c,|r }Jnrt lattò (Observer August 30. 2006 Their parents made a wise investment for their future. Your child deserves the best... Tim othy Karis Stephen Keylah Federal ftu k Svc Mgr/ A uthor Public Affairs Phvtician University Program Director ■ Koty H igh School Teacher Ime Hollywood Director Trinity Lutheran School Ed rie Ibnkci /M odel College Promotes Campus Diversity W ashington State U niversity V an co u v er has appointed Boia M ajekobaje as assistant director for Student Diversity. She will be responsible for recruiting and re­ taining a diverse student popula­ tion. spanning race. age. socio-eco­ nom ics and sexual orientation. A P o rtlan d native, she m ost recen tly serv ed C entral W ash ­ ington U n iv ersity as an ad m is­ sio n s co u n se lo r w ith p articu lar responsibility for outreach to low- incom e stu d en ts and stu d en ts o f co lo r. She also served as staff ad v iso r to the c o lle g e ’s black stu ­ dent union. Her prior experience includes her work as a diversity affairs coordi­ nator at the University o f Oregon in Eugene, where she graduated in 2003 with a Bachelor o f Arts degree Bola Majekobaje Katie Nicholas Christopher CEO Sr. Vice President As a new school year begins, students will be jo in in g the rush, on foot, by bus and in cars - especially the m orning rush hour. It’s im por­ tant for m otorists, parents and chil­ dren to dust o ff their baek-to-school traffic safety routines. M otorists in particular need to watch out for the safety o f children on foot and bicycle, to slow down to 20 mph in school zones and to yield to crossing guards - as well as pedestrians o f any age crossing Back to School Tips Chris Stephanie Chemical Engineer Sales Manager 503-288-6403 in biology. M ajekobaje said she is looking forward to working close to home, but also “staying a part o f the really am azing things that are happening in W ashington education.” At W SU V ancouver, she w ants to en c o u rag e stu d en ts to spread the w ord about the u n iv e rsity 's program s to their family members. “T h ere’s no substitute for sto­ ries o f personal experience," she said. “ It’s very pow erful.” W SU V a n c o u v e r o ffe rs 14 bachelor's and 9 m aster's degrees in more than 35 fields o f study. The cam pus is located at 14204 N.E. S a lm o n C re e k A v e ., e a s t o f V ancouver’s 134th Street exit from either 1-5 or 1-205. For more information, visit http:/ /www. Vancouver, w su.edu. Watch Out for Returning Kids Traffic dangers with start of school Attorney Page A5 Early to bed, early to rise the street. Driving ju st 5 mph over the 20 mph speed limit increases the risk o f hitting a child and increases the severity o f the injury when a child is struck by a vehicle. Drivers are required to yield to pedestrians crossing the street. You should never pass a vehicle that has stopped at a crossw alk. It may he waiting for a pedestrian to cross. U nder Oregon law, a crossw alk exists at any intersection, even if unm arked, unless signs indicate that the crossw alk is closed. Parents and children, if possible should, choose less busy streets to walk or bike to school. C ross the street only at crossw alks, not bc- tween intersections, and never run into the street from between parked cars or other obstacles that block drivers’ view. Look left, right, left and over your shoulder for traffic before crossing a street and con­ tinue to check each direction as you cross. Pedestrians should also make eye contact with drivers to make sure they see you. The wearing of light-colored clothing or reflectors on backpacks improve visibility to drivers. If riding a bicycle, scooteror skate­ board to school, always wear a hel­ met and ride in the same direction as traffic. Use the far right o f the road­ way or a hike lane if available. Staying up late and sleeping in are summertime rituals for most kids. But summer sleep habits can leave chil­ dren sleep deprived and unfocused at the start of the school year. Providence sleep experts recom ­ mend that most school-age chil­ dren get at least nine hours o f sleep per night. Parents should consider establishing school-year bedtime routines two weeks prior to the start o f school. Creating a bedtime routine and encouraging quiet tim e and relax­ ing activities will allow for dow n­ time and sufficient sleep time. www.trinityportland.org Man Missing From Dawson Park SAVION VER ® 77-year-old C hester "R ay” Barber, was last seen by his family on Aug. 14 at Dawson Park, N. Stanton and W illiams Ave, where he was playing dom inos with friends. B arber's son, Steven Harris, left his father at the park, hut found no trace o f him when he arrived later to pick him up. Barber is African A m eri­ can, 5 ’4 " and w eighs 135 pounds. He has long hair and a heard. Anyone with infor­ mation is asked to contact Harris at 503-284-3888, or Barber’sex-w ife.Judy Harris, Chester “Ray " Barber at 503-287-8986. Dear Deanna! My m other is driving me crazy because she forgets that sh e 's over 40 trying to dress I ike sh e 's 20 years old. I get tired o f tel I i ng her how bad she looks but the more I tell her, the worse it gets. My boyfriend laughs and thinks it’s cute but it's not. How do I respectfully tell my m other she needs to get her act together? I ’ m afraid she’s going to get em barrassed really bad in public. - PRESENTED BY: -Anonymous; Milwaukee, Wl Dear Anonymous: TUES. - WED. SEPT 19-20, 7:3OPM A R LE N E S C H N IT Z E R C O N C E R T H A LL “The greatest tap dancer ever to lace up a pair of tap shoes” If your m other chooses to look a hot mess, then you should mind your business and let her take the risk o f personal humiliation. It’s not easy because it’s your mom and if sh e’s com fortable and has high self-es­ teem then so be it. H ow ever, if you truly insist on helping her, w hip out your credit card and take her on a shopping spree. If y o u ’re not w illing to do this, button your lips and keep it moving. - G R EG O R Y H IN E S Dear Deanna! My d au g h ter is ca u sin g a sp lit betw een her fath er and me. S h e ’s tak in g the d a d d y 's girl rela tio n sh ip a bit too far. Initially we all w ent along w ith it until my d au g h ter realized her pow er. She has becom e d em anding, forcing my husband to take her side o v er m ine and it's a ffec t­ ing o u r m arriage. My h u sb an d eats it up but he c a n ’t see that my d au g h ter is cau sin g p ro b lem s. He says I'm je a lo u s and it'll be o v er sh o rtly . H ow do I han d le th is? -P a tsy K; Charlotte, NC Dear Patsy: Subscribe online! www.whitebird.org Your daughter d o esn 't pay any bills and with that in m ind, she d o esn 't run any­ thing. You need to put your foot dow n and make your hushand stop playing kiddie gam es with your child. He needs to place the word no in his vocabulary and realize he has a wife w ho is the prim ary decision m aker with equal w eight and power. True, you may be jealo u s but y o u ’re certainly right to close this issue before your h u s­ band finds him self single with an em pty house. Real People, Real Advice I tt advice coin inn known Jar its /earless approach to reality based subjects! Dear Deanna! I'm a single parent at the end o f my rope with my teen kids. I feel as if they've taken me hostage and I’m a slave meeting their dem ands. I go to work and com e hom e to a dirty house and they are always asking for money, clothes and fast food. W hen I try to discipline one child, the others take sides and gang u p o n me. I’ve asked family to help, looked into counseling and my pastor. I feel as if I'm a bad parent with these wild kids. W hat do I do? -Naomi: Birminyham, AL Dear Naomi: It your children are behaving as if they have no sense, you need to put them out. If th ere's no father in the house you can solve that by getting your brothers, uncles and male cousins involved. You need to map out a plan, im plem ent some rules and discipline. If they d o n ’ tg o alo n g with what you say too bad because you’re the parent and the breadwinner. G ive them the option to obey or pack their stuff and get out if they want to play hy their own rules. Ask Deanna is written hy Deanna M. Write Ask D eanna! Email: askdeannal@ yahoo.com or 264 S. DiCieneya Blvd. Suite 128.1 Beverly Hills, C A W 11. Website: