1C THE DAILY ASTORIAN • FRIDAY, JANUARY 20, 2017 CONTACT US Rebecca Sedlak | Weekend Editor rsedlak@dailyastorian.com WEEKEND BREAK The gem of Clatsop County FOLLOW US facebook.com/ DailyAstorian Submitted Photos When the weather is right, Camp Kiwanilong’s Long Lake provides fishing, swimming and canoeing opportunities for visitors. W riter’s N otebook Camp Kiwanilong allows kids to be kids By SUE CODY For The Daily Astorian W hat if there were a place where happy voices echoed in the woods? Where kids could just be kids? Where they could swim, sing silly songs, enjoy a campfi re or paddle a canoe? What if this place were safe and nurturing and available to all kids, regardless of their background, income or abilities? Welcome to Clatsop County, where there is such a place: Camp Kiwanilong. It is the place where Clatsop County history, a founder’s passion and a community’s embrace created a program that instills respect, understanding and confi dence in children. During Kiwanilong’s Summer Youth Program, campers can enjoy fi ve to seven days of overnight camping and activities geared toward having fun, building self-esteem and creating friendships. “Camp Kiwanilong is a gem in Clatsop County,” says former camper and counselor Brooke Duling Stanley. “We are so lucky to have this. The biggest difference is that many summer camps are elitist. They serve the privileged kids. Here, camp is acces- sible to all kids. It puts everyone on an even playing fi eld where they get to have fun.” Without cellphones, computers or tablets, kids explore the outdoors, sleep in primitive cabins and get to know each other. “For a lot of kids, camp might be the only time when they just get to focus on being a kid,” Stan- ley says. “They don’t have to worry about anything — not their family or food or whatever they worry about with their family.” Valued kids Deborah Vail’s eyes light up when she talks about Camp Kiwanilong. It’s no wonder, because she was the spark that started the popular Summer Youth Program and kept it vibrant for 30 years as camp direc- tor. Aptly, her camp name is Sparky. Now retired, she still serves on the board of directors. “Sparky was the coolest,” says Stanley. “As a little kid, I thought she was so fun. She always wore a beanie. She was always in a good mood, she sang the loudest and sang Deborah Vail good morning to everyone who entered the dining hall.” Sparky’s enthusiasm stems from a genuine car- ing for a healthy environment. Kids are asked to sign a contract and follow the Golden Frog Rules. Sparky says the main rule is: Have fun! Other rules are no hitting or hurting with words; listen to your counselor; no running on trails; go to the nurse if you are bleeding — the basics. “Camp is a unique place where kids are expected to cooperate and get to know each other in a way they don’t at school,” Stanley says. “They are sleep- ing in the same cabin, working together. They might be from different schools or different backgrounds, but they learn to work as a team.” When they do, they can earn coveted beads like those their coun- selors wear. Children of all abilities and income levels are welcome: kids with autism, attention defi cit hyper- activity disorder or social diffi culties are all treated with dignity and understanding. There are “Sparky- ships” available for children who cannot afford to attend. Sparky created an environment built on resolv- ing confl ict through conversation. “Most confl ict arises from misunderstanding,” she says. If she saw Camp Kiwanilong board member Marge Hud- dleston, left, and Amy Koch, a ranger at the camp, pose at the camp office. better in the classroom and have more social contacts. Many times, their behavior improves and they become more self-confi dent. Kids wearing their Camp Kiwanilong sweatshirt feel a bond with other kids in their camp shirts, even if they aren’t in the same class. Board member Marge Huddleston says her daugh- ter and grandchildren have developed skills they can use at camp and in their professions. One grandson says he learned his values at Kiwanilong and is working on a doctorate in psychology to help adolescents. Community embraces camp a problem, she invited a cabin or group to meet with her Huddleston taught school in Gearhart and sent her and share their experiences and perceptions. children and grandchildren to Camp Kiwanilong. Once the kids realize someone has autism and reacts After retirement, standing in line with her young- differently, they embrace him or her, because they under- est grandchild at camp, she noticed the infi rmary door stand, Sparky says. “They learn how to interact with could use some paint. each other. When kids are valued, they behave.” “It was a pitiful building,” Huddleston says. She Stanley affi rmed Sparky’s approach: “She was skilled offered to paint the interior and things took off from there at confl ict resolution. If a camper had a hard time, they as she and her husband, Dwayne, pitched in to make would talk to Sparky who often offered an alternative small repairs. “We put lipstick on the building.” activity. Rarely did anyone need to go home.” Before long, they were asked to join the board of Each week has a designated theme, and the counsel- directors, which oversees the camp year-round. Many ors create a special event. Once a counselor is in cos- in Clatsop County are aware of the six-week fl agship tume — as a pirate, a fairy, a superhero — everything Summer Youth Program, says Amy Koch, the part-time changes. The authority fi gure is seen as a fun individual. camp ranger, but the camp is also available to rent in the That might be why Sparky always wears a beanie. Who off-season. The camp hosts weddings, family reunions, can be threatening in a colorful rainbow beanie? Christmas parties, housing for soccer tournaments, out- But, there is a message behind the fun. At the end door schools, VOCA (Victory Over Child Abuse) and of the week, each child receives a certifi cate from their CERT ( community emergency response team) training. cabin counselor. The instruction to the counselors is to Koch, a lifelong Girl Scout and Kiwanilong fan, make it meaningful for the child and to sign it. Sparky books rentals in the spring, fall and winter, and over- says, “The camp is based on giving of oneself and realiz- sees repairs. ing the worth of others.” Volunteers pitch in to write grants, host Sparky tells the kids to read their cer- fundraisers, organize work parties and ‘It is tifi cate when they are feeling low to see make improvements. Local businesses who they really are and who cares about phenomenal offer discounts, volunteer services and pro- them. “One camper came back years later vide materials. “We hire people when we and said he took his certifi cate to college,” can,” Koch says, but with limited funding, to see she says. volunteers are the core workforce. where we Recently the National Guard’s 442 Reviving Clatsop history Vertical Engineers designed a new craft The camp fi lls a need for healthy sum- started and building and wood shed, Tongue Point mer activities Vail saw when she began Corps students laid the concrete fl oor, where we Job teaching in Clatsop County. She was sur- Hampton Mill donated the lumber and prised to see the number of children at Windermere Realty built the woodshed. are now.’ risk. Children were having diffi culty with “This community is very generous,” behavioral, emotional and social problems. Marge Huddleston Koch says. Camp Kiwanilong board There were no options for young children The Gray Foundation, Meyer Memo- member, speaking about the except organized sports, she says. rial Trust, private donations and former camp’s transformation “I saw a need, and it became a wave.” campers have also contributed to keep Pat Kershull, a Girl Scout leader, told Camp Kiwanilong vibrant. Vail there was an abandoned Girl Scout camp on 270 “It is phenomenal to see where we started and where acres in Warrenton that had been closed for a few years. we are now,” Huddleston says. “Every building needed Sitting in a forest of spruce and other trees planted for attention. Now we have a strategic plan. The camp can an arboretum by the Conservation Civilian Corps in the move forward after we are gone.” 1930s, it featured cabins, a large dining hall, lakes and Even though Sparky has retired, her vision remains as meadows. All it needed was a director, Kershull said. new camp directors take over. After all, she trained them. Vail surprised herself on the spot by saying she would Huddleston says, “What makes this special is having direct the camp. Before long, she had recruited teachers this experience right here in our own backyard. And it is to serve as counselors. provided for the whole community.” The Kiwanis Club stepped in to build cabins, shelters The Way to Wellville and the Columbia Pacifi c Coor- and repair existing buildings that sit beside Long Lake. dinated Care Organization encourage healthy activities Thus, Camp Kiwanilong was born from Kiwanis and like those offered at Camp Kiwanilong. Long Lake. Kiwanis continues to support the camp. For information on how you can help with volunteer The property is owned by Clatsop County, but time or supplies, or to request a Sparkyship, contact the Camp Kiwanilong’s board of directors signed a 99-year camp ranger’s offi ce at 503-861-2933. lease for $1 per year to run the camp as a nonprofi t Registration for next summer will begin in February. organization. For more information, visit www.campkiwanilong.org Sue Cody is the communications lead for the Clat- Making a difference sop County Way to Wellville. She is also a former deputy Camp Kiwanilong can help struggling children in managing editor for The Daily Astorian and still does many ways. School counselors have noticed that stu- part-time work for the paper. Brooke Duling Stanley, dents who attend the Summer Youth Program perform who is quoted in this column, is Cody’s daughter.