M ay 11, 1994 • T he P ortland O bserver P age A6 How To Solve Your Problems R obert N. T aylor One of the greatest problems fac­ ing this country is the inability to solve problems. Indeed, most of us do not have new problems in our lives. Instead we tend to be beset by old problems which have simply gotten worse. But in order to better guaran­ tee success in life, you must improve your problem-solving skills. In this week’s column, we will brietly detail how to go about doing just that. #1 Be dialectical! The law of dialectics simply states that every­ thing has at least two reasons for its existence. Thus, there will always be at least two things you must do to solve any problem. Stated differently: Everything has both a “mother” and a “father”. Nothing is the result of just one factor or cause. Therefore, to begin the problem-solving process you must first identify the “two” pri­ mary causes of the problem. There will always be at least two causes. This means you must always adopt a two-pronged approach to solving any problem. Further - and this is a very important point - the two primary causes of a problem will in some way be opposites o f one another and so will the two aspects of the solution. #2 Attack Causes With Their Opposites! this law is self-explana­ tory. Forexamplc, if you havea weight problem, you know the fundamental dynamic is that your body is storing excess fat because you are consuming more calories than your body is burn­ ing. Inother words, the dialectic which is causing the problem is too many calories and not enough exercise. The solution is simple: Eat less and exer­ cise more. This may be a simple ex­ ample, but it drives home an impor­ tant point: You cannot solve or elimi­ nate a problem by attacking the prob­ lem. Y ou must attack the causes of the problem. And you attack causes with their opposites. #3 Maintain A Balanced Ap­ proach! While every problem will have two primary causes, the two are never equal in important. In problem­ solving, “balance” never means 50- by 50. You w ill normally need to do 70% of one thing and 30% of another. Solving a problem is like baking a cake: Not only must you have the right ingredients but you must also mix them in the proper proportions. If you do not, you will not geta cake - at least not a good one. #4 You Bring About Change With Addition * Subtraction! Solingaprob- lem is the process ofchanging a thing or situation from the way it is to the way you want it to be. The process of change is very simple: You change things with addition and subtraction. To change a situation you must either add something to it or subtract some­ thing from it. And since you will be approaching problems in a dialectical way, you will be adding and subtract­ ing. Just remember that all change is brought about by adding something to the situation or subtracting some­ thing from it. Thus, one of your first problem solving question will be “what m ust be added and/or subtracted from this situation to change it (solve the problem). #5 Don’t Fall Prey ToThe Super­ ficial! That which is easily seen (the su*erficial) is almost never the cause of the problem. You must learn to reason backwards from effect to cause. Yes, you must start with the superfi­ cial. But too many people start and end at the superficial. They devise plans to attack the superficial mani­ festations of the problem. Then they are bewildered when the problem does not go away or merely re-emerges in another form. The problem will never be solved if you do nothing but attack its superficial manifestations. Find causes and perpetuating factors and attack them. If you want to discover more about how to solve problems dialecti­ cally, we suggest you send for an excellent guidebook entitled Super Thinking ($7.95) from the self-help group known as the Better Life Club, P.O. Box 28422, Washington, D.C. 20038. This guide details the process for solving problems quickly and ef­ fectively. Camp Scholarships Needed For Low Income Children Donations are needed to send children from low-income families to The Salvation Arm y’s Camp Kuratli this summer. Any size contribution will help a needy child spend a week experiencing nature and making new friends. Each summer, more than 750 low-income children receive full or partial scholarships to atten dCamp Kuratli. Theactual cost per child is $200. Many of the campers come from Portland inner-city neighbor­ hoods and have never before expert- enced the excitementof summer camp. Camp Kuratli is located 22 miles southeast of Portland and offers swim- ming, hiking, sports and arts on 120 acres of wooded slopes. Week-long camps will take place June 24 through August 23. 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