*■<. . . f .**•*■ D E C . 2 3 , 1998 Page A 5 (C lip JJortlanb © bserlier------- ------------------------------------------ Kwanzaa: Celebrate the Days with Meaning B y C lyde W. F ord I first rem em ber celebrating Kwanzaa during the tumultuous 60’ s. A Kwanzaa “industry” has now ma­ tured, boasting everything from Kwanzaa cards to “Kwanzaa Sales” at m ajor dep artm en t sto res to Kwanzaa dolls decked out in African garb. 1 look at these developments with a mixture o f pride and skepti­ cism. On one hand, it is gratifying to see Kwanzaa accepted into Ameri­ can culture. Still, I worry this very acceptance is gutting the holiday of its intended meaning and purpose. I do believe it is possible to celebrate Kwanzaa in a way which keeps the meaning o f the holiday alive in your life. Like any holiday, Kwanzaa is iden­ tified with a set of principles, symbols and rituals. Over the years, I’ve begun to ob­ serve Kwanzaa by embracing the basic principles and symbols, but discarding the “pre-packaged” inter­ pretations and instructions. I begin with Nguzo Saba, the seven daily principles which are the pillars o f Kwanzaa. Rather than just reread the traditional definitions o f these principles, I use each principle as the basis o f a question that I ask myself during Kwanzaa. Day 1 UMOJA(Unity).Umoja,a Swahili word, is also translated as oneness or wholeness and my first question is: How do I experience wholeness and oneness in my life? Here my thoughts turn to my physi­ cal, emotional and spiritual health; my relationship to nature and the earth; and my connectedness to life. Day 2 K U JICH A G U LIA (Self- Determination). This Swahili word has an original meaning closer to self-selection, self-chosen or au­ thentic. I ask m yself on this second day: In what ways am I leading an authentic life? I reaffirm my commit­ ment to try to live my life by the dictates o f my own conscience, and not by dogmas and doctrines sup­ plied to me from some external source. Day 3 U JIM A (Collective W ork and Responsibility). On day three, the question that informs me is: How can I lead a life o f service to others? I would like to feel that the actions I take in my life bring some benefit, no matter how small, to the lives of others. Day 4 UJAM AA (C ooperative Economics). In Swahili the word ujamaa means familyhood, broth­ erhood, and relationship. So, on Beautiful artwork to symbolize Kwanzaa Crossroads Of The Season B y D r . D ominique M arguerite Nested in the word holiday is an ancient meaning, suggesting that these days at the end o f the year “h o ly d ay s” , but also days o f “ w holeness, u n in ju red ” and o f “ good om en.” Yet so much is said by psychologists like me, and other healthcare professionals, about this time o f year being full o f stress and depression. W e giverecipes to “fix” what many people suffer each year as we approach the winter holidays. H ow is it that we have m oved so far away from the ancient meaning o f the season? O r have we? As the days get shorter and fi­ nally begin to lengthen again, we disperse and congregate with oth­ ers in a wide array o f stores, temples, churches, great halls, and homely homes. The rituals and stories told are different from one another, yet they are told with the same convic­ tion year after year, generation after generation. Fam ily stories pass down, adventures and fortunes are announced and weighed, survival is celebrated. How essential it is to so m any o f us that w e take part in traditional holiday activities, and experience the sense that we do indeed belong to a larger human community! During periods o f ritual and tra­ dition, we are held in a state o f this fourth day o f Kwanzaa, I ques­ tion: Who is my family, and what are the important relationships in my life? My definition of family is very broad. It includes my biological and ethnic family, but it extends beyond both to encompass the family of humankind. I reflect upon the sig­ nificant relationships in my li fe and how Love is that important force which binds together all human re­ lationships. Day 5 NIA (Purpose) This fifth day o f Kwanzaa I query: Where do I find meaning and purpose in my life? I want to know to what extent my passions are my pursuits in life. Am I doing the work I love, or the work I must to make a living? How far am 1 living off the mark o f how I would like to live? What changes can I make to alter the course of my life? Day 6 KUUMBA (C reativity) More than simply “making some­ thing,” I prefer to think o f creativity as bringing forth that which has not existed before. When I apply this idea to myself, I can ask on the sixth day: To what part o f m yself must I give birth (create), in order to meet the challenges and promises o f my life? Courage, wisdom, strength, de­ termination, faith, love may be some o f the inner resources I feel must timelessness, an in-between place w here w e repeat the same gestures again and again (exchanging pre­ sents, lighting candles, decorating our homes, going to church, visit­ ing friends and family).Often we do not understand exactly the origin o f our gestures. Do you, for example, know why you hang lights on a tree? They look pretty and very special, but so would snowballs in July. Did you know the evergreen Christmas tree perpetuates ancient Egyptian rites o f death and resur­ rection? O r that Santa Claus is re­ lated to Saturn, the mythical old man and father o f the Greek gods? According to som e accounts, he bring forth. Day 7 IMANI (Faith) Imani has many definitions in Swahili, compas­ sion, conscience, conviction, faith, and kindness. O f all these, compas­ sion touches me most, and I find myself asking on this last day of Kwanzaa: In what ways do I (can I) lead a compassionate life? By com­ passion, I do not mean simply having empathy or sympathy for those less fortunate. Racism, sexism, homopho­ bia, poverty, homelessness, abuse, loneliness, disease, ignorance, grief; these are just a few of the sources of pain and suffering we all face daily in the world and in ourselves. Compassion seeks healing in the face of such pain and suffering. I ponder where I can find that compas­ sion and healing within first, before 1 can offer it to the world outside. When I was approached Kwanzaa in this way, these seven days help set the tone of the year to come, and the life I choose to lead. Clyde W. Ford is the authorofThe Hero With An African Face: Mythic WisdomofTraditional Africa, a book about his personal journey o f dis­ covering meaning and purpose in life through the wisdom of African my­ thology, available January 1999 from Bantam Books and on audio cassette from Highbridge Audio. We are fa m ilia r with the outer world into which we are born, live and die lived in the North Pole and brought with him a sprig o f evergreen and the gifts o f the New Year. In fact, it does not seem to m atter so much that our gestures are fully understood. Setting is equally im­ portant, which is why the rituals and story telling o f our winter holi­ days take place under very specific circumstances with ceremonies seen no other time o f the year. Jung thought that the ancient patterns o f rituals and stories brought us to the crossroads between the rational and the irrational - where the imagina­ tion meets outer reality - and where the human, the finite, the temporal and the infinite (or what some call the divine) are all present. W inter holiday ritual brings us to the cross­ roads between the rational and the irrational where the im agination meets outer reality - and w here the human, the finite, the tem poral and the infinite (or w hat som e call the divin ejareall present. W inter holi­ day ritual brings us to a crossroad in the progression o f time from one year to the next, from dark into light. W e are fam iliar with the outer world into which we are bom , live and die. As w inter sets in, our lives becom e m ore interior and contem ­ plative. W e m ove inside from the w eather, and nights grow longer. A ccording to Native A merican tra­ dition, people “tell stories, dance spirit dances and gather songs and poem s,” getting ready to “live with the spirits all w inter long.” We com e once m ore to a larger world, a world which includes our inner voice and the imaginative. W e are given the opportunity to get back to this place o f wholeness within ourselves, uninjured by the slings and arrows o f life, and see it as a good omen for what will come. This is an opportunity well worth celebrating. Dr. Dominique M arguerite is a Jungian psychologist in private practice and a teacher. She can be reached at 503/699-1664. “ 1 Attention! | City of Portland A § $ & Memo from SOS, an Elf-help program To: Good Little Boys and Girls and Elf-helpers From : Santa, Ms. Santa, and Elves Re: Greetings from North and Northeast Pole SANTA and MRS. SANTA’S ANNUALSLEIGHWTTH SANTA AND SANTA’S WORK­ SHOP ON CHRISTMAS DAY! 3:00-4:00 ELF-TIME! Two Locations for Toys! Portand Miracle Revival Church 4828 N. 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