^ 'llo r tla n b ©bseruer Page A 8 May 25. 2005 Hennessee to be Installed Church Pastor continued from Front he said. "She’s very much appreciated.” Despite his former eight years o f executive expe­ rience with Nike, Inc., his current roles as chief executive officer and president of Quicktrack, and chair of the Portland Development Commission, Hennessee doesn’t see him self as a major local player. “I see myself as a part o f a much bigger family. I see myself as a catalyst to bring about economic and social change. I’m humbled and honored to be elected and to serve at a time like this,” he said. “My hope would be that w e’ 11 come together even better with a number of efforts to bring churches together, to bring pastors together to create a vision for what w e'd like to see in north and northeast Portland. I’m excited about the church, the possibilities, and the future." The installation celebration will begin Saturday, May 28, during a banquet that also recognizes the Vancouver Avenue First Baptist Church’s 60th anni­ versary. The event will be held at the Holiday Inn Convention Center, 1441 N.E. 2nd Ave., starting at 6:30p.m. Mrs. King, Oregon Gov. Ted Kulongoski and other community leaders and dignitaries will speak during the celebration. Tickets for the banquet can be purchased at any Safeway store ticket outlet for $34 per person. The installation ceremony will commence on Sun­ day, May 2 9 at 3:30p.m. at thechurch. Mrs. King will also attend Sunday’s ceremony. The entire Portland and surrounding communities are invited to partici­ pate in both historic events. For more inform ation, call the church at 503- Rev. Matt Hennessee is the incoming pastor o f Vancouver Avenue First Baptist Church. His personal friend, Coretta Scott King, the widow o f Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., will attend his installment ceremonies this weekend. 282-9496. 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