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sonal questions about sexuality,
relationships, coming-out experi­
ences, HIV and other topics fans
are eager to get his input on.
"I get all these people telling me,
‘I want to be like you,’” he said.
“ It’s great to be a role model, but it
was nothing I ever meant to be. At
first I was scared, but it made me
realize I had better be able to live
what I’m talking.”
Cook said his most important
m entoring engagem ent is with
W om en's Intercommunity AIDS
Resource, a northeast Portland
group that provides services for
women with AIDS and their fami­
lies.
Each year the group sponsors
Camp Starlight, a week long sum ­
mer camp for children aged five
through 17 who are infected with
AIDS or have been affected by
AIDS. Forthe past two years. Cook
has acted as a volunteer counselor
at the camp.
“ I know it sounds so Miss
America, but it totally changed my
from Front
life,” he said. “Going to camp with
these kids really puts the whole
world in perspective - and we have
fun, too. It’s not like we sit around
andsay, ’So,yourmother’sill,huh?’
and stuff like that. No, we have a
blast!”
Camp Starlight brought Cook
some personal introspection.
The realization came when Cook
saw a 10-year-old boy with AIDS
take 10 pills as big as thumb nails
before breakfast. Cook said if that
little boy could choke down those
pills each day without complain­
ing, he figured he should be able to
better maintain a positive outlook
on life.
“ If that little boy can deal with
this disease,” Cook said. “ I should
be able to deal with my ex-boy­
friend being ajerk .”
After that defining moment. Cook
vowed to quit worrying about nega­
tive things. He took stock o f the
good things in his life and elimi­
nated the bad things, like recre­
ational drugs and drinking too much.
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Now every time he makes a deci­
sion, Cook stops and asks if he
would be embarrassed if a camper
or their parents saw him.
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Camp Starlight also caused him
to slow down and spend some time
thinking about where he came from
and who he wanted to be.
Cook w as born near Santa
Monica, Calif, to an African Ameri­
can father and a Mexican-Indian
mother. He said the family moved
from "a multicultural middle-class
melting pot o f everything” to outer
northeast Portland when he was 11.
He and his sister were usually the
only African Americans in his
classes at Parkrose.
In high school, he excelled aca­
demically, socially and in extracur­
ricular activities like band, choir
and orchestra. But Cook said he
always felt like there was some­
th in g d iffe re n t
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about him. He had ■
crushes on girls
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fresh air. His family and friends
accepted his sexuality without is­
sue.
“I hear these terrible stories from
kids about their parents disowning
them,” Cook said. “I never had to
deal with that. To this day my mom
still comes to my shows. Nobody
ever had a problem with me, I had a
problem with myself.”
Strangely enough. Cook fixed
that problem and found comfort
with his identity by putting on a
dress.
There w asjust something about
the glitter and the glamour o f drag
that drew him in — the rhinestone
sparkles, the dresses with feathers,
the high-heeled shoes and the
able to appreciate the beauty.”
On another night, Cook raised
his hand when an African Ameri­
can drag queen by the name o f
Rosey Waters asked the audience
if anyone would like to learn the
ropes o f becoming a drag queen
performer.
“1 wanted big hair and big jew ­
elry,” he said. “I wanted everyone
to love me.”
Rosey took him aside and they
made a plan. They spent a Saturday
afternoon putting on make-up.
He said Rosey would draw a line
down the middle o f his face, apply
one side o f pancake foundation,
eye shadow, lipstick and rouge and
he would try to recreate the look on
___________
th e o th e r sid e.
Then they would
wash it offand start
and went to the
all over again.
The drag com ­
prom three times
but said he never
r
munity took Cook
had romantic incli­
in with open arms.
nations tow ards
Other drag queens
women.
lent him old shoes,
“ T h ese d ay s
c lo th in g
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gay is e v e ry ­
feather boas and
w h e re ,” C o o k
Poison Marie Wa­
said. “But at the
ters was born.
time I thought I
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said he never had
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thoughts and feel­
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Cook began envision him self in
What he had a problem with was
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