May os. 2004______________________________________ tÜI|e Jìortlanò (ßböeruer____________________________ Page bs R eligion Mothers Worthy of Honor a place to come for rest and love? Yes, our mothers are the ones who watch over us and keep our homes going. A mother knows that the physi­ cal and material needs are impor­ in order are not sufficient. Any outsider could do that. It is the association and relationship she has w ith her children that turns the house into a home. M others are generous with affection and ent-to- child. She sets a standard for positive parenting by her ow n personal lifestyle. No one else has the influence o f shaping a c h ild 's ch aracter and integrity m ore the than his prim ary ca re­ Mothers today are no longer takers. The Bible says, “ A child sitting by the fireplace or are old at w ithout correction will grow up fifty. Today they are educated, ac­ to hate you." tive, w ide-awake women. They A mother who lives up to all dress in the latest fashions and these ideals and instills in her child hold positions o f responsibility and the love of others and the love of trust in many different professions, God will always leave a beautiful -EthelBates as well at taking care of the home. memory and a living presence with The most popular subject in the her child. world is "home." Songs, poetry tant, but she also knows the most give children the unconditional We praise God for the love and and stories of homes are all around important needs are spiritual. She love that enriches their soul, as care our mothers give us and for us. Many magazines build all their looks upon motherhood as a sa­ C hrist loves you. their wonderful example set before material around how to have a lovely cred trust. M others must also exercise dis­ us day by day. She is a com panion to her ch il­ cipline and teach children self- home. Yet do we real ize mothers are Happy M other’s Day! responsible for al I that makes home dren. She realizes that food and control. She guides the child, Ethel Bates is a minister fo r the a beautiful and lovely place to live. clothing and keeping the house takes tim e each day to talk par- A llen Tem ple A M E Church in northeast Portland. 1W••idr by E thel B ates F orthe P ortland O bserver Advertise with diversity in a 1,1 } J n r t l a n h © b s m u r 503-288-0033 ads@portlandobsei \ er.com C a ll o r e m a il: We praise G od fo r the love and care our m others give us and fo r their wonderful exam ple set before us day by day. Muslim Actor Speaks on Religion Gospel Fest (AP) — Shah Rukh Khan, a Muslim actor married to a Hindu, says his success as one o f India's top movie stars proves India's in­ herent secularism, and urged his com patriots to oppose the misuse o f religion. “The only thing which can stop India from being the greatest su­ perpower in this world is the misuse o f com munalism, misuse of reli­ gion,” the “Devdas” star said in a BBC Asia Today interview. “1 am a walking, talking secular exam ple,” said Khan. “ I am an Is­ lamic hero. My wife is Hindu. My children - 1 always say this openly - they will learn both the religions. There is no difference at all. I would like to teach them Christianity, too.” “I think by nature Indians are very secular," Khan said, “and the biggest case in point is that a Mus- Indian film star Shah Rukh Khan opposes the misuse of religion in dividing people around the world. (AP Photo) lim guy is one of the top stars for the last 13 years. They have accepted me.” More than 80 percent o f India's 1 billion people are Hindu. Muslims are the largest minority, comprising about 14 percent of the population. There have been frequent religious clashes in the past few years, the worst being three months o f rioting in western Gujarat state in which 1,000 people, most of them Muslim, were killed. But the 38-year-old Khan said that unlike some other Bollywood personalities who are campaigning in India’s parliamentary elections, he has no interest in politics. “I am made for making films, 1 am made to act," he said. “My public service is t o ... make a lot of people smile for two and a half hours in a dark room." Hip-Hop at Irvington Covenant Irvington Covenant Church will sponsorits monthly hip-hop church service from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. on Sunday, May 30, at 4008 N.E. Martin Luther King Blvd. The service, which is called RepChrist, will feature talented Christian hip-hop and R&B music. The groups and artist scheduled to perform are from Portland, Seattle and Denver. Admission is free and re­ freshments will be served. All youth and adults are invited to attend. If you have any ques­ tions, contact the church at 503- 287-5226. Beloved Daughter, Friend Dies A memorial service was held Thursday, April 29 in the amphitheater of Mt. Tabor Park for Arleta Claire Holmes, who died April 22 at age 27. Ms. Holmes was bom March 2, 1977, in Eugene, and moved to Portland in 1982. She was a bartender and deejay for Calsport, now Slabtown Tavern, for the last five years. Survivors include her mother, Grace Conners; father, Michael; sister, Melody; and brother Anthony. Arrangements by Emily’s Cremation in Milwaukie. Veteran, Business Owner Dies Herman Brame Herman Brame died April 28. He was bom in Ola, Ark. on May 21, 1918. He was one of I Ochildren bom to Rev. Major Brame and Estella Brown Brame. His early educa­ tion was attained in Morrilton, Ark. public schools where he was also a member of Trinity Methodist CME Church. He served in the U. S. Army during World War II and received the Victory Medal and American Campaign Medal. After his hon­ orable discharge he married Earnestine Dorris and their union produced two daugh­ ters and two sons. He later moved to Vanport, where he worked in the Oregon Shipyard. After the Vanport Flood he moved his family to Portland where he established the Cherry Street Barber Shop, which later moved and became the Tillamook Street Barbershop. He confessed Christ at an early age and in 1948 worked with a small group of Portlanders to begin the founding of Allen Temple CME Church. In 1949, he was a Charter Member of Allen Temple CME, which was incorpo­ rated the same year. Survivors include his wife Earnestine of Portland; two daughters, Estella L. Brame- Spears Sandra M. Brame of Portland; two sons, Hemtan L. Brame and Ricky M. Brame of Portland; and grandchildren, Marcel Brame, Conrad Hurdle, Derrick Brame and Antar Brame, Chere’ Brame and Ricky Brame Jr., all of Portland; one great grand­ daughter Nia Brame of Portland, and a host of other relatives and friends. Arrangements by Cox and Cox Funeral Chapel. Celebrate with great music, food A Gospel Fest, Psalms in the key of “G,” will play for those who enjoy gospel to celebrate A fri­ can- Americans’ rich musical and cultural heritage. Participants can enjoy a tapes­ try of talent from local and na­ tional performing artists, all while enjoying the N orthw est's finest soul food. The festival is at Jefferson High School from 11 a.m .to6p.m . June 19 for $5 for adults and $3 for youth and seniors. For more information, call 503- 2 4 2 -1 9 5 0 or e -m a il reneeward@kksl 1290.com. Licensed Bunded J.R. Washer/Dryer Repair Specialist, Inc. Also F r o n tlo a d e r • S ta c k e d U n its • C o in O p s A ll N am e B rands Used Washer/Dryer: $85.(M) each or $185.00 set 6 month warranty on labor James Richardson (503) 978-2746 I P A U L N A N C E W IL L IA M S M ortgage Consultant P. O. Box 5842 Portland Oregon 97228-5842 Phone: 503 283-8764 Email pweasystreetOl @ msn.com Fax: 289-2576 Serving Oregon and Washington w w w - a m e r i c a l le n d in g .c o in Kunnin^ Ca/e -Ö- eat 'T and Remembering Arleta Holmes R. C uti Overhearing conversations of the last few days, it interests me how one person affects so many. I didn’t know Arleta hardly at all. We said hi-s before the usual exchange of Papst Blue Ribbon business. But she touched a lot o f people in her quiet way, myself included. I’m enjoying hearing about how when Arleta was working, B.C. was charged only nine dollars, for however much he drank. And about the sweet and sour face Arleta made when hercoworkers made her try a shot o f honey Jaeger because they told her that’s what bartenders drank after hours. O f course she knew better, but she humored them. I’m holding on to my only real conversa­ tion with Arleta, talking about her cat one night after I gave her and Brent a ride back to the neighborhood from a downtown show. My heart is breaking for people whom she did let in close; that knew her stories and got her sense of humor. Arleta was a woman of mystery and secret smiles. And I don’t know if things will be different now in that w e'll look in on each other a little more, watch out for each other and agree that we d o n 't have to be sad, even if our bodies haven’t felt the sun in six months, or because w e're tormented artists, writers and musi­ cians. I say this because I know that anyone here would have talked to Arleta and done whatever they could to take her sadness away, had they known that it was closing in on her. I'm going to catch myself at Slabtown now, waiting for Arleta, assuming that if it appears no one is keeping bar, that it’s Arleta’s shift and she’s probably just in the bathroom or eating her lunch in the kitchen. Arleta will be loved and remembered by everyone who knew her and also by those of us that really didn't. CCB# 156837 A M E R IC A V O 7N , E Modem Buddhism A May lecture series on Bud­ dhist Views on 21 “ Century Issues discusses topics such as war and peace, human sexuality, Christian­ ity, science, life and death. The series, which runs through May 27, is at Smith Hall on the Portland State University campus. Lectures are Thursdays begin­ ning at 7 p.m. For more information, call 503- 230-1038. Insured LIKE it J p a rife fe e a n ft C a j u n C u is i n e JU O N E Fremont, 503-282-2118 by J aymee Mother’s Day Speciali i Free haircut and conditioner with any hairstyle! Tou've tried the rest, now try the best. Ethel Bates is a master hair technician with expertise in press and curl, color, chemical rearrangers, relaxers, style cuts and fla t iron styling. Me’Rae’s Multicultural Full Service Salon on Northeast 42nd Avenue. Ethel Bates 5852 N.E. 42nd Ave. Portland, OR 97217 503- 287-5258 Living Faith Ministries 1710 NE 82nd (one bkx'k N. o f the M ax, inside the N A TA training room ) Service Times Sunday 10:(M)am Wednesday 7:00 pm Everyone Welcome! P.O Box 11648 Portland, OR 97211 503-284-8527 D avid A Sherrie Littleton Pastors “The Just Shall Live By Faith Romans 1:17