uu«. « S » V. •» ' « ‘ * < •?< • • * •- . . . r L *■. P age B2 - • • r .ï. J anuary County employee recognized fession It is administered by the National Institute of Governmental Purchasing. Inc., under the auspices of the Universal Public Purchasing Council Candidates must meet spe­ cific criteria established by the coun­ cil including employment, education, purchasing and supervisory experi­ ence. "Earning the designation dem­ onstrates Lawrence’s commitment to education and leadership within the purchasing profession." said Sharon Seekms, president of the National Institute of Governmental Purchasing. Watch for Parks and Recreation brochure The City of Vancouver's winter Parks and Recreation brochure will be mailed Wednesday. December 11 to over 72.(MX) homes in the Vancouver area. The brochure lists classes forevery age and skill level Most classes begin the week ol January 6. Activity sections include pre­ school. teens, youth, over 50. swim­ ming. tennis, sports and special events. Most classes meet at Marshall Center. Bagley Center. Luepke Cen­ ter and schools in the area. People can register lorclasses by phone, fax, mail or walk-in. Visa and Mastercard are accepted. City of Vancouver residents pay a lower fee for classes because their taxes directly support the city's Parks and Recreation Department. Residents in the newly-annexed ar­ eas will be eligible lor lower in-city rates starting January I. Check the brochure for registra­ tion information and class details. "It I don’t fear you, then forget you." The above remark seems to put the problem between black men and women in a nutshell. No matter how we dress up the issue, it can be reduced to the feeling in many by people that makes them want the person they can't have and not want the person who is attracted to them. One might say, in other words, "when I fear you. or fear being re­ jected by you. it messes with my ego. it makes me feel inferior to you. It makes me feel inadequate as a human being. Even though I am angry with you for rejecting me, I can’t feel good about myself until you accept me as a friend by giving me your phone number or by asking me for mine." On the other hand, "when you Winter break program keeps kids busy If you don’t Kids ages six and 12 can perk up school break with fun opportunities from the Vancouver Parks and Rec­ reation Department. Classes meet at Bagley Center meet at Bagley Cen­ ter. 4100 Plomondon. • Catch the wave at Clacka­ mas Aquatic Park. Meet at Bagley Center. Bring a sack lunch and $4 for locker. Monday, December 30.10:00 a m. to 4:00 p in . $30 ($20 city resi­ dent). •W inter Wonderful at Lloyd Cen­ ter. Meet at Bagley Center. Bring a sack lunch. Introductory skating les­ sons, games, make a snowman. Fri­ day, December 27, 11:00a.m. to4:(X) p.m. $30 ($20 city resident). Enhance motorcycle skills in city classes M otorcycle riding and street skills classes for beginners and those who need a skills endorsement to get a license is set at Bagley Center. 4100 Plomondon. The class runs three days, February 27, March I and 2 or March 13, 15 and 16. Class times are Thursdays from 6 to 9 p.m., Saturday and Sunday from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Motorcycles are provided. Bring a valid driver’s license or Washing­ ton permit Required dress includes: over-the-ankle shoes (high tops), long-sleeve shirt and long pants. Class is sponsored by the Vancouver Parks and Recreation Department. Fee is $50. Experienced riders can sign up for two-day safety course. Meet at Bagley Center on Thursday, March 6 .6 - 10p.m. and Saturday. March 8. 8 a.nt.-2 p.m. Must provide own motorcycle in good working condi­ tion and certificate of insurance. Fee is $50. Call 696-8006 to register. lank Of America Travel Card Bank of America announced a new VISA credit card that offers a variety of free travel rewards, including air­ line tickets, hotel accommodations, vacation packages, cruises, weekend getaways, and car rentals. Called Travel Choices, the new card enables cardholders to earn one poinl for every dollar in purchases charged, including points lor balanc­ es transferred from other cards. "We designed the new Travel Choices VISA card to provide cus­ tomers with a wide range of travel benefits and choices," said Stephen B. Galasso. President and CEO of the bank’s credit card subsidiary. Bank of America NA. “With travel rewards that start as low as 4,0(M) points, out customers will be able to take advantage of more affordable vacations." Bank of America is introducing the new Travel choices card on a limited basis through applications in Oregon. Nevada and San Diego, with plans to expand the card to other markets beginning next year. The bank is also testing the card through direct mail solicitations. For as little as 4,000 points, cardholders earn a free one-day car rental from Hertz or Alamo Rent A Car. Rewards for free hotel stays range from 5.000 points for one night at Marriott Fairfield Inns to 10,(MM) points for free weekend nights at Marriott Hotels and Resorts, Court­ yard by Marriott or Residence Inns. Airline rewards range from 25,(MM) points for a free ticket on flights within the continental U.S. to 50,000 points for a free ticket to Europe. All airline travel is booked on major U.S. airlines. At 5.000 points, cardholders can earn a free cruise for any third or fourth person on Royal Caribbean Cruise Line or up to two children free Al 1, 1997 • T he P ortland O bserver Coping: “I Fear You” (0hs£rlring Lawrence Weaver. Clark Coun­ ty purchasing manager, was recent­ ly awarded the Certified Public Pur­ chasing Officer (CPPO) certifica­ tion designation Obtaining the CPPO designa­ tion is the highest form of recogni­ tion in the public purchasing pro­ • • )” >. give me your phone number or ask me for mine, you are actually telling me that you want to get to know me and be my friend This means that you think that I am better than you. This makes me feel superior to you and makes you inferior to me. No­ body likes inferior people. I know 1 don't. Therefore, I don’t like you or want you. I only want people who are superior to me." If you don’t understand this sim­ ple psychology, you are going to have a lot of trouble in the real world of romance. Most people, of course, do understand this psychology and have turned it into a game. They feel that you are going to play it on them, so they play it on you first. Thus, many people actually try to make you feel inferior to them by snubbing you, ignoring you. acting as if they are not interested in you, Let's Talk failing to give you the phone num­ ber, failing to ask for the phone number, telling you only the good things about themselves criticizing you or simply playing “hard-lo-gel". I could goon and on. It’s basical­ ly a war with few rules and few winners Most people play it. Those who don’t get hurt. Even most of those who play the game get hurt because they want you only as long as you reject them; only as long as they can’t have you. Unfortunately, you are basically the same way. You want the other person only as long as they reject you. As soon as they submit to you, you don't want them anymore. It's a “crazy" psychology for insecure people. The name of this psycho­ logical game is "I love you, if 1 can’t have you. but I don’t like you, if I can have you.” Learning Together Works w ant to fi housing discri for ye1 do it for your kids. Don't just find another apartment, call another mortgage lender, or talk with a d iffe re n t insurance agent Ig n o rin g housing discrimination won't make it go away. You need to report it. It's illegal to consider race, color, religion, national origin, sex, disability or family status in rental, sales, lending or homeowner's insurance decisions. with two paying adults on Carnival Cruise Lines. Accumulating 40,(MM) points earns a f ree three-night cruise for two on Carnival Cruise Lines, Norwegian Cruise Line or Royal EQUAL HOUSING Caribbean Cruise Line. OPPORTUNITY Cardholders can earn up to a max­ FAIR HOUSING IS THE LAW! If you suspect unfair housing practices, contact imum of 60.(MM) points annually and HUD or your local Fair Housing Center. simply call a toll-free number to re­ U S Department of Housing and Urban Development 1 800-669-9777 • TDD 1-800-927-9275 deem rew ard s In a d d itio n , cardholders receive $ 150,000 of free travel accident insurance. The introductory rate on the new Travel Choices card is a f ixed rate of 9.9 percent APR for the first six months f rom the date the account is opened, af ter which the rate is ad just­ ed quarterly based on the Wall Street Journal prime rate plus 9.99 percent­ The first machine-made paper age points. The annual fee for the bags were created in the 1860s. card is $25. * * * consumers may call 1-800-349- lit - is e d u c a te d w h o k n o w s BofA (I-8OO-349-2632) to receive or complete an application for the w h e r e to f i n d o u t w h a t h e d o e s n 't kn o w . Travel Choices card. Gl When you were a kid, did one of your friends ever help you with a m ath problem ? O r m aybe it was your friend, leaning over to you in a science class to say, “Hey, I don’t get this. Do you?” You did get it, in fact, and you helped your friend to understand it, too. Indeed, those scenarios happened in virtually all o f our school lives. Although it was informal, it was tutoring. It happens alm ost naturally with children in school— whether or not they have been instructed to tutor. Now, in a booklet of compiled research, Tutoring: Strategies fo r S u ccessful Learning, author Je n ­ nifer Fager describes what might he a typical scene in a classroom today with a purposeful tutoring program, and a trained student tutor: One child sighs in frustration as he a tte m p ts a c h a lle n g in g m ath problem. He can't seem to figure it out and looks to the group member next to him. She leans over to see if she can help. She takes him through the problem step by step u n til it "clicks" and h e ’s o ff and running on his own. Once he seems to get it, she only checks o c c a sio n a lly to make sure he is doing it right. Because research shows that an organized tutoring process can be a p o w e rfu l le a rn in g tool fo r all involved, many educators across the N orthw est are putting this tool to use. To help others who would like to know more, Fager pulled togeth­ er a brief “Northwest Sampler” of tu to rin g pro g ram s from A lask a, Id ah o , M o n ta n a , O re g o n , and Washington to tell how they work. The booklet first p ro file s the three types of tutoring: Peer T utoring: The tutor and tutee are about the same age, grade, or a c a d e m ic sta tu s. B oth stu d e n ts “speak” the same language, so in general they tend to feel com fort­ able with this process. C ross-A ge T u to rin g : The tutor is an o ld e r stu d e n t; the tu te e the y o u n g e r. T h is a rra n g e m e n t has many of the benefits of peer tutor­ ing. and it tends to confer status on the younger student who now has an older, higher-status friend. P a re n t/V o lu n te e r T u to rin g : The tutor is an adult from outside the school. Because adult-student pairs are not as likely to become distract­ ed as stu d e n t-stu d e n t p airs, less supervision is needed by the teacher. While schools and organizations don’t implement tutoring programs in the same ways, there are some common elem ents that need tend­ ing so that they are successful. And w hether tutors are kids in fourth grade, or adults well into their for­ tie s, it is c ritic a l th a t th ey a re trained properly. W hile there are many benefits to tutoring, there can be some pitfalls, too. This colum n is p ro v id e d as a p u b lic se rv ic e by the N o rth w e st Regional Educational Laboratory, a nonprofit institution working with schools and communities in Alaska, Id a h o , M o n ta n a , O re g o n , a n d Washington. — G e o rg S in u n el MicroAge announces full technical scholarship The growth of Microsoft W in­ dows NT. Microsoft's Network and Desktop Operating System, is out­ running the number of individuals fluent enough in the software to in­ stall and maintain the technology. Microsoft estimates there are approx­ imately 2.500 Microsoft Certified Systems Engineers (MCSEs) world­ wide. The number of MCSEs needed is expected to grow to 150.000 by turn of the century For that re a so n , M icro A g e Infosystent Services is establishing a series of scholarships for individuals in the Pacific Northwest who w ish to pursue careers as Microsoft Certi­ fied Systems Engineers(M CSEs) and Microsoft Certified Product Special­ ists (MC’PSs). MicroAge is a nation­ al systems integrator and technical training provider specializing in Mi­ crosoft networking and application training. The MicroAge Scholarship program is awarding 10partial schol­ arships to individuals seeking MCSE or Product Specialist certification. Applicants may apply for these schol­ a rsh ip s by contacting MicroAge di­ rectly. MicroAge can be contacted directly by calling 206-637-1056ext. 232 or taxing to 206-637-1079. There are a limited number of applications and scholarships available so inter­ ested parties should apply as soon as possible. Sunset transit center garage topped out Crews completed concrete work on the thud level of the 592-space parking garage at Sunset Transit Center. Only minor concrete work, facades and lighting remain to be finished by Drake Construction Co. The garage will be open for bus commuters this March, with route 89/Rock Creek providing service to downtown Portland. An attendant will be stationed at the garage for security. 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