Portland observer. (Portland, Or.) 1970-current, January 13, 1999, Page 28, Image 28

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M artin L uther K ing Jr. S pecial Edition
Jan. 13, 1999
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The Virtues Project
gist and researcher o f sa­
verywhere our youth
are k illin g th e m ­ cred texts, and John Kavelin,
her brother, a Disney art d i­
se lv e s and each
other. They don’t know rector,
why all met in the P rin ­
cess
Hotel one rainy a fte r­
they are here and what they
noon. Her brother agreed to
can be doing. When children
who murder other children are quit his jo b , sell his house
asked; why? They say, “ I and move to S altspring Is­
don’t know. Why not? I ’m land, B ritish Colum bia with
Dan and Linda. This project
bored.” This means that they
began with D an’s search in
have no meaning in their lives.
Their lives are not carved out the w orld ’s sacred text. It
soon became evident that the
with a passion, a commitment
virtues were the thread o f
to create something good here.
unity throughout all re li­
The Virtues Project was
gions. They began com pil­
born out of a desire to do
ing all the virtues and re ­
something about the rising
violence in and around fami­ lated inform ation and came
up with over three hundred.
lies. Three people Linda
They decided to start with
Popov, a psychotherapist and
fifty-tw
o that were clearly
spiritual director for hospice,
universal
to all religions.
Dan Popov, a child psycholo­
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Each o f these was then care­
fully and simply defined be­
ginning with a quote from
one o f the sacred texts and
ending with an affirm ation.
This became the basis for
the book called The Family
Virtues Guide. Simple Ways
to Brine Out the Best in C hil­
dren. They then took the best
strategies from psychology
re g a rd in g p a re n tin g and
co m m u n icatio n com bined
this with the virtues to c re ­
ate a sim ple, straight fo r­
ward, dynamic training.
T he V irtu e s are g ifts
w ithin, the content o f our
ch aracter, they are the stu ff
from which self-esteem is
created. When we are re ­
sponsible, loving, honest,
The Do Something
Kindness and Justice
Challenge
B y M artin L uther K ing
III
performing Acts of Kind­
n behalf of the ness and Justice in the real
King family, I world.
Last year, students from
want to invite
more
teachers and stu d en ts that 14,000 schools in
across the nation to par­ all fifty states performed
ticipate in the 1999 Do more than 500,000 acts of
Something Kindness & k in d n ess and ju s tic e .
Justice Challenge, an in­ Kariel, age 9, stopped a fight
novative school-based between two of her class­
leadership program that en­ mates. Carla, age 10, vis­
courages students to per­ ited a senior citizens center
form Acts of Kindness and sang songs to the resi­
(helping others) and Jus­ den ts who live there.
tice (standing up for what Khadijah, age 12, stood up
is right) for the two weeks for a friend who was being
fo llo w in g the M artin teased by others.
Every school in the na­
Luther King, Jr. National
H oliday (Jan u ary 18- tion - kindergarten through
high school - can partici­
29,1999).
The Kindness & Justice pate in the Do Something
Challenge is being spon­ Kindness & Justice Chal­
sored by the national non­ lenge. Students simply write
profit organization Do down the Acts of Kindness
Something, which has de- and Justice they perform and
v elo p ed an en g ag in g each school will post their
classroom curriculum to acts on the Internet. After
teach young people the im­ the challenge, students and
portant values of respon­ schools that have done the
sibility, compassion, gen­ most Acts in each state and
erosity, respect, to le r­ in the nation will receive
ance, honesty and moral recognition.
Teachers can register for
courage while encourag­
ing students to put these the 1999 Kindness & Jus­
lessons into practice by tic e C h allen g e on the
O
persistent, jo y fu l, etc., we
have a solid foundation for
self-esteem . T his unique
Project has become so suc­
cessful that people are ap ­
plying it to all m atter situ a­
tio n s. The P o p o v ’s have
tra v e le d th ro u g h o u t th e
world bringing awareness of
the power o f the virtues to
people o f many cu ltu res,
from a m ulti-faith, m u lti­
cultural perspective. They
have seen transform ation in
the lives of individuals, cor­
porations, families and com­
munities.
T he V irtu e s P ro je c t
trainings are packed with in­
spirational knowledge and
skill practice. Participants
learn to remind them selves
to continually honor one an­
o th e r by g iv in g v ir tu e ’s
a c k n o w le d g e m e n t; th ey
come away with a new un­
derstanding o f boundaries
and the skill o f using virtues
to establish good boundaries.
And best o f all they learn to
“ Education in
oup
encourage moral decision
making by using deep listen­
ing, asking “cup em ptying”
questions and acknow ledg­
ing virtues helping others find
their own truth in the context
o f virtues.
The next training will be
given by Barbara Waldron
LCSW, Virtues Project Fa­
cilitator, on Saturday, Janu­
ary 30 and Sunday, January
3, from 9-4 at the Teacher’s
Space. Call Barbara at 503/
285-4663.
time should aim at
nothing less than the renewal of wisdom,
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of a sense o f heautg large enough to
emhpace Loth esthetics and justice.
- D avid C pp
In te rn e t
at
www.dosomething.org or
by writing or calling Do
Something at 423 West
55th Street, 8th Floor, New
York, New York 10019
(Attention; Kindness &
Justice Challenge) 212/
523-1175. Each teacher
who registers will receive
a free Educator Guide with
an age-appropriate cur­
riculum, instructions for
keeping track of students’
Acts of Kindness and Jus­
tice and incentives to en­
courage student participa­
tion.
If students can commit
to one day of kindness and
justice, they can commit
to a week a kindness and
justice - a week becomes
a year, a year a lifetime.
Like my father, I believe
in the power o f young
people to change the world.
Through the Do Something
Kindness & Justice Chal­
lenge, young people can put
into practice the ideals to
which my father devoted
his life. Together, we will
keep his dream of equality
and justice alive.
\ \ h e n e v i l men snout
ugly words of hatred, good men
* must commit themselves to the
<t lories ot love. Where evil men
would seek to perpetuate an
unjust status quo, good men
must seek to bring into being
a real order of ju stice.”
Martin Luther king. Jr.
(ìregory P. Oliveros
Attorney At Law
2161 NE Broadway
Portland, Oregon 97232
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He had the power o f a vision.
W e honor the legacy o f Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
The dreams o f courageous people have endured
through generations.
N o w it is our turn to make a difference
for the future o f our community.
Experience your power in the new millennium.
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