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Ask Deanna'.
to the g ym . I fo llo w e d h im and his
Heal yo u rse lf fro m the inside out,
Y o u r g ra n d m o th e r pushing you
lacks p o lish w hen w e d o thin gs
I f y o u ’ re a fra id o f y o u r g irlfrie n d s
g ym turned o u t to be an apartm ent
cou nt y o u r loss and keep it mov ing.
tow a rds a h ig h e r degree is n ’ t a bad
w ith my frien ds. I w o rry that s h e 'll
b e ha vior in fro n t o f y o u r friends,
pro b le m . It's g ix x l y o u 're not a
say som ething stup id and e m b ar­
you should select new frie n d s o r
user and is w illin g to be concerned
rass h e rse lf every tim e we g o out. I
change y o u r stick in the m ud a tti­
about her finances. T ake the tim e
w ant her to measure up to the wom en
tu d e .
and show y o u r g ra nd m othe r how
in m y c irc le but she refuses and
w om an i f yo u place y o u r so cia l life
to invest w ith the o p tio n that i f you
insists she w ant to be herself. I ’ m
before the relatio nship. D o y o u r­
go back to school, y o u 'll let her
ready to end the re la tio n sh ip be­
s e lf and y o u r date a fa v o r by e n ding
help. T h is w ay she can save m oney
cause m y social life is im p ortan t. -
the re la tio n s h ip and fin d a fo o l lik e
and have hope that y o u 'll com e to
-A n o n y m o u s ; O rla n d o , Fla.
y o u rs e lf to date.
Dear Anonymous:
AvA Deanna is written by Deanna
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c o m p le x. W e argued and instead o f
te llin g me about the apartm ent, he
accused me o f not tru s tin g him .
W hat d o I do?
-B e tra y e d : W in ­
ston-Salem , N .C .
Dear Deanna!
M y g ra n d m o th e r is a sweet, sacri­
fic in g lady that has given me every -
th in g in life to be successful. I'v e
decided that I d o n 't w ant any m ore
Dear Betrayed:
ed uca tion but she insists that I go
I f yo u have to stalk a man and chase
ahead and co m p le te m y M asters
h im d o w n fo r answers, then y o u ’ re
Degree. S he 's ju s t cleared her debt
Dear Deanna!
w ith the w ro n g person. He placed
and paid m y student loans and I
I 'm in a re la tio n s h ip and I th in k m y
the blam e on yo u instead o f co n ­
c a n 't bear to see her struggle again.
b o y frie n d has another life . W e 'v e
fessing the tru th and being honest.
H o w d o I m ake her understand this
dated fo r 2 years and he 's alw ays
H e 's b u rn in g tw o e n d s o f the cand le
w ith o u t h u rtin g her feelings?
w o rk e d th ird sh ift. W h ile on m e d i­
by w o rk in g at nig h t, being w ith one
Teena: O m aha, Neb.
cal leave I n o ticed he never came
w om an in the m o rn in g and being
hom e u n til noon. W hen I asked
w ith you in the evening. D o n 't settle
about this he to ld me that he goes
fo r less because you deserve m ore.
her firs t when i t ’ s tim e to hit the
books again.
Dear Deanna!
—
DearTeena:
buy a dog and place it in a dog
I 'm a w h ite c o lla r professional and
sh o w . R e la tio n s h ip s are based
m y re la tio n s h ip is causing p ro b ­
upon personal truth, in d iv id u a l self-
lem s w ith my social life . M y g ir l­
con fide nce and up fro n t character.
Y o u d o n ', d e s e rv e th is
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