J " | J n r t la t t ò ( O h s e r in * v Iuly 26. 2006 Page A5 Ask ö Heat Wave Good Reminder to Plant Trees Tree planting programs promoted Real People, Real Advice An advice colum n known fo r its fearless approach to reality based subjects! Dear Deanna! I was with my ex-boyfriend for over a year until we broke up last spring over a trust issue. We still m essed around over the sum m er although he had a girl­ friend. We got back together but it only lasted a month be­ cause he said he was too busy for a girlfriend. I was heartbro- • ken. I’ve tried to move on but I always find m yself com paring th eo th erg u y s tohim . I'm still in love with him. Should I try to get back with him or move on with my life? —C onfused; On-Line Reader Dear Confused; There's nothing more painful than wanting a man that doesn't want you. H e's given you clues on a silver platter and you need to take notes. He cheated on his girlfriend with you and told you he was too busy for you. This is not the man for you. Place this in your mind and accept the reality so you can get over him. Each time you think you want him, rememberyour bro­ ken heart and think of how you're too good for drama and keep it moving. Dear Deanna! I’m a 47-year old mother of 2 chil­ dren with 3 grandchildren. I'm in a relationship with a recovering addict. I watched him destroy himself and attempt suicide when he was using narcotics. In spite of that and going to and from drug rehab and having nothing, I still gave much love to him. I'm the woman who has seen the tremen­ dous change in this man. He’s now back on top with vehicles, money, attention from women and an ego. I’m fed up because he treats me like nothing and he dis­ respects me. Am I right for moving out of his house? —Miss N.; Buf­ falo, NY Dear Miss N. Money, women and toys can’t replace drug addiction. Your man is being setup by the Devil for a hard crash and burn that's going to rock his world. It’s best you remove yourself because when his chips fall again and they will, it’s going to be ugly. Successful drug recovery is coupled with faith and family and there's nothing but evil in this picture. Leave now and focus on quality time with your family so you can flourish in a new direction. During the so-called "dog days" of summer, the spaces most often coveted by motorists searching for a parking space are those with trees and shade. Yes it's true — while record high temperatures are un­ comfortable, the summer months actually provide a good opportu­ nity to remind people about the importance of trees and tree plant­ ing programs in our cities. Research has shown that trees can help reduce both heating and cooling costs; they save energy through cooling in the hotter months, and provide a windbreak for your home during the winter. This results in burning less fossil fuel for cooling and heating. Strate­ gically placed trees can be as effec­ tive as other energy saving home improvements, such as insulation or the installation of energy-saving windows and doors. In fact, three large trees around your home can reduce air conditioning costs up to 30 percent. Shade trees offer their best ben­ efits when you plant deciduous trees, which shed their leaves dur­ ing winter. These trees provide shade and block heat from the sun during hotter months. By dropping their leaves in the fall they admit sunlight in the colder months. Trees provide sh a d e and a w elcom e relief to the hot tem peratures from sum m er. Place these trees on the south and west sides of buildings. Shade all hard surfaces such as drive­ ways, patios and sidewalks to mini­ mize landscape heat load. Trees remove CO2, providing relief from the so-called "green­ house effect" while releasing the oxygen back into the air. A healthy tree stores about 13 pounds of car­ According to the US Environmen­ bon annually - or 2.6 tons per acre tal Protection Agency's web site, each year. Trees also reduce the planting trees and vegetation is a greenhouse effect by shading our simple and effective way to de­ homes and office buildings. This crease local surface and air tem­ reduces air conditioning needs up peratures. “Planting and maintain­ to 30 percent, thereby reducing the ing urban trees and vegetation re­ amount of fossil fuels burned to quires planning and care. Pall is an pro d u ce e le c tric ity . excellent time for tree planting, and Waiting for Adoption Higher Heating Costs Coming The Oregon Public Utility Com­ mission last week warned to ex­ pect higher natural gas prices this coming heating season. Officials with NW Natural Gas told the Commission they will be filing requests soon to raise their rates between 4 and 12 percent. The com pany passes through their actual cost of purchasing gas without any markup to cus­ tomers. Com m ission gas analyst Ken Zimm erm an said, “ We are con­ tinuing to see a tight supply environm ent and a lot o f fear of future unknowns, which is keep­ ing wholesale prices high. There is also increased pipeline ca­ pacity for delivering gas from the Rocky Mountain and C ana­ dian Regions to the Midwest and Northeast where prices are higher." Natural gas prices have risen steadily for all three gas utilities serving Oregon since 2(X)3. Neighbors’ Night Out at Fernhill Park continued front A3 kids and ad u lts-in clu d in g Henna tattoos and balloon ar, - as well as food and special giveaw ays from local businesses. All entertain­ ment and activities are free and open to the public. For more inform ation, con­ tact Katie U golini, C oncordia Neighborhood Association board m em b er at 5 0 3 -2 9 6 -7 8 3 9 or Anne Rothert, CN A board m em ­ ber, a, 503-493-1938. winter is an excellent time to prune trees. When in doubt about what type of tree to plant or how to pick the most suitable location, contact a certified arborist. Information is also available at the Oregon De­ partment of Forestry's website, at http://www.oregon.gov/ODF/. The Portland band S n e a k in ' Out consisting o f David Gerow. Don H enson and M ike “Cheddar" S ch m itt will perform Tuesday, Aug. 1 in a free Neighbors Night Out concert at Fernhill Park. Elaine is a lover of horses! She recently stated that, “once you learn to lead a horse by a rope, it's easy to walk a dog." Elaine’s smile is framed by sparkling blue eyes, fair skin and straight blond hair. This active girl enjoys the out­ doors and sports that involve run­ ning; she thrives on the individual challenge of running track. Chatty and social, Elaine is also interested in fashion, and appreciates stylish clothing. Having endured many losses, Elaine is working on developing trusting relationships. She would best fit into a family without younger children, but with parenting experi­ ence. Adoptive parents would need to be advocates and assist Elaine in the therapeutic work she has started. Elaine would be a delight­ ful addition to a family. Thischildisoneof approximately 300 Oregon children available for adoption through the slate, gener­ ally because of abuse and neglect. For more information on the avail- Elaine, age 9 ability of this child, or on how to become a foster or adoptive parent, contact the Special Needs Adop­ tion Coalition at 503-542-2392 or DHSat 1-800-331-0503. [NEW S E A S O N S Dear Deanna: I'm 15-years old and I saw my dad for the first time in five years. My dad has a child by my aunt and another one by my mom. Years ago he had me taken from by mom by authorities over a lie. My mom really didn't have parents or sup­ port and she is still suffering. Our family is distant because relatives blame her for everything. I love her and hate to see the trouble this has caused us. I was told by her to forgive them and don't know if I should. —Fatherless 15 YearOld: On-Line Reader Dear Fatherless; Y ou're a very strong girl and it's going to be up to you to bring the family back together. There is a lot o f adult dirty laundry going on that your young mind w ouldn’t understand but y ou'll see things differently when you get older. C ontinue to love and support your m other and follow her guidance o f forgiveness and prayer for your family and your father. Ask Deanna is written by Deanna M. Write Ask Deanna! Email: askdeanna I @yahoo.com or 264 S. DtCieneya Blvd. Suite 1283 Beverly Hills. CA W2 / /. Website: Go-pfam craeu! S a tu rd a y & S u n d a y • 1 1 a m - 5 p m Remember when plums were either red, or black, or yellow. Well, those days are over. This weekend we’re going to do our best to drive you plum crazy! There's a whole other world out there. Taste delicious varieties like Black Amber, Fortune, Laroda, Mariposa, Santa Rosa, Burgundy, Catalina, Red Raven, Wickson, Santa Rosa and more. And if you re not a plum lover, we're going to try and convince you 9 to try a Plucot. We can't tell you how many times we’ve heard “I 1 don't like plums" but after a taste, have turned those same folks ■ into Plucot lovers. This fruit, which is a cross between a plum and 9 an apricot, takes the best of both and makes something even better. We have the most complete Plucot selection north of San Francisco. Compare the Dapple Fire to a Sweet Treat, or to some of the other special varieties we’re bringing in. We'll have them all for you to taste Saturday and Sunday from 11:00am until 5:00pm. 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