Page 8, Portland Observer, May 13, 1987 How to Live With Children by L Ron Hubbard Jerry's Low er End Estate Sales • USED FURNITURE • • APPLIANCES • TOOLS • LIGHTS • GARDEN TOOLS • KITCHEN UTENSILS • O P E N S A T S U N M O N 10 6 00 3000 N E Killingsworth • 281 5041 NOTE Have yo u ever n o tice d h o w ch ild re n can b u rst in to tears w h en yo u 're o n ly d o in g w h a t's best fo r th e m ? In the fo llo w in g essay L Ron H u bb ard fells h o w you can pre ven t tan tru m s over b ro ken toys and spilled m ilk a ro u n d the ho lid a ys or at any tim e o f th e year. W alnut Park Lock & Key 533 N E Killingsworth^ 503-288-6338- A n ad ult has certain rig h ts a ro un d c h ild re n w h ic h the ch ild re n and m od ern ad u lts rathe r te n d to ig no re A go o d , stab le ad ult w ith love and tole ran ce in his heart is ab ou t the best th e ra p y a c h ild can have The m ain co n sid e ra tio n in raising childre n is th e p ro b le m o f tra in in g them w ith o u t bre aking th e m C hildren are n o t do gs They c a n 't he trainer) as dogs are train ed They are n o t co n tro lla b le item s They are, and le t's n o t ove rlo ok the p o in t, m en and w o m e n A < hild is n o t a special species o f anim al d is tin c t fro m M an A c h ild is a m an or a w o m a n w h o has n o t atta in e d fu ll g ro w th H o w w o u ld you like to be pu lle d and hauled and ord ere d ab ou t and re strained fro m d o in g w h a te ve r you w a n te d to do? You d resent it The only reason a child "d o e s n 't" resent it is because he s sm all Y o u 'd half m urder som e bo dy w h o tre a te d you. an adult w ith the o rd ers c o n tra d ic tio n and disrespect given to th e average child The ch ild doesn t stnke back because he is n 't big e n o u g h He gets your flo o r m u d d y, in te rru p ts your nap. destroys th e peace o f the hom e instead If he had eq u a lity w ith you in the m atter o f rig h ts, he d not ask this re 24 hr E m e r g e n c y S e r v ic e STEVEN BAILEY. N I). N ati m » pathh E a . mii y Pin sk ia .\ (5O.1l 2N9 9914 venge " This "re v e n g e " is standard child behavior There are o n ly tw o reasons w hy a i h ild 's rig h t to de cid e for him self has to be in te rru p te d the fra g ility and danger o f his e n v iro n m e n t a n d you. for you w o rk o u t on him th e th in g s th a t w ere done to you . regardless o f w h at you th in k More Jobs For Portland's Teenagers Topic of Supt. Prophet E m p lo ym e n t and tra in in g pro gram s for P o rtla n d 's tee nag ers w ill be discussed by P ortland Public S c h o o l's S u p e rin te n d e n t M a tth e w P rophet at a P ortland C o m m u n ity S< h o o ls ( lass W ednesday, M ay 13, fro m 8 9 p m at O ckley G reen M id die S ch o o l, 6031 N W illis St Prophet w ill describe cu rre n t ef fo ils by P ortla nd S cho ols to tra in and prepare stu d e n ts for w o rk after g ra d u a tio n "C e le b rity tie also w ill describe cu rre n t and p la n n e d e ffo rts tjy the sch o o l dist ne t, the P ortla nd P rivate In d u stry C o u n cil and o th e r o rg a n iza tio n s to im p ro ve jo b p ro sp e cts fo r teen agers Teach In p ro g ra m th is spring in P o rtla n d C o m m u n ity S ch o o ls Each w eek at least one P o rtla n d style ce le b rity te a c h e s a class in one o f P o rtla n d 's 15 com m u n ity scho ols P o rtla n d s C o m m u n ity S chools P rogram is a p a rtn e rs h ip be tw ee n the sch o o l d is tric t and the C ity of P o rtla n d Park Bureau Eor m ore in fo rm a tio n , please < on tar I M a iy Ellen C o n klin C om m u nity s i ho ols c o o rd in a to t. 280 5780. Lianne Forney. Park Bureau com m u n ic a tio n s . 796 6121, or Bill Gar b e lt, d ire c to r o f public in fo rm a tio n and c o m m u n ic a tio n , P o rtla n d Pub lie S cho ols. 249 3304 Prophet is ■i p a rtic ip a n t in the D rive O nce a M o n th to Feed Elderly O nce a Day The sw eetness and love of a ch ild is preserved o n ly so long as he can exert his o w n p o w e r o f c h o ice You in te rru p t th a t and. to a d e g re e you in te rru p t his life W h e n you give a child so m e th in g it's his It's n o t still yours C lothes toys qu arters w h a t he has been given, m u st rem ain under his ex< lusive c o n tro l So he tears up his shirt It's n o ne o f your business H o w w o u ld you like to have som e bo dy give you a C hristm as present and tell you. day after day the re after, w h a t you are to do w ith it and even punish you if you failed to cate fo r it th e w a y th e do n o r w is h e s ’ Y ou d w re ck th a t do n o r and ruin that present yo u k n o w yo u w o u ld The ch ild w re cks your nerves w h e n you do it to h im That s revenge He cues He pesters you He breaks your th in g s He accide ntally spills his m ilk A nd he wre< ks on purpose th e possession ab ou t w h ic h he is so o fte n ca u tio n e d W hy? Because he is fig h tin g fo r his o w n po w e r o f ch o it e his o w n rig h t to o w n and m ake his w e ig h t felt on his e n v iro n m e n t This possession is a n o th e r c h a n n e l by w h ic h he ta n be c o n tro lle d So he has to fig h t the possession and the co n tro lle r ISflaV S pe cials $25.00 Full Set Sculptured Nails $30.00 <P,om S pe c.“ " R eg $60 00 rrxprres - v,V S u ite 200 Portland. OR 97217 (5031 289 0205 10 00 a m 6:00 p m • Mon. Sat Featuring the finest in hair care products and cosm etics A t a ffordab le prices 36th A nnual D e b u ta n te Ball On S unday eve ning, Jun e 28 '987 . 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