• • . * • • • '7 v. * ,V. * > .'. r \ î /< . ., A ?.*• »u* • 1 i î ’i i ’* wÂafaWSE»?iSXwfc TiäWFtWWWMKWWBWBBHKÄOBÄBai O ctober 9, 1996 • T he P ortland O bserver P age A4 (E h e y o r t l a n ò ( D h s c r u e r Many veterans unaware of benefits Although over $42 billion were paid out in veterans benefits last year, billions more went unclaimed in the past few years Every year eligibility for and the array o f available benefits are changed and very few veterans or their survivors keep up with the lat­ est rules. Because ofthis, and chang­ es in their circumstances, many vet­ erans, their families and survivors are now entitled to money and other benefits from the government even though they were not eligible in the past. A study group of the Consumer Education Research Center, a 25- year-old national nonprofit consum­ er group found that over one-fourth of the money paid in veterans bene­ fits goes to persons who never served in the armed forces of the United States. Most of these were related by blood or marriage to veterans but many were not. Others were mem­ bers of the armed forces of countries who fourth with us against our ene­ mies. Each year the Center compiles a book describing the latest rules on available benefits and how to qualify for those benefits. The 240 large- page Complete guide to federal and state benefits for veterans, their fam­ ilies, and survivors for Consumer Center, 1980 Springfield Ave, Maplewood, NJ 07040 or by calling 1-800-872-0121. Mr. Robert L. Berko, executive director of the consumer group, says that many survivors of veterans are unaware that they might be eligible to receive money, medical care, edu- cational assistance, help in buying a home or other benefits. In fact, eligibility and benefits change constantly and some people ineligible in previous years are now able to start receiving money. The study found that many peo­ ple are unaware that they are consid­ ered dependents or survivors o f vet­ erans. These include those involved in illegal marriages, those who remar­ ried after the death or disability of a veteran, children bom out o f wed­ lock to a veteran, parents of a veteran and even dependent grandchildren. Any of these may be eligible for benefits. Mr. Berko says that the study ques­ tioned veterans about benefits and found that the majority were unfa­ miliar with most of the benefits now being granted under Federal and state laws. Even veterans now collecting were unaware of other benefits for which they were eligible and could be collecting. For instance, disabled veterans can receive apparel allowances if they use wheel chairs, artificial limbs or any prosthetic device that can wear or damage clothing and, if they have a spouse in need of care, they can receive an allowance to pay someone to provide that care. Few knew that the Bureau of Vet­ erans Affairs is required to send vet­ erans any requests for bids on sup­ plies or labor that are mailed to any other suppliers. Other benefits the consumer found that were little known are: ♦ A veteran (or dependent) can receive up to $83 7 (40% in advance) if he or she will assist the VA in a work-study program while in an ed­ ucational program ♦ Federal agencies are required to establish affirmative action to fa ­ cilitate employment and advance­ ment o f veterans with any degree o f disability. In fact some job classifi­ cations must be filled by eligible vets ♦ Family members o f veterans buried or mentioned on commemo­ rated on Tablets o f the Missing over­ seas are eligible fo r free passports if they say they want to visit these sites. ♦ Disabled veterans can obtain extra compensation o f hundreds o f dollars per month in addition to their 100% disability if they have certain specified disabilities. ♦ In addition, the book includes a complete list o f VA facilities and help to secure the information need­ ed with VA applications “Even though the Congress and the various state legislatures have provided for money and services to be given to veterans and their depen­ dents,’’ Mr Berko states, “unless the people know they are eligible and apply they will not collect anything. Especially, now that benefit eligibil­ ities are probably going to be changed by Congress, it is important to apply and establish eligibility for benefits right now.” As Sen. Bob Dole, a decorated veteran and one familiar with the bureaucracy, says in his foreword, “Mr. Berko’s book goes a long way in helping America’s veterans cut through the red tape so they can receive the benefits they earned and deserve.” Gender battle over remote control Watching television is the domi­ nant leisure activity shared by Amer­ ican couples, but that togetherness can turn sour with a click o f the remote control if conflict arises over whether to watch “Oprah” or Atlanta Braves baseball. Now a new study confirms what most of us have know all along - when it come to the remote, men are almost in control. The study by researchers at Ore­ gon State University found that men are more likely to dominate use of the remote control, more likely to annoy their partners with its use, and more likely to "graze” - skipping from channel to channel in the endless pursuit o f perfect television. Women, on the other hand, are more apt to videotape their show to watch later and, on average, are more likely to say they are happy spending the time together as a couple, regard­ ing’ without talking to their part­ ners,” said Alexis Walker, a profes­ sor of human development and fam­ ily sciences at OSU. “It is,” she added, “a display of “ The most common complaint among women is that men not only dominate the remote control, they engage in ‘unnegotiated channel surfing’ without talking to their partners,” -Alexis Walker. a professor of human development and family sciences a t OSU. less of what is on television. “The most common complaint among women is that men not only dominate the remote control, they engage in ‘unnegotiatedchannel surf- power. And it’s annoying to the part­ ner. Watching television is still a joint leisure activity, but with one person dominating the enjoyment. Men complain, too, but their com­ plaints are usually that the women is talking during a favorite show or that there isn’t anything good on TV.” Walker first presented the find­ ings of her study as the presidential address at the recent National Coun­ cil on Family Relations annual meet­ ing. Holder of the endowed Jo Anne Leonard Petersen Chair in Gerontol­ ogy and Family Studies at OSU, Walker says she was surprised at how little academic research there was on the effect of television on relationships. After delving into the topic, she found that the dynamics which shape societal attitudes and behaviors on gender relations are reflected in the television viewing habits of couples. Parents can help improve children’s grades The first report cards o f the new school year are just around the cor­ ner. If grades need some work, pa­ rental support can make a differ­ ence. “Providing structure and express­ ing interest may be the keys to im­ proving a child’s grades,” said Dr. Lou Ann Todd Mock, a psychologist at Baylor College of Medicine in Houston. The first step: talk with the teacher and begin to implement changes at home. One essential is adequate study space with good lighting and few distractions. Mock also encourages parents to set a specific study time. “Allow time for outside play or an after-school snack, but make televi- sion off limits until after homework time,” she said. It might be necessary to sit with a young child just starting a home­ work routine, but pull back as soon as possible so children can learn to work independently. Born in 1904 Gladys Knauls is the Mother o f six girls and one son. Gladys is celebrating her 92nd birthday, in San Jose Cal. along with Paul and Geneva Knauls, Jean Stewart Grand Daughter, Robin Carter and Great Grand Daughter Kassitnira. 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