November 15. 2006 Page A3 Help Managing Medicare Part D Enrollment period assistance available Staff and volunteers from the M ultnomah County Senior Health In su ra n c e B e n e fits A ssista n c e (SHIBA) program are conducting neighborhood enrollm ent events to provide individual help with the M edicare Part D benefit. Enrollment in the prescription drug program takes place from W e d n esd ay , Nov. 15 th ro u g h Dec. 31. “ People with M edicare who en­ rolled in a Part D Plan earlier this year may think their plan will con­ tinue as it is. W e’re trying to help people avoid unhappy surprises at the pharm acy in January,” says J a n e t B o w m an, SH IB A c o o r­ dinator. Bowman encourages seniors and people with disabilities to read their new 2007 plan carefully because coverage and prices may have changed. P eo p le w ho have q u e stio n s should call their plan or 1-800- M EDICARE, or attend an enroll­ ment event to get answers before Dec 31. 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