FOCUS April 28,1999 Page9 (Thr VorHanh ------------------------------------------------ Bobv<, Minb & Spirit E v e r y t h in g L ooks PROMising! things. I t’s the o p p o rtu n ity to get dressed up and be glamorous. To for­ get the m undane and think about the future. W hen asked, one Park Rose H.S. senior said, “the prom gives girls the chance to be as beautiful as they can. T hey can dress up in gorgeous gowns, have their hair and make-up done, and be totally pam pered. It’s a chance to feel like Cinderella. And the rom ance around the Prom is em bed­ y J ennifer S traight :EO of I maging R esources C ontributing W riter pring is the season of transfor m ation and the world around S us seems to wake up and shows is its beautiful colors. A nd no other iigh school event is m ore colorful and exciting as the traditional Spring rite ,f passage known as the Prom. Simply mention the word 'prom ' and it con­ jures up images of beautiful young men and women transform ed into the very essence of elegance and celebration. T he Prom , and every decision, conver­ sation, and preparation leading up to the special day, is about transform ing from the everyday to the extraordinary. Nothing plays a bigger part in trans­ form ation th an clothin g , hair, and make-up. For the ladies, what to wear is probably the most im portant deci­ sion to be m ade (next to who you re going with...). A nd on the list of Im por­ tant Dresses, the Prom dress probably ranks second to the W edding Dress. This year, the ballgown is back, like the Cinderella dress with full skirts, boned bodices, small straps, pastel colors. The look is soft, very feminine, and elegant. If such a full skirt style isn’t appealing, then many girls tu rn to the feminine, and elegant. If such a full skirt style isn’t appealing, then many girls tu rn to the sophisticated style of the slim fitting gowns with various types of straps and back styles. However, when choosing a gown, it’s im portant to think about what’s most flattering on your figure, and the most appropriate for who you are. If you’re uncomfortable in your dress, either be­ cause it doesn’t fit or it ‘feels funny’, then you won’t be comfortable throughout the evening. So make sure that the dress you have looks and feels right for you, not because it is the ‘in’ color or ‘hottest’ style. O ther places to check out unique Prom dresses are bridal shops (brides­ maid dresses) and vintage clothing bou­ tiques. And what about that common occurrence, two people w earing the same exact ‘one of a kind’ dress to the same dance? If you’ve purchased a gown at the same well stocked retailer as ev­ ery other young woman in town, then put your stamp of individuality on it through your hair, make-up, accessories, and attitude. If you have a beau tifu l backless gown, you w on’t w ant to hide it by Jennifer Straight specializes in im age management and personal shopping. U Jlouiuny, nu.w .w — w earing your long h air down. There are w onderful crystal barrettes and h air clips that add interest and hold the hair in place, and the traditional dress. socks. socks shoes chignon twisted up is always a classic socks a re not appropriate.. .Remember, elegance is in the details. A nd a word about cor­ sages. If yo u r d ate is w e a rin g a stra p le ss gown, a w rist corsage might be m ore appropri­ ate. O r maybe you could ask her which kind she’d look. Plan to carry a small evening handbag large enough to carry your lipstick, powder, cam era, and money. If you have access to a cell phone, you m ight w ant to consider having it with you as well. A nd a word about your shoes. Wear them before the prom. Make sure the bottom s are scuffed up so you don’t slip. Stretch them out enough that your feet aren’t killing your before you’re finished with dinner. Few things can ru in a great look like a frowning face from the pain of pinched toes. Gentlem en, I’ve not forgotten you! No doubt you will look stunning in a tux, most m en do. If selfexpression is high on your list, have fun with a vest, cum m erbund, and tie. And if you are chooseing to wear a suit instead, make sure the suit and shirt are pressed, and your tie doesn’t clash with your date’s A nd a word on W ear nice dress th at m atch your and suit. W hite p refer. L et h e r know you’ve spent some time th in k in g a b o u t w h at sh e’d like. A nd d o n ’t forget th e sim ple ges­ tu r e s th a t sw eep a w oman off h er feet, like o p e n in g th e d o o r for her. Yum! T h ere’s noth ing sexier th an a m an with m anners! In o u r cu ltu re, the P ro m m eans m an y ded into our culture, from the prom ­ ise of dream dates to finding a soul mate, from moving a relationship for­ ward to starting a new one. W hen the Prom is m entioned, people will always have a story. So, for everyone who have yet to attend their prom , have an in­ credibly fabulous time! Jennifer Straight can be reached at 5 0 3 /4 5 2 -8 9 8 6 o r by e m a il at jgs@teleport.com.