«MÚEL t ? T ul P orr and l~ k í r ^ r " . • •*- Jl^TO-i-v ; 'T*»-WITZ . - ' •"*•• „.'»•. • »s ' -r- O bserver • N ovember 15, 1995 P age B5 (EI|C IJo rtlan ò (Dhserücr Anti-Violence Education Urged American educators must choose between turning schools into virtual prisons or putting the emphasis on steering students away from guns and fighting, according to a national expert on violent youth Many schools are try ing to solve the problem with security guards, surveillance cameras and metal de­ tectors. "How is America responding to school violence? It's responding as we do to most issues in America - with technology," Syracuse Univer­ sity professor Arnold Goldstein told school psychologists at a recent con­ vention in Florida. Goldstein favors a more com­ plicated approach that combines some security with lots of education to teach students how to act without aggression. An author o f mans books on youth violence, Goldstein also is director o f the New Yo rk State Task Force on Juvenile Gangs and creator o f a 20-year-old curriculum that teaches youth to become less aggres­ sive. Goldstein’s workshops, planned last year, came at a critical time, when the need to find ways to pre­ vent violence in schools is so evi­ dent, said Lissette Villaneuva, a school psychologist. "W e can't close our minds to the fact that children are in desperate need o f learning how to deal with the issues they’re confronted with," Villaneuva said. Educators nationally are buying metal detectors and other electronic equipment after violent incidents. Many school systems are taking even more drastic steps. For example. Goldstein said, a S41 m illion school in Texas was built with security as a primary focus. The school has 37 surveillance cameras. To help administrators and police keep an eye out for trouble, an obser­ vation area was built above the cafe­ teria and other common areas. “ 1 ask you, as we move toward blending schools and prisons, is this the teacher o f the future?’ Goldstein said, turning to a slide that showed a man in riot gear with a helmet and protective padding. Magazines for Ossie Tudman Turns 100! Ossie Tudman recently cele­ brated her 100th birthday at D e l’s Care Center in northeast Portland Tudman was bom Nov. 7,1895 in Texas and moved to Portland in the 1940s. She lived on a farm most o f her life and continues to enjoy being outdoors when the weather is nice. She makes her daily rounds at D el’s, smiling and holding hands with staff. She also enjoys the homemade cornbread and cold milk other resi­ dents prepare in the cooking group. “She also loves hard candy - it always brings a smile to her face," said Karen Jenkins, activity director. Happy Birthday, Ossie! Ossie Tudman Shoppers Get Help From Charity Store Holiday shoppers w ill get a help­ ing hand this year, courtesy o f Our Children’s Store, a seasonal store open through the holidays with pro­ ceeds benefiting area children in cri­ sis. The store’s “Take 5” program promises to help shoppers find "Five gifts in five minutes” and still have time for lunch. In-store shopping as­ sistants w ill be available at the outlet on the third floor o f the Galleria. Merchandise w ill be arranged by price range, age and gender appro­ priateness Every children's store receipt will entitle shoppers to lunch dis­ counts at participating Galleria res­ taurants. In lieu o f a discount, some Galleria restaurants are donating a percentage ofsales to Our Children's Store when customers display re­ ceipts from O C S "W e wanted to find a way to m ake h o lid ay sh o pp in g p ain less fo r d ow n to w n w o rk e rs , w ho som etim es have to squeeze a lot into a lunch hour," said Ann C a rt­ er, O C S co -ch a ir. “ By co m b in ­ ing a q u ick in-and-out sh opping experience with lunch disco u nts in the G a lle ria restaurants, we think w e’ve succeeded “ In addition, gifts purchased at Our Children's Store give twice be­ cause all proceeds go to Portland and Vancouver area children in c r is is ," Carter said educators urge teachers to buy per­ sonal attack alarms. Schools are re­ moving lockers, hiring more police officers and in many cases, lengthen­ ing the time students are in class­ rooms to keep them out o f hallways where there's more trouble Those actions may reduce the chance for violence, but don’t lead to a lasting solution, Goldstein said. Students learn to be aggressive by what they see around them at school and in society , he said. Schools need to teach students non-aggres­ sive ways to behave. H is curriculum inc ludes exerc ises students do to prac­ tice social skills. Instead o f yelling at a teacher when they’re angry, students prac­ tice how to discuss the situation calm­ ly and rationally. School psychologists said they hope they can convince school dis­ tricts to give them more time for such instruction. "I ve seen a lot more aggressive kids since I started working in schools five years ago,” school psychologist Elizabeth Lebeau said Capitol Hill Elementary Offers Parenting Skills Class Turning Sibling Rivalry into Sibling Harmony and Managing Stress as a Parent are just some o f the topics Southwest Portland par­ ents and community members w ill explore Wednesday (Nov. 15)dur- ing 'An Evening for Parents" from 6:45-8:45 p.m. at Capitol H ill E l­ ementary School (8401 S. W. 17th). Speakers from Western Psy­ chological & Counseling Servic­ es also will discus Homework Has­ sles. Anger in Children and Ado­ lescents and Supporting Yo u r Children Through Divorce The free event is open to par­ ents and neighbors o f Southwest Portland elementary schools in­ clu d in g C a p ito l H ill, Sm ith, Maplewood, Reike, Stephenson, Markham. Bridlem ile. Hayhurst and St. C la ir’s Catholic School. For more information, con­ tact Pam Wilson, child develop­ ment specialist, Capitol H ill E le ­ mentary, 280-6306. With Schools The first annual National Take Our Parents to School Week, Nov. 12-18, promotes the importance o f parent involvement in education - both at home and in school through partnerships with their children's teachers The event is part o f a multi­ year educational awareness cam­ paign, Hand in Hand: Parents, Schools, Communities United foi K ids, jo in tly sponsored by the Insti­ tute for Educational Leadership and the Mattel Foundation. U.S. Secretary ofEducation R i­ chard Riley, mayors, superinten­ dents and celebrities are participat­ Hand in Hand’s eight target cities, where some o f the most com­ prehensive programs are being de­ veloped. include Portland. Birm ing­ ham, Ala.: Los Angeles; Tampa, Fla.: Chicago; New Y o rk C ity; PhiIdelphia; and San Antonio. T ex­ as. "W e strongly believe that par­ ent involvement is the necessary quotient to improve the environ­ ment for learning,” said Joan Dykstra, National P T A President and a National Advisor to the Hand in Hand campaign. "This campaign reflects the Na- tional P T A s mission o f encourag­ ing parents to be involved as first educators in the home, as partners with the schools, and as advocates for all children and youth in soci­ e ty," Dy kstra said The Institute for Educational Leadership is an independent, not- for-profit national organization headquartered in Washington. D C. which seeks to improve policy and practice in public education by de­ veloping and supporting leaders who work together at the national, state, and local levels. ing in special school-based events around National Take Our Parents to School Week in order to high­ light community efforts to strength­ en fam ily involvement in educa­ tion. “ National Take Our Parents to School Week is a time to create or strengthen partnerships in educa­ tion among those who influence a child's academic success the most — families and educators,” said Jill Barad, President and C h ie f Operat­ ing O fficer o f Mattel, Inc. "But sup- If spanking really worked, the United States would hav e one o f the lowest crime rates in the world in­ stead o f one o f the highest, family science students were told at Wash­ ington State University . Joan Durrant, a family studies professor at the U n ive rsity o f Manitoba, reported to W SU stu­ dents on her research on corporal punishment in Canada, weden and the United States. She said study after study correlates physical pun­ ishment with aggressive behavior, not only in childhood, but in the adult who was spanked as a child She said U S. citizens who look at the country’s high reliance on corporal punishment and its high crime rate should realize spanking doesn't work in the long run “ Ifcorporal punishment really worked in terms o f socializing ch il­ dren and teaching them appropriate behavior, you would have a low crime rate,” Duirant said. She also noted that most child abuse starts as discipline. “ B elie f in physical force and being in a state o f high frustration or anger is a fatal combination,” she said Data show that 18 percent o f all child deaths in Sweden were due to family violence in the early 1970s. After the country became the first nation in the world to outlaw spank­ ing, even by parents, the child death rate from family violence dropped to zero. Today, six nations have sim i­ lar laws. Joining Sweden are Nor­ way, Denmark, Finland, Austria and Cyprus. Since Sweden outlawed spanking, use o f alcohol, tobacco and drugs among 15-year-olds has dropped sig n ific a n tly . Teenage crimes such as illegal use o f narcot­ ics and burglary are down 12 percent and auto theft is down 30 percent, Durrant says. Sweden’s murder rate o f teen­ agers has fallen to I out o f 2,000, compared with 2.3 such deaths per thousand in Canada and 16.9 per thousand in the United States, ac­ cording to data for 1990-1991. Durrant says the United States and Canada have laws that condone cor­ poral punishment. Sweden repealed such a law in 1957 and made spanking illegal in 1979. In 1965 she said 53 percent o f Swedish citizens believed spanking is necessary to discipline children. The figure fell to 35 percent in 1971 to 26 percent in 1981 and now stands at only 11 percent. Most people in Canada and the United States take it for gtanted that all children need to be spanked.Durrant is challenging the assumption that spanking is nec­ essary or even good. She believes spanking reflects the value cultures place on children, that Sweden val­ ues them more than Canada or the United States. A 1991 study showed that 93 percent o f U S . parents have received phy sical punishment. 90 percent have administered it,' 87 percent say they approve of spanking and 84 percent agreed with the statement: “ It is some­ times necessary to discipline a child with a good, hard spanking." Durrant is researching links be­ tween attitudes towards corporal punishment and broader cultural State-Of-The-Art The U S. Census Bureau is un­ veiling the state-of-the-art American Community Survey in Portland and Multnomah County . Oregon This is an innovative survey designed to determine the size and make-up o f Am erica's communities every year. Lawrence M cGinn o f the Census Bureau says, “this survey has the potential to change the way federal, state, and local governments con­ duct business because they w ill have accurate profiles o f their communi­ ties yearly. It is an unparalleled op­ portunity for Portland and Mult­ nomah County residents to partici­ pate in a historic event that w ill ben­ efit them.” S p e c ific a lly , The A m e rican Com m u n ity Su rve y w ill enable our leaders to keep up-to-date on our e ver-ch an gin g country, not ll()|)|)l| Thanksgiving Campaign Connects port from the community and corpo­ rate world is critical to parents hav­ ing the time to get fully involved in their children's schools.” Parent involvement in educa­ tion - both at home and in school - is fundamental to children achieving. Yet a recent national survey found that parents of elementary-age kids are highly active in their ch ild 's edu­ cation at home but less involved at school.Lack o f time and understand­ ing o f how to participate in schools are two major obstacles parents re­ port to getting more involved in their children's education. ‘A s A m ericans face busier schedules, and mam. schools face grow ing staffing demands and finan­ cial constraints, kids need the sup­ port o f their families to make their education as enriching as possible," said Michael Usdan. President o f the Institute for Educational Leadership “National Take Our Parents to School Week is a vehicle designed to link parents more closely to school activity and thus foster stronger par­ ent - teacher communication, which is so important to children achiev­ ing." Spanking Linked To Violence ju st at the national level but in A m e rica 's states, counties, citie s and towns as w ell. The A m erican Com m u n ity S u rve y w ill produce current so cia l and econom ic pro­ file s o f com m unities. Fo r exam ­ ple, incom e, poverty and em ploy­ ment p ro files w ill be a v a ila b le every year. N ever before has the C ensus Bureau been able to p ro­ vide local data so frequently. T h is survey w ill enable federal, state, and local governm ents to better understand the needs o f the peo­ ple they serve and ultim ately to plan more e ffe ctiv e ly for the fu ­ ture. So be on the lookout for your opportunity to help Portland and M ultnomah County! B e g in n in g in N ovem ber and over the next year, a random group o f house- views.Her own research shows an adverse correlation between indi vidualism and child welfare. She said the U S. culture has the highest index rating for in d ivid u a lism among 40 countries studied Cana­ da’s individualism index is some­ what lower and Sweden’s is lower yet O f the three countries included in her lecture to W SU students, only the United States doesn't provide public health insurance. Neither Canada nor the United States pro­ vides public child care The United States provides the least parental leave o f the three nations. Durrant says the results are re fleeted in measures o f child well being The U S. infant mortality rate is 9 per thousand deaths, the highest o f any industrialized nation Cana­ da’s rate is 7 per thousand and Swe- den’s, 5 per thousand Results also are reflected in the data on children being raised in poverty Twenty percent o f U S. children are being raised in poverty compared with 9 percent in Canada and less than 2 percent in Sweden Durrant says poverty increases stress and stress is a major compo­ nent in child abuse. The fam ily scientist says Swe­ den is lead ing the way by treating its citizens the way it wants them to treat children. Sweden relies more on education and assistance than on punishment. Durrant believes an important element in Sweden’s suc­ cess in changing public attitudes about corporal punishment and greatly reducing its practice lies in the lack o f penalties in the law against spanking. Survey holds in Portland and M ultnomah C o u n ty w ill receive a q uestio n ­ naire from the U .S . C e n su s B u ­ reau If y o u r household is se le ct­ ed to participate in the A m e rican C o m m u n ity S u rve y, you w ill be asked to com plete this q u e stio n ­ naire and return it to the C e n su s Bureau. The American Community Sur­ vey is initially being conducted in selected ares during 1996 The U S. Census Bureau is planning to imple­ ment the full nationwide program in 1999 Other sites selected for 1996 include two urban counties: Rockland County, New Y o rk, and Brevard County, Florida, and one rural coun­ ty : Fulton County, Pennsy lvania Help plan your com m unity's future Participate in The American Community Survey! Speakers Motivate At Masters Series Guy Kawasaki C ora S m ith Two outstanding motivational speakers were recently profiled as part o f the Masters o f Excellence series at the Jantzen Beach Red Lion O lym p ic speed skater Dan Jansen talked on “G oing for the G old,” in which he demonstrated how 20 years o f hard work paid o ff when he brought home a gold medal in the 1994 Olym pics. I he victory followed several unsuccessful at­ tempts, coupled with family m is­ haps “Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes o ff your goal," he said After failing at the Oly mpics in Sarajavo, losing by 1/16 o f a sec­ ond, his father commented on the importance o f winning - and indi­ cating there was more to life than skating around in circles Jansen advised listeners to take one step at bv Dan Jansen a time - that there was no such thing as setting your goals too high “Getting up and going on, go out there and do the best you can do - vourbeliefsystemmust stay focused You cannot explore the ocean if you lose sight o f the shore,” he said. “ Yo u are never through preparing until you are on the finish line and remember to maintain balance, its important to your success.” Jansen said at his winning mo­ ment. he knew God was by his side Jansen now spends much o f his team teaching, statingthatdreamsdocome true! Guy Kawasaki, author o f “ Sell­ ing the Dream" and “ How to Drive your Competition C razy” was the marketing genius behind A p ple’s Mackintosh computer Kawasaki now spends much of his time teaching the “process o f convincing people to believe in your Les Brown product, company or idea as much as you do.” Customer service is a priority, he said, focus on the customer not fluff. Growing adamant when dis­ cussing the Apple rival. Microsoft, he commented "when pigs floss" will Windows 95 compare to Mackin­ tosh. Inspiring and full o f pep in his presentation, Kawasak i took the au­ dience through the process o f find­ ing a cause, making it grow, and harvesting the results, encouraging anyone without computer skills to learn the process The next series speaker w ill be Les Brown “ It’s Possible - It’s Necessary - It’s Hard - It's Worth It! on Wednesday, Nov. 15 at the Ore­ gon Convention Center at 6 p m . with networking and horsd’oeuvres at 5:30 p m The cost is $129. 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