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Boomers Happy to Help
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Baby boomers in the “sand
wich” years — 45 to 55 — are
crunched by commitments to
their parents and kids, but most
manage with minimal stress,
shows a national survey out to
day.
Contrary to clichés of narcis
sistic boomers, the findings of
the AARP phone survey por
tray the “me” generation as
the “we” generation that gives
freely.
There is a lot of involve
ment with younger and older
generations, according to the
survey:
•70 percent have at least
one living parent.
•44 percent have kids under
21 at home and living parents
or in-laws.
•Some 22 percent identify
themselves as “caregivers” for
older relatives. More than 80
percent give “ interm ittent”
help, such as driving, house
work and checking up on them.
•74 percent say family needs
don’t stress them; 48 percent
wish they could do more for
their parents.
When the going gets rough,
spiritual faith and siblings are
key sources o f help.
Blacks surveyed report the
most stress: O ne-third say
th ey ’re stressed by family
commitments. They have the
most children and are more
likely than whites to be caring
for older relatives.
Racial differences in the sur
vey are partly from econom
ics, says demographer Harold
Hodgkinsonofthe Institute for
Educational Leadership in
Washington, D.C. “ Increas
ingly, the middle class of ev
ery race is living very differ
ently from lower classes,” he
says.
Cultural differences are ap
parent, too: Asian-Americans
are most likely to feel they
should do more for parents —
72 percent feel guilty — but
do the most caregiving, the
survey finds.
B o o m ers’ p a re n ts “ are
healthier than parents used to
be at that age,” so that is help
ing to keep demands down,
says Cornell University soci
ologist Elaine Wethington.
The findings confirm results
from a large MacArthur Foun
dation study of midlifers, she
adds. “ People in the middle
have the most going on, but
they have the best mental
health and the most resources
to cope,” she says.
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