|JortIaitb CObscruvr Page A4 November 8. 2006 O pinion Opinion articles do not necessarily reflect or represent the views of The Portland Observer America Holds On To Its Family Values Single parents spend more time with children by .It ixa G r ig M athis For the last 20 years or so w e've been told - by the m edia, policym akers and conservative groups alike that the increase in crime isadirect result of the growth in single parent households. Chil­ dren dt> poorly in school and get into trouble, w e've been led to be­ lieve, because their single mothers have to focus theirenergy on work­ ing and have little to no time left in their day to effectively parent. like - that have failed our children and our communities. Without the conservative double talk that seeks todraw our attention away from the real issues by shift- Two generations ago, 60 per­ lies are led by just one parent. cent of American children lived in a Over the years, ascrime increased house where the father went to and children became increasingly work and the mother stayed home harder to reach, many began to and took care of the house. Today, blame the changing face of the We can now loss those theo­ American family, with single moth­ ries out of the window. A new ers taking the hardest hits. But, study shows that both married according to a book recently pub­ and single parents spend about lished by the American Sociologi­ the same amount of time with cal A ssociation, today’s single their children as parents did 40 mothers spend more than 11 hours years ago. Knowing this, what, per week with their child. then, can be blamed for the In 1965, single mothers report­ increase in high school drop edly spent less than 8 hours per out and crime rates? It's time to ing blame, perhaps this country about 30 percent of the country’s week caring for theirchild and mar­ finally take a close look at public can finally work to fix the broken children live in such a house. More ried mothers spent just under 11 institutions - schools, government organizations that serve our com- mothers work than ever before and hours per week with their kids. It human service agencies and the munities. about 26 percent of American fami- seems that single mothers, in an effort to spend more time with their chi Idren, don ’ t obsess as much over housecleaning and other chores. Many focus their energy on their children, and rightly so. Conservative groups have long maintained that 'family values' were the key to a safer, better America. America hasn’t lost its family val­ ues; though the idea of family has changed, the core beliefs - support, love, unity - still hold true for many of us. Some politicians, though, have twisted the ideas behind such val­ ues and used them to further their Our single mothers - and fathers - shouldn't be used as scapegoats fo r the country's troubles. i, own agendas. While the country is distracted, busy debating divorce, single parentfuxxJ and gay marriage, money is being cut from the national education budget and added to the defense budget, social service pro­ grams are beingeliminated altogether and prisons, instead of community- based intervention programs, are being built. America’s family values are still in place, it's the ethics of many of our leaders that are out of whack. The need for stable two-parent households, especially in the Afri­ ca n -A m e rica n co m m u n ity , shouldn't be trivialized. However, our single mothers - and fathers - shouldn’t be used as scapegoats for the country’s troubles. Now that we know today’s single par­ ents are working just as hard - and, in some cases, harder - than even married mothers did years ago, it’s time to really start addressing the social issues that plague this coun­ try today. We don’t have time for any more excuses. Judge Greg Mathis is national vice president o f Rainbow PUSH and a national board member o f the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. A National Tragedy Being priced out of college M arc H. M oriai . Whereas the U. S.once led At the National Urban the world in termsof students League's annual confer­ seeking higher education, the ence in Atlanta in July, Time nation now ranks 13th in WamerChairman Dick Par­ affordability and 4th in ac­ sons identified education cessibility among European as the "sine qua non." and North American coun­ "It is the thing without tries, according to the group's which nothing good happens," he report. said. Increased costs in the face of That is why recent conclusions reduced government aid appear to by a U.S. Education Department have hurt African American stu­ advisory committee are so disturb­ dents more than their white coun­ ing. It finds that the cost of higher terparts; The price tag for attending education is deterring more and a public institution amounts to 37 more low- and moderate-income percent of median household in­ students from going tocollege. And come compared to 24 percent for in the United States, people ofcolor whites. It requires 86 percent of tend to be disproportionately rep­ household income for blacks to go resented in the low- and moderate- to a private school, compared to 54 income range. percent for whites, according to the From 1990 to 1999, between I report. million and 1.6 million potential What enabled Dick Parsons to bachelor's degrees were lost among rise through the ranks of Corporate college-qualified and -prepared America? Greater access to oppor high school graduates from low tunity than his father and grandfa­ and moderate-income families, ac­ ther had. That means access to a cording to the study. From 2(MX) to good education with the expecta­ 2010, that number is expected to tion of college graduation. We can­ increase to between 1.4millionand not make that same expectation for 2.4 million. Roughly 16 percent of low income and 27 percent of moder- , ate-income students who were eClUC QtlOU tO O tlly by I ' L L K E E P OPT TH& EXTERNAL ENEMY W H ILE T W K E E P OUT T H B INTERNAL. 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In 2001, the entire population bu, it does pay Bureau of Labor Statistics estimated dividends," Parsons said. that jobs requiring postsecondary Limiting highereduca,ion toonly education would make up42 percent those who can afford it will only of total job growth in this decade. serve to exacerbate the gap be­ They accounted for 29 percent of all tween the nation's haves and have- jobs in 2000. nots and between minorities and These students are either drop­ whites. ping out of higher education or We cannot expect to compete in digging themselves into majordebt. a global economic market if low-to which forces them to put off pur­ moderate-income Americans - a chasing homes, starting families, d isp ro p o rtio n a te sh are being investing for their retirements and people of color - are relegated to pursuing advanced degrees. low-wage jobs with little future. 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