OPINION V • * M M « ». BY C,M, BROOKS deeper involvement and certainly be­ separate accounts or a traditional hus- The most debated issues in my fore a problem arises. This sounds simple band/wife account. Most couples work household when I was growing up were enough, but many a solid relationship today so they have their own money and centered around money matters. My has ended over money because it was separate accounts set up. Having your parent’s verbal rights are forever etched not addressed, or addressed too late, or own checking and savings account in in my memory until this very day be­ because it was not discussed thoroughly addition to a joint account is a wise prac­ cause of their arguments’ repetitive nature: and someone has deviated from the origi­ tice and both can work effectively if one or the other was usually spending nal plans. handled properly. Expenses like rent/ too much money. These conversations When discussing finances one mortgage, utilities, and your children’s ranged from the necessity of buying of the first questions you should ask needs can be addressed with a joint ac­ another new car to financing my prep each others is who is going to handle the count. By taking a percentage of each school education to money being money? Should one person be desig- other’s income and placing it into a ‘ ‘wasted’ ’ on evenings out. closely monitored joint ac­ Infrequent as they count, daily needs and expenses were, I learned many a valu­ incurred together can be met. ow a person manages their money able lesson from the way As well as having a joint ac­ and finances tells a story about my parents handled their count, a separate account al­ that individual... money and from their dis­ low a greater sense of free- cussions. The first lesson ______ dom and autonomy that is that I learned was that how needed in any relationship. If a person manages their you want to buy a new pair of money and finances tells a shoes, you shouldn’t have to story about that individual. You can nated to handling expenses, paying bills ask for anyone’s permission to do so. discover what is important to that per­ one time, and suggeting new invest­ And as long as your immediate obliga­ son, what their goals are in life, and you ments for cash surplus? There was a tions have been taken care of there should can even find reasons why a person time when the man handled all the money be no problem. spends too generously or saves diligently. matters because he brought home the Problems surface when plans The second lesson that I have learned is only paycheck or the largest paycheck. haven’t been made. Before you enter that you cannot expect one’s habits to In this day and age, however, it is wiser into a serious relationship discuss how change just because you are in a com­ for both parties to be involved in their fi­ finances will be handled. Set well- mitted relationship or if you are mar­ nances. For your own security, both defined goals together and individually ried. If one spends money life they have people should lake an active role in their and modify them periodically. Priori­ an unlimited, hidden supply of wealth or financial relationship. Knowing what tize which goals are most important and if one tends to be frugal with the funds, has and hasn’t been paid to creditors, then map out steps to how you’ll reach don’t expect that behavior to change what assets you have and what debts you and maintain your goals. once you are well into the relationship. have incurred is important information Like I stated before, this is easier The key to avoiding a misun­ to have if some type of crisis should said than done, because people handle derstanding about finances in a relation­ arise. money differently. But you can save ship is to discuss how you are going to Another question that should your relationship a lot of grief by dis­ manage your funds prior to the onset of be discussed is if you are going to have cussing your financial relationship be­ fore a problem arises. H 1 United Negro College Fund Preparing the Future With Fundraisers The late Frederick D. Patterson, founder of the United Negro College Fund (UNCF), had a vision: He believed that a concerted effort to maintain the economic strength of historically Black Colleges would ensure that deserving students would always have a place to cam a college education. “ By strengthening the resources of historically black colleges," Patterson said, “ we can continue to keep costs down so that students who need institu­ tions of quality, at prices they can afford, will go to them.” The United Negro College Fund was borne of that vision in 1944, and since that time the College Fund has generated millions of dollars for the 41 private, historically B lack colleges and universi­ ties that it represents. Money raised by UNCF, through such special events as the “ Lou Rawls Parade of Stars” telethon on Saturday, December 29, helps member schools to keep tuition low, award scholarships and financial aid to students, expand curricu­ lum and defray operating costs. These are important factors for the 48,000 young men and women who at­ tend UNCF’s schools annually. Students are also enthusiastic about the high aca­ demic standards at these schools, small classes, individualized attention from dedicated professors, and the unique at­ mosphere at historically Black institu­ College Fund alumni are making signifi­ tions. the unmatched characteristics of cant contributions to American society these schools are shaping today’s stu­ in various fields. The success of these dents into the leaders and responsible individuals is testimony to the quality of education that is characteristic of UNCF citizens of the 21st century. schools. A Valuable Asset for the Future Lou Raw ls' Parade of Stars Keeps The standard of living for all Ameri­ the Vision Alive cans in the next century will be affected On Saturday, December 29, the 11th by the full participation of minorities in annual “ Lou Rawls' Parade of Stars” the work force. According to the U.S. telethon will air nationally to benefit the Department of Labor, by the turn of the United Negro College Fund. Some 50 century, more than one-third of the new entertainers from music, film and televi­ entrants into the American labor force sion will participate in the seven-hour will be minorities, of which over half will be Black. A majority of new jobs special, the only national telethon that these workers will hold will require post­ supports higher education. S ince its inception a decade ago, the secondary education. “ Lou Rawls Parade of Stars” has raised Giving Back to America over $77 million in cash and pledges to UNCF’s member schools recognize assist UNCF efforts to keep historically the changing needs of modem society. black institutions viable. Innovative programs at these schools The “ Lou Rawls’ Parade of Stars” help prepare students with the ammuni­ is made possible with the support of its tion they will need to excel in their national and founding sponsor, Anhe­ chosen fields, and ultimately enhance user-Busch Companies, Inc. By under­ the quality of life for all Americans. These programs provide students with writing the production of this year’s tele­ a means of getting practical experience thon, Anheuser-Busch is helping to launch within their chosen fields. They also the second decade of the nationally aired allow them to make contributions to program. The company also, through its society now, while simultaneously en­ Budweiser brand, provides national pro­ hancing their potential and ability to motional, advertising and marketing support. “ give back to America” in the future. A Proven T rack Record A vast number of United Negro Average Gas Prices Fell Slightly, Says AAA Survey The average price of gasoline fell by wo-tenths of a cent per gallon over the last week, according to an Oregon AAA ucl price survey. The average prices of all mini serv- cc grades of gasoline fell slightly during he week, the survey showed. The price )f mini service unleaded regular dropped )y the smallest amount, one-tenth of a Current price averages are listed by cent. This has been the third straight week MINI SERVICE of slowly declining gas prices. The aver­ $1.401 Regular: age price of mini service grades reached $1.442 Unleaded: its highest--$L496--in mid-October. The $1.570 Super Unleaded: average price noted in the Fourth of July survey (the last regular scheduled survey before Iraq invaded Kuwait) was $1.16 age motorists to drive safely and to con­ serve fuel. per gallon. ‘A LL LME ÇOOV O ^LS A ‘J & ‘TA'KLW ’ You’ve just about given up! You’ve tried the dating scene: night clubs, bars, social lounges. All the prospects just were not what you were looking for in a permanent relationship. Please send me more information ana a memoersnip packet, i aon t want to let this unique opportunity pass me by. I have enclosed $2.00 for shipping and handling. Nam e:_______ ______________________________ Male___ Female___ Address: City/State/Zip: I certify that I’m 21 years of age or older, single, and African American. S i g n at u r e: ________ ________________________________________ African American Singles Network, P.O. Box 12514, Portland, OR 97212, (503)293-7979 I____ . . . • • •• BY ULLYSSES TUCKER, J R .___ using his/her economic power for con­ of making large amounts of money and In today’s economic climate, trol or manipulation could eventually being unhappy at home? People need to money is essential to maintaining a cer­ become an issue, especially since the learn to get along and be honest about tain lifestyle or way of life and it is also non-working male is not contributing to their attitudes towards money. Some important for couples to discuss their at­ the bottome line. The working mate can are unconscious spenders and others are titudes about money before a crisis comes control spending, abuse economic power conscious savers. Being honest with up. The economic conditions that couples in the relationship, or make attempts to your mate or sharing individual expec­ arc faced with, in many cases, can deter­ control the other’s self-esteem with guilt- tations can eliminate a great deal o f mine the quality and level of healthy trips about dependency. future tension in a relationship/marriage. interaction in that relationship. Money, It is best, in His opinion, for No one deserves to know about a terrible or the lack of it, can destroy the strong­ each person to have their own economic credit history or a secret fund by acci­ est of unions, marriages, or relation­ and career identity. Yes, a career can dent. Everything should be put out front ships. build positive self-esteem, character, teach and if there is a problem, talk it out. In His Where do we opinion, there arc « get our attitudes two basic schools about money? As M o n e y , o r lack of it, can destroy the strongest of unions... of thought when it this column has comes to couples stated co u n tless and money. First, there is the tradition­ responsibility, and help to develop skills times, you can look as far as your par­ alist: the individual who refuses (for one in specific areas. A woman who can ents and get a general idea about your reason or another) to allow his wife to provide for herself is very attractive to attitude towards money. When discuss­ work because he feels that her place is in me. There are those who wish that they ing economic matters or issues, one must the home. Some women enjoy this role did not have to work at all, let alone their accept the fact that feelings of greed, or lifestyle. It gives them the opportu­ m ate-but the economic realities that self-worth, and survival will come into nity to spend time with their children, go exist in America won’t allow such a play. People have different perceptions shopping, or involve themselves in vari­ luxury. Sure, Michael Jordan’s or Bo about money, as stated, depending on ous civic activities. The second school Jackson’s wives don’t have to work if how little they had or how much they of thought is the dual-income mentality. they feel the need not to, but they are had as a youth. Get to the root o f your Under this premise, both males agree lucky and blessed. Many of us will not mate’s attitude if there is a problem. It that it is best to “ bring home” two be that fortunate. We have to work. could really cost you in the long run if incomes to achieve desired goals or ob­ More importantly, a dual income will you don’t. Though money is an impor­ jectives quicker than a single-income weather an economic storm much more tant element in marriages/relationships, household. If one mate earns S70K an­ easily than one individual, should hard­ collectively happiness and peace of mind nually and the other S60K, the total ships occur: like termination of em­ should not be based on the balance of the income is 5130K collectively. This type ployment, lay-offs, or sickness/injury. bank account. There needs to be more. of marriage promotes friendly competi­ Also, it is important for me in a Not having the money matters correctly tion, collective achievement, and indi­ relationship that we share our good for­ in order can take away from all the other viduality because each is making a con­ tunes, ups and downs, and contribute to things we love and enjoy about each tribution to the total effort. In the first each other’s successes. This goes be­ other. Take care of business first and situation mentioned above, the possibil­ yond economics and into the emotional/ enjoy life/each other later is the lifestyle ity of the mate (be it male or female) spiritual realm because what is the use I desire. HELP WANTED Secretary for private, non-profit or­ ganization. Phone, walk-in recep­ tion plus other office duties. Good comm unication skills, valid drivers license, experience with word proc­ essing and database required. 38 hours/week; $8/hr plus health and pension plan. Job description and application materials available at Southeast Uplift Neighborhood Program, 3534 SE Main. Deadline for resume and completed applica­ tion: Friday, Dec. 7 ,1 9 9 0 ,5:00 p.m. Minorities encouraged to apply. BICC Research Assistant DESCRIPTION: works with physician/ decision scientist to design and evaluate innovative medical out­ comes research project. Other re­ sponsibilities include assistance with data collection and writing technical reports and scientific papers relat­ ing to primary work assignment. Minimum Requirements: Bachelor’s degree in a social sciences disci­ pline with strong background in com puter modeling and/or statis­ tics, or equivalent experience. Must be fam iliar with multivariate meth­ ods and at least one statistical com puting package (SAS, SPSS, SYSTAT etc.). Letter of application and resume should be submitted by December 15,1990 to: BICC Administration/mail code BICC Oregon Health Sciences Univer sity 3181 SW Sam Jackson Park Road Portland, OR. 97201 OHSU is an EEO/AA employer. Community Program Developer The State of Washington Department of Com m unity Development has an opening for a Community Program Developer 2 position within the Employee Ownership Program. This position pays from $2184 to $2795 per month plus benefits. Interested applicants must have a minim um of 5 years education and work experi­ ence in a related field including at least one year’s experience w ork­ ing with em ployee-owned firms or providing technical assistance to businesses. A state application is required and must be received by closing time on Monday December 3. To receive an application and full job description, please call (206) 753-4900. 42 /5 - ’ ¿yf J .S i 4 ■> /■ -. V h -. •. *,/ r i» ’ » . s. , t «• •• <.• r-.. . City of Portland Invitation for Proposals Proposals Due 2:00 p.m. On Various Dates Sealed Proposals will be received at the Bureau of Purchases and Stores, Room 1313, Portland Building, 1120 SW Fifth Ave., Portland, OR., 97204 for the (Com­ modities) (Equipment) (Projects) detailed below until 2:00 p.m. on the dates in­ dicated. Plans and Specifications may be obtained at the above address. For additional information, telephone Buyer at number listed. Unless otherwise stated in the individual proposals listed herein, no proposal or bid will be considered unless accompanied by a bid surety for an amount not less than ten percent (10%) of the aggregate amount of the proposal. The City encourages MBEs and FBEs and will assist such firms to understand and participate in formal bidding process. NON-DISCRIMINATION: No proposal or bid will be considered unless the bidder is certified as an EEO Affirmative Action Employer as prescribed by Chapter 3.100 of the Code of the City of Portland. 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