May 4.2005______________________________ _________ ^ o r t l a n h f f î b s c r u r r ____________________ ____________________________ PaSeA7 "M ee tin g th e a ffo rd a b le h o u sin g n e e d s o f th e com m unity' photo by B ash . C hilders The Jefferson Dancers gracefully bounce, kick and jump their way through a recent performance. Jefferson Dancers Take Stage Facing budget cuts at Jefferson High School next year, 24 youth in the Jefferson D ancers will be looking to keep the organization open anyw ay they can. O pening night o f the Jefferson D a n c e r’s S p rin g C o n c e rt on W ednesday, May 4 will feature a fund-raising gala to help make up some o f these losses. The event, fe a tu rin g a v a rie ty o f dance styles, will be held at 6 p.m. in Brunish Hall on the fourth floor at the Portland C enter for the Per­ form ing Arts. Subsequent perform ances will be held W ednesday through Sat­ urday at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday at 2 p.m. at the N ew m ark Theater, also located at the Portland C en­ ter for the Perform ing Arts on Southw est Broadw ay and Main Streets. T ickets are priced at $11.50, $16 and $20 and are available through T icketm aster at www. ticketm aster.com . Hoping for a Second Chance continued from Front Some of the schools I’ve been to, if we get out at 3:45, at 3:46, the park­ ing lot is clear.” White said staffing is one of the biggest im provem ents for the school. He said more than 70 other discrepencies found by the state are “being worked on with vigor. “We have to get all o f our poli­ cies in place and we’re working on that with a school improvement plan,” he said, mentioning the use of a consultant to work on every single item named. Closure of the school would mean more than losing a desk in a class­ room. “Our students are really attached to our school. They’re attached to our teachers and staff. It’s a special relationship. I've been all over the district and I haven’t seen any­ thing better,” White said. Susan Roberts, mother of a sev­ enth grader at Victory, has been a volunteer at the school since its inception two years ago. “ My perception o f the d iffer­ ence betw een this year and the last year is not only my percep­ tion, but also o f contractors and visitors to the school. T h ere’s been an im m ense difference in student b ehavior,” Roberts said. “I’ve had one contractor say to me this is like night and day. The current staff is amazing. They look at the w hole child rather than just the academ ic side or what they w ant the students to fall into. Dear Deanna! I’m in my last year of high school and one of my girlfriends is ready to quit during senior year. She’s stress­ ing and going through drama over a boy that used her for sex. She doesn’t want to come to school because she can’t stand the sight ofseeing him with another girl. How can I convince her that he’s not worth sacrificing her education? - -Gladys; Natchez, MS Dear Gladys: Slap her upside her head to knock the sense back into her. Your friend is going through the vulnerable stage of puppy love although she’s been dogged by a wolf. Help her make an appointment with your school guidance counselor as well as encourage her to talk to her par­ ents. Continue to be a good friend and encourage her to hang in there because w ithout that diplom a, she'll join the ranks of unemploy­ ment, welfare and if she's lucky— flipping burgers. Dear Deanna! My husband of 7 years left me for a younger woman. He dogged me and broke my heart but I’m over it. The problem is now with this woman. H e’s putting her through the same drama he put me through and she calls me for advice. 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They love the kids, they spend time just talking with them as well He was continually in altercations. as grow ing with them academ i­ His attitude was very angry,” Rob­ erts said. “This year when I walked cally.” Roberts said she chose to have in and saw him voluntarily at Home­ her son attend Victory because “the work Club, that was a major mile­ public schools in our community stone.” She said White has made a major have not taken care of business for a long time. 1 was looking for some­ difference in the feel of the school where he could grow. The current and non-renewal of the school’s staff totally believes in them and charter would be devastating. “It’s more like a family here,” she have high expectations.” said. “We spend so much time ev­ She mentions an example of a eryday together, most of us are student she knows at Victory that’s here more than we are with our undergone a dynamic change in biological families.” the last year. 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Nice 2 bedroom duplex Hardwood Floors in living room Landscaping maintained by owners Paid water/sewer and Trash serv ice Section 8 okay cheat on anybody and sooner or later, he'll cheat on her too. Dear Deanna! My boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me at least 10 times. At first we had an open relationship and we saw other people and later began get­ ting serious about each other. Al­ though he continued to cheat, he showed me love and came home a, a decent time. Now he’s changed and is always around. I love him but I keep thinking about the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater.” —In Love and Confused Dear Confused: Once is too many times for cheat­ ing. You played a part in this drama because of the tone in which this first time I tolerated her because rela tio n sh ip began. He d isre ­ she caught me offguard. I'm at the spected you but you allowed it. point where I’m ready to tel 1 her she Count your 4 years as a learning reaped what she sowed but I can’t experience and find a man that’ll do it. Why? -L eslie; Boston respect you like the deserving queen you are. Y ou're too good to Dear Leslie: be seventh fiddle to a man that’s You can definitely say she got what supposed to be yours. No, he won’t she deserved. I guess your husband stop cheating, so suck it up and saw the grass wasn't greener on the keep it moving. other side. When she calls again, let her know i n your sweetest voice you Ask Deanna is written by Deanna appreciate her seeking your advice M. Write Ask Deanna! Email: but you had enough drama from askdeannal@yahoo.com or 264 both of them to last a lifetime. Share S. LaCienega Rlvd. Suite 1283 some words of wisdom that if a mar­ Beverly Hills, CA 90211. 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