k • a March 24,1999 focus___________ _______ • '/ c ' » » ’ v *z a a,1*’ Î 1* JT • ‘ W OMEN S H IS T O R Y M ONTH THE END OF PATRIARCHY tu ry , th e re is a resu rg en ce o f arch is W om en’s His valuing the fem inine qualities of tory M onth. Currently, q u ie t w isd o m , re c e p tiv e n e ss , women are questioning n u rtu rin g , gentleness and holis­ thinking. Som e in the m en’s Patriarchy as they redefine tic them ­ selves and influence our changing m o v e m e n t a re a w a k e n in g to society. W om en are collectively th e ir own fem inine side to find recognizing their inner masculine balance. T hey are strong by be­ at peace w ith in qualities to achieve balance within in g themselves, but the old images of th e m se lv e s...th e y a re g e n tle r, masculine under patriarchy leave wiser and in touch with feelings. many women conflicted and polar­ D aniel G olem an w rote the book ized. We can define patriarchy as E m otional Intelligence in which “the system of paternal/filial au­ he states th at em otional intelli­ th o rity over th e m a te rn a l and gence is m uch m ore im p o rtan t child like that renders us incapable then IQ in d e te rm in in g success of genuinely loving ourselves and in today’s w orld. T here are m asculine images others. “T his is the definition of Claudio Naranjo in his book, The that are positive and not connected End of Patriarchy and the Dawn­ w ith patriarchy. T he word hus­ band itself means “one who takes ing of a Tri-Une Society. Patriar chy means power and control over. cares of.” He is one who cares for It means a system that does not and cares about his world. He gives value the feminine qualities of co­ all his strength, beauty and wis­ operation, nurturing, surrender, dom to th a t endeavor. A “real trusting, love, compassion. It also m an” is one who has power-in-re- sponse instead of power-over. He does not value the child like quali ties of playfulness, spontaneity, knows himself and has compassion and stewardship as high values. He openness, questioning and joy. U nder patriarchy, women are is not just in this life for himself exploited and m ade depen d en t alone, to accumulate “things” and upon the econom ic support of a ignore his fellow hum ans and the m an. T hey are constantly bom ­ environment. Some men and women in our b arded w ith im ages of the ultra fem inine like a super m odel or society are still jockeying for power. negatively portrayed as posses­ T he equality sought by both sexes sive, seductive, m anipulative or is not the equality betw een the “angry fem inists,” N aranjo states millions of m en and women on th a t he has been exploring for a this planet; that is only the out­ long tim e the view of patriarchy ward appearance. W hat is really as the single root of industrial- happening is not a “battle between m indedness, capitalism , exploi­ the sexes,” it is a war between each tation, greed, alienation, our in­ individual’s masculine and femi­ capacity for peace and the d e ­ nine natures, explains M ichael Katz, a local writer. struction of the n a tu ra l world. N aranjo envisions a tri-une so­ As we move into the 21“ cen­ B y J oy R amos and D iane A dams , M.A. M ciety in which we honor father, m other and child. All three have equal power and c o n trib u te to our m utual well-being. C hildren are m arvelous teachers of tru th , newness, play, spontaneity and freshness. We m ust recognize them in both our laws and prac­ tices. T hey have a com plem en­ tary and harm onizing effect on both m en and women. Like a tr i­ angle, man-woman-child form a stable structure. T he system of patriarchy can only function with the cooperation of women. In the past their coop­ eration was secured by gender in­ doctrination, education, denying women the knowledge of their his­ tory and dividing w om en, one from the other, by defining out­ right coercion; by discrim ination in access to economic resources and political power. For nearly four th o u s a n d years, w om en have shaped their lives under the um ­ brella of patriarchy and they have done so willingly because to step outside of women’s roles m eant terrible consequences. Today, our planet, our peoples, our future depends upon women assuming the right to define our collective values, policies and pro­ cedures. This means redefining all of our societal structures: educa­ tion, economics, politics, religion, social, family and entertainm ent priorities. It begins with women recognizing and affirm ing their worth to hum anity and challeng­ ing the patriarchal system on ev­ ery level. W omen and men of con­ science must unm ask patriarchy, make it visible and in the light of day redefine our world. Benefit Concert High School Band Fund Raiser - $10.00 oer Person Dave Hubbard “From the voice of the California Raisins Comedian: Eddie Lawrence Rap: Rob . Date: Friday Night, March 26, 1999 8:00 PM Location: .• <’***^* ‘V 1 Fort Vancouver High School Auditorium Vancouver, WA \ '"Ÿ*"' • < » ' ît -j» 1 • *-• $ ' - ~