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H T I C 1 Ï S D O NOT N EC ESSAR ILY REFLECT OB R EPR ESEN T THE VIEW S OF
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Responsible Fatherhood
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C harles W ashington
The horror o f unexplained acts
o f public violence is back. Isn ’t it
about time we started looking for
the cause instead o f treating the
symptoms?
I am an international authority
on energy conservation. I’ve pub
lished a couple o f textbooks on the
subject with M cG raw -H ill, doz
ens o f articles, and several com
puter program s. A key part o f the
equation o f conserving energy, in
building A C /heating system s, is
being able to do so w hile m ain
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every available resource to inspire
men to be committed, loving, and
responsible fathers.
The responsible Fatherhood Act
o f 1999 does the following:
Raising awareness about the im
portance o f responsible fatherhood
by authorizing a public aw areness
cam paign, designed by states and
com m unities, to help change atti
tudes, particularly am ong young
m en, about responsibilities that go
w ith fathering a child;
are more likely to fail or drop out o f
school, engage in early sexual ac
tivity, develop drug and alcohol
problems, and experience perpe
trate violence. We have known for
a long time that a child’s success is
greatly influenced by his upbring
ing relationship. Our children need
everyone o f us to com m it to re
building the institution o f father
hood. Black children deserve a
good and constructive relationship
with their fathers. W e m ust use
taining proper air quality. If you
d o n ’t do it right, you save lots o f
energy, but ruin the air we breathe.
I also served on a psychologists
lic e n sin g b o ard in T exas, a p
pointed by G overnor Bush. I pre
sented a technical paper to the
Board mem bers (also published in
Engineered System s m agazine, o f
which I am on the Board o f A dvi
sors) discussing the psychological
side affects o f bad indoor air qual
ity. The causes are simple enough:
oxygen deprivation and carbon
quires the complete volume o f air to
be changed out with 100% fresh air
every fifteen minutes. Many build
ing operators close off the outside
air vents to save energy, thus con
stantly recirculating the existing air
and never introducing any fresh air
to the space. It’s a thirty second task,
to close the outside air vent; and it
can reduce the utility bills by 250%
or more, depending on the season or
location. T hat’s a LOT o f money,
especially for schools struggling to
educate more students, and to pro
dioxide poisoning. T heir sym p
toms can be drastic, how ever:
confusion, poor concentration, all
the way to psychosis.
No one thought m uch o f my
paper at the tim e, w hich was a few
years ago. A fter a spate o f random
violence in schools in the past year,
and now the Texas church m assa
cre, perhaps it’s tim e to look into
the m atter m ore closely. A few
facts and figures on the issue may
bring my point home.
A typical school classroom re
Family Reunions
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can children. 70 percent o f black
children are born to single m oth
ers, and at least 80 percent o f all
black children can now expect to
spend a significant part o f their
childhood years living apart from
their fathers. “ For too long, legis
lators, and policym akers have ig
nored the father/child relationship.
The future o f African American
children depends on society’s abil
ity to reconnect fathers with their
children. According to recent re
search, children with absent fathers
Creating a block grant program
expanding responsible fatherhood
prom otion program s at the state
and local government, civic, chari
table, non-profit, and faith-based
organizations; and
Changing existing federal law to
encourage a stronger connection be
tween fathers and their children
through increased child support to
families and more available train
ing through the Welfare-to-Work
program for low-income fathers.
Random Acts of Violence Explained?
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Nearly 25 million children, more
than one out o f three, live absent
their biological father, and 17 m il
lion kids live without a father o f
any kind. About 40 percent o f the
children living in fatherless house
holds have not seen their fathers in
at least a year, and 50 percent o f
children who do not live with their
father have never stepped foot in
their father’s home. The situation
is even worse for A frican Ameri
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“It’s so nice to see, all the folks
you love together. Simply talkin’
’ bout, all the things that ’ s been going
down. It’s been a long, long time,
since w e’ve had the chance to get
together. Nobody knows, the next
time we see each other, may be years
and years from now.’’ (The O ’Jays,
1975, Family Reunion).
It seems like the older I get, the
more fttnerals that I attend. I am often
introduced to new extended family
members at wakes or I bump into
relatives from my childhood at
sparely occurring occasions ending
with sentiments like. "Our family
really needs to plan a family reunion."
The statement are certainly sincere
when they cone lude with, “Yeah, I ’ 11
give you a c all... stay in touch, let’s
make it happen.” These family get-
togethers just never seem to happen.
W e’ve all become too busy.
Much to my surprise, Sunday,
Aug. 21 marked my in-laws’ first
planned family reunion. The idea
was spawned by two cousins at a
wedding reception and several weeks
later came to fruition. What a bless
ing indeed! But believe me, there
were many issues to be addressed,
some o f which reminded me o f my
own family and likely yours too. What
follows are some brief thoughts on
the planning of this important event.
First, and foremost one needs a
historical perspective regarding the
realities for many families in America
and in the Diaspora. Our family struc
ture was often ravaged by systemic
oppression which altered many of
our kinship patterns. The mere fact
that Black families exist and thrive
today is a testament to their strength,
tenacity, and survival skills. Daniel
P. Moynihan erroneously disavows
this idea in his so-called report on
dysfunctional Negro families during
the 1960’s.
Families coming together for a
spiritual Karamu (fast) makes prac
tical sense. Nations are built on
strong families.
For a successful first event, learn
to plan on a small inexpensive scale.
Remember the goal is to have an
enjoyable gathering. Over time,
your event can develop. Secondly,
old arguments, power struggles, and
some dislike among kinfolk will
likely occur during the planning
phase. These difficulties often run
deep, wide and long. Prayer, time
and deaths may improve things.
Draft your overall plan with the
“doers” o f the family and assign
mutually agreed upon tacks with time
lines. Pay homage when possible to
the wishes o f the elders o f the family.
Select a location/site that increases
the likelihood o f attendance. Cook-
outs held in free public parks may be
favored over rented banquet halls.
Families can simply B.T.O.F.
(Bring Their Own Food) or work out
other inexpensive arrangements.
Certain colors schemes worn for
that day by all family members add
warm touches and makes for great
photographs. Hold off on the print
ing of costly family T-shirts with
logos unless you can get a great price.
Not all family members will buy them,
even if they previously had said that
they would. My in-laws wore black
and white casual. Outdoor attire.
Space will not permit addressing
all o f the details, but there are many
good books and websites on the sub
ject that can help. One point must be
m ade.. .my strong recommendation
is not to serve alcohol on that day.
We all have that “loved/hated” rela
tive that can’t handle the brew. Trust
me, you know the rest o f that story.
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At the end o f the day when I
heard statem ents like, “ le t’s get
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The culminating event for my in
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about 75 people in a circle. The eldest
family member spoke, blessed all o f
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vide higher teacher salaries - all on
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B usinesses are no different.
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