Page 8, Portland Observer, May 13, 1987
How to Live
With Children
by L Ron Hubbard
Jerry's Low er End
Estate Sales
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• APPLIANCES • TOOLS •
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O P E N S A T S U N M O N 10 6 00
3000 N E Killingsworth • 281 5041
NOTE Have yo u ever n o tice d h o w ch ild re n can b u rst in to tears w h en
yo u 're o n ly d o in g w h a t's best fo r th e m ?
In the fo llo w in g essay L Ron H u bb ard fells h o w you can pre ven t tan
tru m s over b ro ken toys and spilled m ilk a ro u n d the ho lid a ys or at any tim e
o f th e year.
W alnut Park Lock & Key
533 N E Killingsworth^
503-288-6338-
A n ad ult has certain rig h ts a ro un d c h ild re n w h ic h the ch ild re n and
m od ern ad u lts rathe r te n d to ig no re
A go o d , stab le ad ult w ith love and
tole ran ce in his heart is ab ou t the best th e ra p y a c h ild can have
The m ain co n sid e ra tio n in raising childre n is th e p ro b le m o f tra in in g them
w ith o u t bre aking th e m
C hildren are n o t do gs
They c a n 't he trainer) as
dogs are train ed They are n o t co n tro lla b le item s
They are, and le t's n o t ove rlo ok the p o in t, m en and w o m e n
A < hild is
n o t a special species o f anim al d is tin c t fro m M an
A c h ild is a m an or a
w o m a n w h o has n o t atta in e d fu ll g ro w th
H o w w o u ld you like to be pu lle d and hauled and ord ere d ab ou t and re
strained fro m d o in g w h a te ve r you w a n te d to do? You d resent it The only
reason a child "d o e s n 't" resent it is because he s sm all Y o u 'd half m urder
som e bo dy w h o tre a te d you. an adult w ith the o rd ers c o n tra d ic tio n and
disrespect given to th e average child
The ch ild doesn t stnke back because he is n 't big e n o u g h He gets your
flo o r m u d d y, in te rru p ts your nap. destroys th e peace o f the hom e instead
If he had eq u a lity w ith you in the m atter o f rig h ts, he d not ask this re
24 hr E m e r g e n c y S e r v ic e
STEVEN BAILEY. N I).
N ati m » pathh E a . mii y Pin sk ia .\
(5O.1l 2N9 9914
venge " This "re v e n g e " is standard child behavior
There are o n ly tw o reasons w hy a i h ild 's rig h t to de cid e for him self has
to be in te rru p te d the fra g ility and danger o f his e n v iro n m e n t a n d you. for
you w o rk o u t on him th e th in g s th a t w ere done to you . regardless o f w h at
you th in k
More Jobs For Portland's
Teenagers Topic of Supt.
Prophet
E m p lo ym e n t and tra in in g pro
gram s for P o rtla n d 's tee nag ers w ill
be discussed by P ortland Public
S c h o o l's S u p e rin te n d e n t M a tth e w
P rophet at a P ortland C o m m u n ity
S< h o o ls ( lass W ednesday, M ay 13,
fro m 8 9 p m at O ckley G reen M id
die S ch o o l, 6031 N W illis St
Prophet w ill describe cu rre n t ef
fo ils by P ortla nd S cho ols to tra in
and prepare stu d e n ts for w o rk after
g ra d u a tio n
"C e le b rity
tie also w ill describe cu rre n t and
p la n n e d e ffo rts tjy the sch o o l dist
ne t, the P ortla nd P rivate In d u stry
C o u n cil and o th e r o rg a n iza tio n s to
im p ro ve jo b p ro sp e cts fo r teen
agers
Teach In
p ro g ra m th is
spring
in
P o rtla n d
C o m m u n ity
S ch o o ls
Each w eek at least one
P o rtla n d style ce le b rity te a c h e s a
class in one o f P o rtla n d 's 15 com
m u n ity scho ols
P o rtla n d s C o m m u n ity S chools
P rogram is a p a rtn e rs h ip be tw ee n
the sch o o l d is tric t and the C ity of
P o rtla n d Park Bureau
Eor m ore in fo rm a tio n , please < on
tar I M a iy Ellen C o n klin C om m u
nity s i ho ols c o o rd in a to t. 280 5780.
Lianne Forney. Park Bureau com
m u n ic a tio n s . 796 6121, or Bill Gar
b e lt, d ire c to r o f public in fo rm a tio n
and c o m m u n ic a tio n , P o rtla n d Pub
lie S cho ols. 249 3304
Prophet is ■i p a rtic ip a n t in the
D rive O nce a M o n th to Feed
Elderly O nce a Day
The sw eetness and love of a ch ild is preserved o n ly so long as he can
exert his o w n p o w e r o f c h o ice You in te rru p t th a t and. to a d e g re e you
in te rru p t his life
W h e n you give a child so m e th in g it's his It's n o t still yours C lothes
toys qu arters w h a t he has been given, m u st rem ain under his ex< lusive
c o n tro l
So he tears up his shirt
It's n o ne o f your business
H o w w o u ld you like to have som e bo dy give you a C hristm as present and
tell you. day after day the re after, w h a t you are to do w ith it and even
punish you if you failed to cate fo r it th e w a y th e do n o r w is h e s ’ Y ou d
w re ck th a t do n o r and ruin that present yo u k n o w yo u w o u ld
The ch ild w re cks your nerves w h e n you do it to h im
That s revenge
He cues He pesters you He breaks your th in g s He accide ntally spills
his m ilk A nd he wre< ks on purpose th e possession ab ou t w h ic h he is so
o fte n ca u tio n e d
W hy? Because he is fig h tin g fo r his o w n po w e r o f ch o it e his o w n rig h t
to o w n and m ake his w e ig h t felt on his e n v iro n m e n t
This possession
is a n o th e r c h a n n e l by w h ic h he ta n be c o n tro lle d So he has to fig h t the
possession and the co n tro lle r
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On S unday eve ning, Jun e 28 '987 . Les Fem m es w ill present a p p ro xi
m ately 20 d e b u ta n te s and c a v a l,, rs at the 36th an nu al D e b u ta n te Ball
A ro u n d the th e m e
T o d a ys Dream s T o m o r r o w s A c c o m p lis h m e n ts
these yo u n g w o m e n and m en w ill m ake their p u b lic d e b u t ce le b ra tin g their
high sch o o l g ra d u a tio n s and ac h ieve m ents
This year. Les Fem m es have
the d is tin c t ho n o r o f pre sen ting one o f th e Rose F estival Princesses
The ball w ill begin at 7 00 P M at the Red Lion J a n tz e n Beach w ith p ie
sen tation at 8 00 P M
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2 0 1 4 NE 42nd
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mg volun te ers to help w ith the show , th ro u g h a senes of w o rksh o p s held
at P ortla nd Cable A ccess M s S cott a s ta ff m em b er at Cable A c t e s s se e s
the p ro gra m as a w a y to "increase the v is ib ility o f w o m e n 's a cco m p lish
m en ts and fa c ilita te n e tw o rk in g w h ic h w ill p ro m o te fe m in ist hu m an ist
g o a ls ."
Call 249-1940
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Train hirn, c o n tro l him and you II lose his love You ve lost the c h ild tor
ever tha t you seek to co n tro l and o w n You w a n t to raise your < hild in such
a w ay th a t he w ill be in full possession o f him self at all tim es U p o n tha t
depends his g o o d behavior his health, his san ity
rent legislative issues a ffe c tin g w o m en , and w ill answ er qu e stio n s fro m
callers to the statio n
at
As prim ary health care providers we offer a fu ll range of n a turop athic
health care service The n a turop athic physician provides preventative
w h o listic and natural fam ily health care for a w ide range o f acute and
chro nic c o n d itio n s and m in or traum a tic injuries
The fo llo w in g is a list o f services available th ro u g h the clinic Eeel
free to call and discuss your questions about the n a turop athic
approach to health and ho w it applies to you and your fam ily
In raising you r ch ild , you m ust avo id "trainin g him in to a social anim al
Your c h ild b e g in s by b e in g m ote so cia b le , m o re d ig n ifie d th a n yo u are
In a relative ly short tim e the treatm e nt he gets s o i he cks him that he re
vo lts This revolt can be intensified u n til he is a te rro r to have a ro un d H e
w ill be noisy, th o u g h tle ss, careless o f po ssessions, unclean
a n y th in g
in sho rt, w h ic h w ill annoy you
Loaves f t Fishes needs drivers and runners for M eals on W h e e ls W ith
e n o u g h help, m ost rou te s can tie c o m p le te d w ith in 45 m in u te s and you II
be sche du led o n ly on ce a m o n th
As vo lu n te e rs s ta rt spring and sum m er vaca tion s, m ore drive rs .ire need
ed
It ju s t take o n e lu n c h hour a m o n th to feed our h o u se b o u n d elderly
' e a d a y P le a s e i a ll 1 1 c u e s f t f is h e s 7 7 / 2 4 2 4 l . i m l i . n l i ."
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