Page A3 September 19. 2007 Potential Candidates Hit Roadblocks Jay lives outside city; Adams fights smear photo by M ark W ashington AT he P ortland O bserver Alberta Street Fair Beat African dancers and musicians bring their irresistible rhythms to the Alberta Street Fair Saturday as the annual celebration marked its 10th anniversary. ‘Color Purple’ Author to Visit New b o o k ‘Why War is Never a J; Good Idea' ‘1 On Friday. Sept. 28. Alice Walker will be in town to promote her new book, "Why War Is Never A Good Idea," a powerful poem with beau­ tiful illustrations and a strong mes­ sage of peace and environmental­ ism. She wi 11 appear at Po wel I s Books at Cedar Hill Crossing, 3415 S.W. Alice Walker Cedar Hills Blvd. between 7 p.m and Stephen Speilberg. 8:45 p.m. In addition to her novels, she Wal ker i s the author of The Color has written poetry, essays, short Purple, which won the Pulitzer Prize stories, and has contributed to and an American Book Award and numerous anthologies. 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Website: and I want to change but don't www,askdeanna,eom Honoring NAACP Members Ending a hiatus of over three c o m m u n ity ,” said C h arlen e years, the Portland NAACP will McGee, president of the NAACP confirm seven officers and two branch. “We have a great oppor­ , executive-committee members at tunity to make a difference by a special ceremony Thursday, building a strong branch ready Sept. 27 at 7 p.m. at the Sheraton for the NAACP's centennial in Portland Airport H otel's Mt. 2fXW and our own branch's cen­ Adams Ballroom, 8235 N.E. Air­ tennial in 2014. We are eager to port Way. move forward with the many chal­ "We are incredibly excited to lenges that lie ahead in commu­ see these officers and executive- nity relations for all people of committee members officially take color in Portland.” on th eir roles as leaders in A strong show of support is P ortland’s A frican-A m erican anticipated at this event. Leading potential candidates Jay also has a condo in the for Portland mayor have hit road­ Lloyd district, but he felt it unjust blocks in quick succession since to simply register there in an a t­ Tom Potter's announcem ent last tempt to meet the m inim um -resi­ week that he would not run for re- dence requirem ents for candi­ election. dacy. “ I know that I In what C om m is­ would have been sioner Sam A dam s calls "a nasty smear an e x c e lle n t m a y o r," Jay by a would-be politi­ says, "but at this cal opponent.” Pearl point, I have no D is tric t d e v e lo p e r Bob Ball helped leak intent on m ov­ ing.” an account Monday accusing Adams of He will spend his time instead having had an im ­ seeking funding proper relatio n sh ip with a 17 year old for the construc­ th re e y e a rs ago. tio n o f h e a d ­ Adams and the now RoyJay quarter hotel at 2 0 -y ear-o ld re sta u ­ the Oregon Con­ rant m anager see it vention C enter only as a m entorship and overseeing situation, while Ball P ro je c t C lean argued that any kind Slate, a program of relationship with a he helped start minor was a subject to expunge minor of concern. criminal convic­ A lso , b u s in e s s ­ tions. man and community He prom ises to continue his a d v o c a te Roy Jay called off his cam ­ work for the bet­ paign late last week, term ent o f the just days after begin­ city, whether it is for small busi­ ning to assem ble an Sa m A dam s exploratory com m it­ n e sse s, e th n ic tee. He had moved to a former com m unities outer southeast, Street of Dreams home last month homeless, seniors, gentrification w ithout any inclination that the issues or big business. address would not qualify him to "M y hat is off to Mayor Potter be mayor. for leading a citywide effort in his A respected leader of the A fri­ attempt to be inclusive of people can-American community and the in every community, but it is time city at large. Jay had been testing for Portland to go to the next the waters all summer and finding level." he says. "W e, as a com ­ munity, do not want to wind up them supportive. However, his new residence like some cities where race, class, lies just a few blocks outside of gender, sexual preference and the Portland city limits, even as ethnicity can polarize a commu- its mail is labeled "Portland." nity. CAN’T STOP THINKING ABOUT GAMBLING? THAT’S A CALL FOR HELP. Getting your life back starts with a call for help. 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