­ can Chamber of Commerce and the Port­ land branch o f the NAACP - will give Portland voters their first opportunity to see the candidates together on one stage. Adm ission is free, and light re­ freshm ents will be served at a reception follow ing the event. “There are persistent disparities in health, education, housing, econom ic opportunity, em ploym ent and livability in Portland between African Americans and the general population", said Ur­ ban League President and C hief Execu­ tive O fficer M arcus C. M undy. "O ur com m unity will want to be assured that the candidate they vote for to lead the city will prioritize the elimination ol these d isparities.” Participating candidates include Sam Adams, Sho D o/ono, Craig Gier, James B. Lee, Beryl S. McNair and Chris Rich. Ken Boddie, reporter and anchor for KOIN-TV, will moderate the evening's proceedings. Each candidate will have a chance to introduce him or herself to the audience before fielding questions from Mr. Boddie. Questions from audience members w ill be posed to the candidates toward the end of the forum. "It is important that candidates for the top position in the city are given the opportunity to address how they will move Portland forward with the w ell­ being o f all o fo u rc iti/e n s in m ind." said C a sc a d e C am p u s P re sid e n t A lgie Gatewood. "By placing issues o f im por­ tance to African Am ericans and other com m unities of color before the candi­ dates and the voters right out o f the gate, we hope to help set the tone that m atters of diversity and inclusiveness are critical to the health o f our city." For more inform ation, call Midge Purcell with the Urban League of Port­ la n d at 5 0 3 -2 8 0 -2 6 2 6 , e -m a il mpurcell@ ulpdx.org or visit Ulpdx.org. McNair Challenges Opponent’s Funding A Portland candidate running for mayor from the African-American com m unity has challenged a deci­ sion to give another candidate for mayor public m onies to run his cam ­ paign. 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Portland's rules on publicly-financed elections say a candidate can take no more than $12.(XX) in in-kind contribu­ tions before being disqualified for the public money. But Andrew Carlstrom , a city elec- tions adm inistrator, and city auditor Gary Blackmer recently ruled that Dozono, the head of AzumanoTravel and a candidate seen as a prim ary challengertoCity Commissioner Sam A dam s’ candidacy for mayor, was still eligible for the money. The rea­ soning was that Dozono was just thinking of running when the in-kind contribution was received last D e­ cem ber and was not officially a can­ didate at the time. Dozono called the objections a diversion from important issues. Mathis to Visit Portland At Saturday conference and Youth Summit TV Judge Greg Mathis, a lifetime member of the NAACP whose weekly commentary appears in the Portland Observer, will be the fea­ tured luncheon speaker Saturday during a multi-state NAACP con­ ference in Portland. Mathis’ story ofpersonally break­ ing the cycle of drugs and crime to become a lawyer, judge and national leader was a dramatic example and role model foryoung African Ameri­ cans, said state NAACP spokesper­ son Esmeralda Allen. Judge Greg Mathis Mathis also will also be guest speaker during a Youth Summit by CornerStone Community Ser­ Saturday night when he addresses vices, a local African-American Jefferson High School students, church. Principal Cynthia Harris, faculty and The NAACP Alaska-Oregon- parents during an event sponsored Washington State Area Conference is holding its annual spring conven­ tion Friday, March 14 to Sunday, March 16, at the Airport Ramada Inn and Suites, 6221 N.E. 82nd Ave. The conference is hosted by the Portland Branch of the NAACP which was founded in 1914. Today, it faces a "state of emergency" in­ vestigating complaints of discrimi­ nation, mistreatment and unequal sentencing by police and court offi­ cials. In Oregon. 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