2 J ,e ^orthxnì» (Obscrucr Martig Luthe^ KOtg Jn Special^ Edition^ Jan^ /3, 1999. cn Non-Violence Through Communication Keilisi Gyan Freeman B y K e il is i G yan F reem an When Martin Luther King Jr. stated, “I have a dream ...,” his thoughts were for more than a nighttime occurrence. His vi­ sion was for peace and equality for all races, col­ ors and creeds. His Dream was for all to be peaceful with each other at all levels of society and in all fami­ lies as well. The greatest gift we can give each other as a people would be to be­ gin now to see M artin Luther King Jr.’s dream a living breathing reality. Imagine a world where the words we used came to life. They becam e our brothers and sisters and our parents. The words became our neighbors, our police­ man and our teachers. We saw them as our clerks in our stores and the mayors of our towns. They became the people who read the news to us and our elected officials. W ouldn't you want to see words that were peaceful and nurtured you? That world is already a re­ ality. The letters don’t take on RENT YOUR NEXT WASHER fit DRYER human shape, yet the feelings we put behind those words come to life within the person we speak about in our hearts. How so? If I begin to tell you about a particular race of people and communicate to you noth­ ing but hatred and thoughts of one m an’s com m unication to others about his dislike o f one race of people. Some o f us yet experience violence based on the ideas o f one group against another. Let this be a Season, no, a LIFETIM E o f N on-violence through our expression. Communication is one o f the basic blocks o f any nation. A peaceful form of communica­ tion begins with me, how I ex­ press to my self. That flows out to my family. My family to my neighbors. My neighbors to my community. My community to my town. As a result I have a city that is an example o f non­ violence and soon others begin to build the same way person by person, one by one. M artin Luther King states also: “Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance...” By reading this article you can no longer be called ignorant as regards non­ violent communication. If only one person is moved to adopt this form of expression within themselves and practices it with a passion, at least one other person is bound to notice and the link has been made. The way the quote concludes can have a two-fold effect. He concludes by saying,” ., and conscientious stupidity.” In our time calling another “stupid” may bring a violent reaction, or one of deep awakening. I believe the intent then was as it is now. To awaken in all of us the deepest core o f peace toward ourselves and others. To weed out the tendencies that keep Martin Luther King Jr’s Like a good neighbor, State Farm is there.% vivid dream o f equality and power for all people, a dream that flickers in our minds at night, instead o f becoming a reality that shines in the day where the practice is seen by everyone. How can I remove those habits that hinder me from reaching a stage o f non­ violence? Let the words and phrases you use be a reflection of your com­ mitment to think in a non-vio­ lent manner. W ords such as “ d e a d -lin e ” , “ d e a d -c e n te r” . Phrases with thoughts as, “kill­ ing time,” “killing two birds with one stone” “kill your televi­ sion.” The feelings from words and phrases may influence the young who may not fully under­ stand the thought behind the words in a negative way. How do you explain to a young per­ son what is truly meant, if they love birds and come to tears due to the expression, “killing two birds with one stone?” Open 7 Events as mentioned above do happen. Even as we get older we begin to get callous around the words that describe violence. Conduct your own experiment right now, say the word “dead­ line” and be aware of the feel­ ing behind it. Now say the word “time line” and sense the light­ ness as an after affect. That lightness w ill shine brightly in you if that is your passion. And if not, do not hinder those who are developing the freeness as their passion. “ I have a dream that my four little chil­ dren will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. I have a dream today.” Martin Luther King Jr. shared with us in 1963. Allow HIS vision to awaken your com m itm ent to N onV iolent communication today. Give your power and awareness to the ba­ sic root o f our w orld today... communication. a cvee£! ! ! BIG CITY PRODUCE FROM THE HOME LAUNDRY EQUIPMENT] With option to buy. 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