November 28, 1990- The Portland Observer - Page 3 • Portland Observer by Mattie Ann Callier-Spears Parting Is Such Sweet Sorrow Spears’ home. Close and immediate family members were present at the wedding On Friday, November 16,1990, US and the reception. Their planned wed­ Marine Pfc. Eric D. Spears arrived in ding colors of red, black and white were Portland, on very short notice to his aptly represented in attire, floral and family and his fiancee, DaShawn LaVctie reception decor. Derick, Eric’s twin Templeton. Eric and DaShawn had brother, sang at his wedding. Eric’s mother planned an elaborate wedding, that was and his auntie, Mary Etta Callier-Wells, to take place, on January 12, 1991; but, also provided musical selections. ‘Shawn’s mother, Mrs. Addie Faye President Bush pulled everything to the Templeton, had her hands full. While curb really fast. one daughter was being married in Port­ Eric received orders to go home for land, Oregon, the other daughter was 10 days and then report to North Caro­ giving birth to her first child in Califor­ line’s Camp LeJeune; after which, he is nia. This sounds like the beginning of a to be sent to Saudi Arabia. Eric was all novel: “ A Talc Between Two States” . prepared to go through training and then I don’t envy the Templetons. Edward begin school; not so. His wedding plans and Addie Templeton are the proud par­ had to be altered. ents of four daughters. Daddy stayed in After shocking his fiancee’, her Portland with the two younger daughters parents and his family with his untimely arrival, time and events were sped-up (Amber, 10 and Ebony, 12), took pic­ drastically. He arrived home, Friday the tures at the wedding and reception and 16th; he was married, Wednesday the cooked Thanksgiving dinner the follow­ 21st; he honeymooned from Wednesday ing day. Addie paced the floor of the night to Sunday, November 25th; he left hospital, in California, and periodically for Camp LeJeune on Monday the 26th, relayed messages of her daughter’s prog­ at 10:05 pm via U.S. air. Vip! Vam! ress. Everyone awaited the good news with baited breath. “ It’s a boy! DiJon Boom!! Is this a tragedy? Eric and ‘Shawn Rodney Akard is his name. He weighed thought not. “ We did not want to be so in at seven pounds and one ounce. The new mother, the new baby, the long apart and not be united in holy mat­ new grandparents and the newlyweds rimony.” When asked what had they are all doing fine. And now-just as quickly planned to do about their previous wed­ as Eric arrived, his departure will be as ding plans? Their response was, “ We swift. 'Shawn, a new bride separated are going to postpone the big wedding from her new husband-so soon. Five and reception until after Eric returns. We blissful days...! “ God has not shown me shall continue to pray that w, remain in that Eric and I will be apart for a long God’s plans and not just in ..r own." The private, yet very meaningful, time” says ‘Shawn. “ I know that God wedding was held at the M l Olivet Baptist will protect Eric and return him to me Church, 116 NE Schulyer, and the cere­ safely.” Eric’s older brother, Olf Hansson mony was performed by Dr. James E. Martin. Eric and ‘Shawn are both mem­ and Eric's twin brother, Derick, stood as bers of Mt. Olivet. The ceremony was his best men. Ms. Julie Fehr stood as the followed by a very small reception at the bride’s maid of honor. BY MATTIE ANN CALLIER-SPEARS RELIGION Celebrate Christmas At the Grotto’s Holiday Party r\ Wholesale & Retail Hundreds of Wigs For your everchanging lifestyles • Naomi Sims • Bornfree • Michael Weeks And other name brands Betty Cabine proprietor TUES - SAT Everything from current styles to specialty wigs unique hair ornaments Hair beads & beauty supplies Mrs. C's Ebony Essence Cosmetics BEAUTICIAN Zuri Cosmetics & STUDENT DISCOUNTS BY MATTIE ANN CALLIER-SPEARS (taken from I Timothy chapter 3 & 4) I l is a true saying that i f a man wants The Grotto, located at N.E. 85th and to be a pastor he has a good ambition. Sandy Boulevard, presents the Third For a pastor must be a good man whose Annual Festival of Lights beginning life cannot be spoken against. He must December 13th and continuing nightly have only one wife, and he must be hard (except Christmas night) through De­ working and thoughtful, orderly, and cember 30th. Joyous holiday music, fu ll o f good deeds. He must enjoy having spectacular lighting displays, puppet guests in his home, and must be a good shows featuring the story of “ The Lit- Bible teacher. He must not be a drinker tlest Angel” , and a live animal petting or quarrelsome, but he must be gentle zoo highlight this ecumenical, family and kind, and not be one who loves celebration’s theme of hope, peace and money. love. In addition, over 400 versions of He must have a well-behaved fa m ­ The Lord’s Prayer, beautifully lettered ily, with children who obey quickly and and handsomely illustrated in languages quietly. For i f a man can't make his own from around the world, will be on dis­ little family behave, how can he help the play in The Grotto’s calligraphy Art whole church? Gallery during the Festival of Lights. The pastor must not be a new Chris­ The Festival will be open weeknights tian, because he might be proud o f being from 5 until 10 p.m. and weekends from chosen so soon, and pride comes before 4 until 10 p.m. Admission is $3.00 for a fall-Satan s downfall is an example. adults and $2.00 for children 6 to 12 Also, he must be well spoken o f by people years old. Children 5 and under are free. outside the church—those who aren't Visitors are asked to bring a canned food Christians-so that Satan can’t trap him donation benefiting SNOW-CAP Emer­ with many accusations, and leave him gency Food Ministry, a community ac­ without freedom to lead his flock. tion program serving 45,000 less fortu- The deacons must be the same sort o f good, steady men as the pastors. They must not be heavy drinkers and must not The Festival o f Lights features be greedy for money. They must be ear­ holiday music, spectacular light- nest, wholehearted followers o f Christ ing displays, puppet shows, and who is the hidden source o f their faith. Before they are asked to be an animal petting zoo deacons,they should be given other jobs in the church as a lest o f their character nate families and needy individuals each and ability, and if they do well, then they year in the east county. may be chosen as deacons. Over 50 school and church choirs, Their wives must be thoughtful, not brass and string ensembles, classical heavy drinkers, not gossipers, but faith- performers and gospel singers will per­ form during the 17 evening run of the Festival of Lights, which is expected to attract 30,000 visitors. Strolling carolers and traditional Christmas lighting dis­ plays help provide special moments during this season of thanks giving and family Saturday, December 1: Fiesta Re­ togetherness. sistance, music by Blackfish (hot cajun Public response has been heart­ zydeco!), Mothers of God; clown enter­ warming as children of all ages enjoy the tainment by Angel Ocasio; crafts, peace sights and sounds of Christmas in The fair, fun for kids! It will be held from 5- Grotto’s 62-acre parkland setting during 11 p.m., at St. Andrew’s Community this ecumenical entertainment event. Center, 806 NE Alberta, Portland. The Warm beverages and pastries will cost is $5 cover, $3 for children under 12, be available and add to the seasonal $6 extra for cajun crawfish and gumbo charm of the Third Annual Festival of feast. Childcare will be provided. This is Lights. a benefit for Portland Central America Opening night ceremonies and final Solidarity Committee. Call 236-7916 for entertainment schedules will be forwarded more information. as soon as they are completed. For more information, please con tact Peter Mottat J 254-7371. Fiesta Resistance 281 -6525 7th & Fremont ( 707 N.E. Fremont ) Celebrates Their 9th Church Anniversary Sept. 22nd & 23rd 2 8 4 -7 5 9 4 Up to now, Army Sgt. George Mor­ ris looked forward to honorable discharge in December, and a quiet holiday with his wife, Andrea, and their 3-year-old daughter. On Nov. 25, however, the United Methodist layman risked a prison sen­ tence in defying a military order earlier this month cancelling his discharge and ordering him to the Persian Gulf. Sgt. Morris, 25, a member of Gray­ ling Michelson United Methodist Church, cited religious and moral reasons for refusing to ship out with his unit, after seven years and two hitches in the Army. “ I never killed anybody. I never wanted to kill anybody. And 1 never wanted to be in a situation where I would have to kill anybody,” he told the De­ troit Free Press. According to his pastor, the Rev. Dennis Paulson, Sgt. Morris strongly opposes the current U.S. presence in the Middle East as a “ morally unjustifiable cause,” and denounced the hard line held against Iraqi leader Saddam Hussein, while “ Israel is in the Gaza Strip and Cox Funeral Home, Inc. 281 -4891 34.3 4236 NE Eighth Avenue (c o m « at 8th 4 Skidmor») Portland, Oregon 97211 Elder Leon Brewer Pastor (503) 287-0261 Phillip S. Nelson, Pastor S to n e T ow er C hurch, N.E. S a n d y Blvd. & 3Oth - Make a Decision - "Inquire about the services we offer" other places it has no right to be.” Mr. Paulson counselled with SgL Morris and family, and says he supports the soldier’s decision to object. He hailed his parishioner as a man of conscience, one who had “ served his country admi­ rably” in Germany and other locations. The United Methodist Church sup­ ports “ all persons who make decisions of conscience in regard to military serv­ ice” (1988 Book of Resolutions), both those who choose to serve in die military and those who choose not to serve. For an enlisted officer to apply for conscientious objector status will be ex­ tremely difficult, Pentagon spokesper­ son Lt. Col Joseph Allred reportedly told the Free Press. The two qualifications are total objection to any activity related to war or a more limited objection to bearing arms, Lt. Col. Allred said. Military leaders tend to view a change of heart such of that of Sgt. Morris with skepticism, he said. “ Nobody goes into the military wanting to go to war, but everybody recognizes that is part of the military mission,” he added. /W z ? WE ARE MOVING SUNDAY SERVICES TO We are interested in your problems Soldier Objects to Bearing Arms 100% HUMAN HAIR FOR BRAIDING & WEAVING "Before You Must" prayer. Paul told Timothy if he would ex­ plain these things to the others, he would be doing his duty as a worthy pastor who is fed by faith and by the true teachings he has followed. Don’t waste time arguing over fool­ ish ideas and silly myths and legends. Spend your time and energy in the exer­ cise of keeping spiritually fit. Bodily exercise is all right, but spiritual exercise is much more important and is a tonic for all you do. So exercise yourself spiritu­ ally and practice being a better Chris­ tian, because that will help you not only now in this life, but in the next life, too. This is the truth and everyone should accept it. We work hard and suffer much in order that people will believe it, for our hope is in the living God who died for all, and particularly for those who have accepted his salvation. To all the Christian family m em­ bers, you are being admonished to teach these things and make sure everyone learns them well. Don’t let anyone think little of you because you are young. Be their ideal; let them follow the way you teach and live; be a pattern for them in your love, your faith, and your clean thoughts. Do these things as Paul told Timothy, in his letter. Read and explain the Scriptures to the church; preach God’s Word. Be sure to use the abilities God has given you through his prophets when the elders of the church laid their hands upon your head. Put these abilities to work; throw yourself into your tasks so that everyone may notice your improvement and progress. Keep a close watch on all you do and think. Stay true to what is right and God will bless you and use you to help others. Alten Thuqpte O K Ococráb MT OLIVET BAPTIST CHURCH 2 4 Hr. S ervice fu l in everything they do. Deacons should have only one wife and they should have happy, obedient families. Those who do well as deacons will be well rewarded both by respect from others and also by developing their own confidence and bold trust in the Lord. This letter was written by Paul near the end of his life, and he addressed it to his associate Timothy, whom he had left in Ephesus to correct some problems in the church. By this time, problems had arisen concerning doctrine, church prac­ tice, church government, and various aspects of Christian living. He wrote these things to Timothy so that he would know what kind of men he should choose as officers for the church of the living God, which contains and holds high the truth of God. It is quite true that the way to live a godly life is not an easy matter. But the answer lies in Christ, who came to earth as a man, was proven spotless and pure in his Spirit, was served by angels, was preached among the nations, was ac­ cepted by men everywhere and was re­ ceived up again to his glory in heaven. But the Holy Spirit tells us clearly that in the last times some in the church will turn away from Christ and become eager followers of teachers with devil- inspired ideas. These teachers will tell lies with straight faces and do it so often that their consciences won’t even bother them. They will say it is wrong to be married and wrong to eat meal, even though God gave these things to well- taught Christians to enjoy and be thank­ ful for. For everything God made is good, and we may eat it gladly if we are thank­ ful for it, and if we ask God to bless it, for it is made good by the Word of God and Jesus L o v e s You/ Guest chuches: Sat. Sept 22nd 8:00 pm Highland United Church of Christ Pastor - Rev. C. Prescod - Speaker Sun. Sept. 23rd 3:30 pm Love Temple Church of god in Christ Pastor - Supt. Paul Green - Speaker 1237 NE F a ilin g t (P sa lm s 2 3 From the Pulpit to The Pews THE NEW TESTAMENT CHURCH MRS C’ s WIGS Scripture o f the Ttkdc Worship Services 8:00 A.M. & 11:00 A.M. Church School 9:30 A.M. to 10:30 A.M. Bible Study, Wednesdays. 116 N.E.Schuyler 10:30 A.M. and 6:30 P.M. Radio Ministry each Sunday, 8:00 A.M.-KBMS A Teaching Church With A Reaching Ministry Dr. James E. Martin. Senior Pastor C hurch O ffice 1 1 6 N.E. S ch u y ler, 1 V 1 H T C r H i t i r t i l £ i c r ‘ I i 4 2 2 2 N.E. 1 2 th A ven ue P ortlan d O regon SUNDAY SERVICES Sunday School 9 :0 0 A M M orning Worship 10:30 A.M. Mara oath« School of Ministry 6:30 P.M. Mid Week Service Wednesday 7:30 P.M. M A R A N A T H A Rev Wendell H. Walace Senior Pastor C H U R C H