6A FEATURES TOMORROW’S HOROSCOPE Taking back the car Dear Annie: I am at a loss as to how to get my car back from my mom’s house. A little history first: My brother and his family have lived at my parents’ home on and off since they got married because of financial hardship. I have also lived there at times DEAR during my adult life, but I have some phys- ANNIE ical and mental health issues that preclude my living by myself. And when I did live there, I paid my way. I bought groceries, paid the cable bill or paid for Lane whatever else my folks Annie Creators Syndicate Inc. asked me to. Anyway, I have always had a car. I have made the car payments and the insurance payments and had “custody” of my car except when I have been physically unable to drive. (I have epilepsy, and the state won’t let you drive for six months after a seizure.) A few months ago, I had to move out of my parents’ house and in with my sister for my sanity and space. My brother asked whether he could borrow my car for a few days until he could get his fixed. I said yes, but I let him know that I needed it back after a few days for my own needs. Then my mom started to ask for him, and it has evolved into a situation in which I have had my car for about nine or 10 days out of the past 30. He was supposed to use his bonus check to fix his car but didn’t. Right now, my brother is keeping my car. He argues that our mom is 80 and his wife is extremely ill and they need it in case of an emergency. What am I supposed to do in an emergency? Am I asking too much to have the car I am paying for? — Between a Rock and a Junk Car Dear Between a Rock and a Junk Car: You’ve made my job easy. No, you are not asking too much to have the car you are paying for. I think that at this point, you need to stop ask- ing. Simply tell them. You will be going there to retrieve your car. End of discussion. Dear Annie: My husband and I are having a disagreement on the eti- quette of which family to go to for Christmas dinner. My sister invited us a month ago, and we accepted. Then his family invited us a week ago. I told my husband you go to the family that invited you first. What say you? — Overbooked Dear Overbooked: I second your motion. You already accepted the invi- tation from your sister. To renege now would be rude. It’s as simple as that. THE DAILY ASTORIAN • MONDAY, DECEMBER 11, 2017 By Holiday Mathis, Creators Syndicate Inc. ARIES (March 21-April 19). You are well aware that people have lives outside of the relationship you share, and yet today this fact will present itself in surprising ways within your inner circle. TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Don’t know what to do? A little thing like that shouldn’t stop you. Jump in and start narrowing the field. Just be sure to get out quickly once you realize it’s not for you. Either way, you’ll stumble into luck with this approach today. GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Q: What’s sweet and best served cold? A: Either revenge or ice cream. The former will be on your mind today, not in a vindictive way, just in the way that your success will surely annoy your enemies. CANCER (June 22-July 22). Even though you’d love to do all the things that matter to your dear ones, some of those things are hard, inconvenient or simply not interesting to you. And when you do them anyway — that’s love. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). The gap between the way you are and the way you want people to think you are — well, that’s a discrepancy for the ages. FRANK AND ERNEST BLONDIE THATABABY SALLY FORTH PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN B.C. LOLA DILBERT SIX CHIX BIZARRO MUTTS NON SEQUITUR BABY BLUES WIZARD OF ID ZITS ROSE IS ROSE Since the same is true for everyone you know, why not give yourself a break? You’re human. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). Instead of simply saying “No,” you’ll say it more nicely — something along the lines of “Sorry, it’s not going to work” or “Thanks for asking. Wish I could.” Your good manners and superior language will set you apart as a caring person. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). If you can’t stick with a project, don’t take that as a sign that you’re personally lacking in any way. Take it as a sign that the right solution is still out there. The right solution is one you can stick with. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Those who are fantastic at turning a poten- tially negative thing into an absolutely positive statement are people who you need on your side right now. Find them, and discuss your plans. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). To try and make motivation happen for other people might be pointless. People generally motivate themselves. You can, however, inspire — by what you say, by who you are — and this is what you’ll do. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Be- fore you try to love others in your way you’ll hopefully remember that they can’t comprehend it in that way. Figure out what communicates love in their way, and bring it like that. You’ll be golden. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You’ll gain an advantage in a professional environment. New responsibilities will come with better pay. Tonight: Some- one special will seem to favorably alter the light in the room. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Some live in unimaginable excess, while the lot of millions who are lacking in the basic survival needs is not so difficult to picture. You’ll try to equalize what- ever you can about the world today. Small efforts will count in a big way. TOMORROW’S BIRTHDAY (Dec. 12). Many crave your attention, not least of all you. You may not be entire- ly sure the best way to deliver that, but this solar return is one of experi- mentation and learning how to best support yourself so that you can offer your unique contribution to the world. There’s a mystery to solve in February. A sizable sale happens in April. Leo and Aries adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 3, 28, 20, 47 and 38.