PAGE A6, KEIZERTIMES, NOVEMBER 15, 2019 Opinion obituaries Submit an obituary through our website at keizertimes.com or send an email to: editor@keizertimes.com Holidays are hard for fi nicky eaters This time is year is golden for foodies—those people who love to eat and love to cook. There are sea- sonal parties, there are the holiday feasts. For those who love food there is no better time than November and December of each year. What about those who are more fi nicky when it comes to what they eat? They face a dilemma when in- vited to another’s home—what if they don’t like what is being served? Sometimes they just have to put their big boy pants on and do the polite thing. There are many ways a fi nicky eater’s delicate palate can be under attack. For example, having Thanks- giving dinner elsewhere—the in-laws, friends, siblings, is fraught with dan- ger front, right and center for an eater who, seriously, eats10 things (think meat and potatoes. Period). For most of us, Thanksgiving din- ner is fairly innocent, consisting of a roast turkey, mashed potatoes, gra- vy, vegetables and stuffi ng. But some foodies have to go off base and exper- iment with exotic fl avors and ingredi- ents. That’s when the trouble starts for the fi nicky eater. I come from a family of fi nicky eaters. I come from one of only a handful of American families who were never served macaroni and cheese. I know, sacrilege, right? I have never tasted macaroni and cheese, no matter if it was made with something other than cheddar and had bits of ba- con or beef mixed in. Never had it, never will. Macaroni and cheese has made its way onto many Thanksgiv- ing tables. I come from an era in which turkey stuffi ng was very pedestri- an: cubes of bread, some spices and chopped celery. I would put my mother’s Thanks- giving stuffi ng up against any modern take on this holiday staple. Oyster stuffi ng? Please … not in my life. Thanksgiving din- ners in my childhood included a vegetable, usually canned green beans. Though my family has roots in the Midwest, green bean casserole was never on the menu. But then casserole of any kind was never on the menu at my house. Of all the people in my family I am the least fi nicky eater, which isn’t saying much. I like seafood and shell- fi sh; raw oysters on the half shell is my idea of culinary heaven. But people still marvel at what I say I don’t like or won’t eat. I guess I am close to a meat-and-po- tatoes kind of eater. Mashed potatoes are next to Nirvana, but when some- one deigns to mix in sour cream, my interest fl ies right out the window. There are people in my family who can enjoy yams with their holiday meal, but I am not one of them. Being invited to someone’s home for a meal, holiday or otherwise, the experience is always fraught with fear of what is being served. How does one politely accept a plate that in- cludes food that one would not eat? Like every mother says, “Be polite.” That means accept the plate gracious- ly, if there is something unknown to you, take an itty bitty bite. It is fi ne if you don’t like it, but at least you tried. Some people I know go through the charade of mixing around un- wanted items on the plate to make it appear as if eaten. One does want to be a good guest. There are people who will eat any- thing placed in front of them; I envy them. They are much more culinarily adventurous than I. Those who know me understand I don’t eat ‘white’ things. That in- cludes mayonnaise, sour cream, cream cheese, cottage cheese. It’s a burden I live with. At least no one badgers me with “Just try it.” No, I don’t want to try it. I’ve been eating for more than 60 years and I know what I like and I know what I want. Pass the unadulterated mashed po- tatoes and stuffi ng made with bread and celery and I am holiday feasting. Lyndon Zaitz is publisher of the Keizertimes. zaitz writes If offi cials believe Trump is a danger to the country, they have a duty to say something WASHINGTON -- Nikki Haley used to be known as the other member of President Trump's Cabinet who left with an intact reputation (in addition to former Defense Secretary James Mattis). In an administration more infl uenced by Recep Tayyip Erdogan than Ronald Reagan, the United Nations ambassador often provided a more traditional rhetorical take on American foreign policy. She seemed genuinely to care about human rights and democracy, and to somehow get away with displaying such caring in public. Her confi dence in national principles marked her as such a freakish exception that some speculated she might be the rogue, anti-Trump Trump offi cial who wrote an anonymous op-ed in The New York Times. But Trump's corruption still pulls at a distance. Clearly convinced that Trumpism is here to stay, Haley has publicly turned against other offi cials in the administration who saw the president as a dangerous fool. She recounts an hourlong meeting with then-chief of staff John Kelly and then-Secretary of State Rex Tillerson, who "confi ded in me that when they resisted the president, they weren't being insubordinate, they were trying to save the country." The conspirators (in Haley's telling) considered it a life and death matter. "This was how high the stakes were, he and Kelly told me. We are doing the best we can do to save the country, they said. We need you to work with us and help us do it." Haley, by her own account, refused to help. "Instead of saying that to me, they should've been saying that to the president, not asking me to join them on their sidebar plan," she now explains. "It should've been, 'Go tell the president what your differences are, and quit if you don't like what he's doing.' But to undermine a president is really a very dangerous thing." Here Haley is confusing two categories. If a Cabinet member has a policy objection of suffi cient seriousness, he or she should take that concern to the president. If the president then chooses against their position -- and if implementing the decision would amount to a violation of conscience -- an offi cial should resign. Staying in offi ce to undermine, say, a law or war you disapprove of would be a disturbing arrogation of presidential authority. But there is an equally important moral priority to consider: If you are a national security offi cial working for a malignant, infantile, impulsive, authoritarian wannabe, you need to stay in your job as long as you can to mitigate whatever damage you can, before the mad king tires of your sanity and fi res you. This paradox is one tragic outcome of Trumpism. It is generally a bad and dangerous idea for appointed offi cials to put their judgment above an elected offi cial's. And yet it would have been irresponsible for Mattis, Kelly, Tillerson and others not to follow their own judgments in cases where an incompetent, delusional or corrupt president was threatening the national interest. michael gerson Consider the case of former White House counsel Don McGahn. According to the Mueller report, McGahn complained to then-chief of staff Reince Priebus that Trump was trying to get him to "do crazy s--t." McGahn (thankfully) told investigators he ignored presidential orders he took to be illegal. Or consider a negative illustration. When it came to pressuring Ukraine to investigate Joe Biden, the only morally mature adults in the room (and on the phone) were quite junior in rank. They expressed their concerns upward. But those above them -- Secretary of State Michael Pompeo and chief of staff Mick Mulvaney -- had learned the lesson about offi cials fi red for an excess of conscience. They apparently looked the other way as a friendly country was squeezed for political reasons. On the whole, I'm glad that responsible offi cials such as Kelly and Mattis stayed as long as they did to prevent damage to the country. But I also think they have a moral obligation to come out before the 2020 election and say what they know about Trump's unfi tness. If Biden is the nominee, they might even get together and endorse him. But, in any case, if they believe Trump is a danger to the national interest, they eventually have a duty to say something. Saving the country requires no less. As for Haley, she has now signaled to Trump Republicans that she was not a part of the deep state, thus clearing away a barrier to ambition. All she had to do was to ignore her conscience, betray her colleagues and injure her country. A small price to pay for such a brilliant political future. (Washington Post Writers Group) Reduce speed on River Road? Via social media, the Keizertimes asked readers: for the sake of safety should traffi c speeds on River Road be reduced? Here are selected responses: Keizer, I look over and people are texting. There are so many hands free devices. People just need to pay attention. — Stephanie Duncan I drive almost the entire length of River Road twice daily, fi ve days a week - during “rush hour” and I never see a police offi cer. I think if there was more of a presence it would make a difference. — Gillian Gelfand Herndon It needs to be better patrolled. Often times when I am walking across the street at River and Chemawa I see multiple drivers think it’s safe to turn quickly instead of waiting for the pedestrian in the cross walk. More times then not, they’re speeding on their way and I have to yell at them. It shouldn’t take a horrifi c accident, or death to bring it to the community’s attention that action is needed. — Michele Sawin I would like to see crosswalks light up with fl ashing lights. — Maralee Fletchall It’s just fi ne if folks would just “go with the fl ow,” pay attention, and have a bit of patience and consideration. I have come to fi nd that most who complain about traffi c in Salem/Keizer have never been to a much larger populated area and experienced how bad it can really get. — Tony Grove What we need is more enforcement of dangerous people texting while driving. All day in day. I see drivers who are driving too slow (25), texting, phone to ear, and or trying to navigate the turn lanes and causing slowing of traffi c and people getting frustrated and racing around them. — Danielle Bethell what’s your view? It should be consistent, from one end to the other in Keizer, at 35. The north end continues develop. It is no longer rural like it was 10 to 15 years ago. — Hersch Sangster No, the speed is fi ne; if people would follow it. I drive River Road daily, and often multiple times each Are the accidents that are happening due to speeding or drivers not paying attention? I think the latter. — Kristeen Coon Jennings Reduced?! Its not like people follow them as it is. And maybe if people stopped jay walking at night in dark clothes 10 feet from the cross walk or driving distracted we’d have less accidents. — Valerie Olsen Feliciano Speed enforcement on current limits and pedestrians need to pay more attention to what’s happening around them and not think that they have the right to make any move and drivers will just see them. — Dave Ball Dr. Gerald “Jerry” Bowerly, Jr. June 15, 1920 – October 30, 2019 Dr. Gerald “Jerry” James Bowerly Jr. was born June 15, 1920, in Shel- don, Iowa to Gerald James Bowerly Sr. and Eva Mae Johnson. He passed on October 30, 2019, while residing at Avamere Court in Keizer. Jerry, one of fi ve children, was raised on a farm in Minnesota and eventually headed west to Oregon where he attended Mohawk High School in Marcola. He studied at Uni- versity of Oregon and Northwestern School of Dentistry in Portland prior to becoming Keizer’s fi rst dentist. His career carried him into the Navy as a mid-shipman during World War II. He achieved the rank of captain. His family said he modeled patriotism, loyalty and love of our country. Also known as “Captain” or “Chief,” Jerry spent his last years at Avamere sharing life with many of his former patients and best friend, Opal, and lifelong friend, Dr. Vern Cast- erline. The pair shared Keizer’s fi rst medical-dental clinic. Bowerly began his career working nights, convincing the Hyster Guard to allow him to begin fi ling orders. That evening he met the love of his life, Margaret Zieg, who worked in sales near the fi ling area. Many glances were exchanged behind the reception desk where she worked. Each night he would walk her hand-in-hand to the street car. On March 4, 1944, at the Evangelical Church in Portland, during Jerry’s senior year, they were married. “At graduation, I was commis- sioned as a lieutenant junior grade and given orders to the Naval Train- ing Center in San Diego. My next orders were to Japan, but I was eligi- ble for discharge as the war was over. I was sent to the Marines in Hilo, Hawaii until getting a ship to come home (It was 1946),” Bowerly wrote of his experience. Bowerly started his practice in Portland, but Margo didn’t want to raise the couple’s children in the city. “I started looking at prospects in suburban towns. One of my patients in Portland was a cousin of a class- mate at Mohawk high. She also in- formed me that another cousin had just graduated from medical school, Dr. Vernon Casterline, and was going to practice in Keizer. ‘Where’s Keiz- er?’ I asked,” Bowerly wrote. The pair developed a business plan that reserved one portion of a build- ing for a pharmacy while the other portion was a medical and dental of- fi ce. “After our equipment was in- stalled, Dr. Casterline and I shared the reception room. The owners of the bakery were publishing the Keiz- er News and they put the word out about our new clinic and the doctors. From the fi rst day of practice I never had a day without patients,” Bowerly wrote. At the time, Keizer was a bedroom community. Bowerly described Keizer as comprised of the 1916 elementary school, a gas station, a grocery sore, Coomler & Franz Hardware, Dorothy & Chuck Teeters’ bakery, Perterson’s Cupboard Cafe, a meat market and food locker, and boasting groves of surrounding fi lbert and walnut trees. Manbrin Gardens was the elite G. Bowerly subdivision and the spacious homes along Rivercrest Drive. By 1950, they bought a small home on Will Avenue, now 7th Ave. Two years later, Bowerly, who was still a Naval reservist, received orders from the 13th Naval District to report for active duty at the Naval Hospital at Camp Pendleton for another 18 months. He found another dentist to take over his practice while he was at Camp Pendleton and a patient rent- ed out the family home until they returned. He practiced at the same location for another decade and then moved to a new clinic on Linda Ave- nue in Keizer. He continued as a Naval reserve offi cer until 1980 and assisted at the veteran’s clinic in Salem one night a week. “Keizer has been a great place to live and raise our family, and it is still is inspite of its rapid growth. We are proud of our city,” Bowerly said. As a civilian, Bowerly became a charter member of the Lions Club, member of Rotary Club of Keizer, served as fi rst president of the Keizer Art Association, as a member of the Salem-Keizer School Board Budget Committee, a board member of the Keizer Heritage Community Center, and was an active member and leader in his church. He enjoyed family vacations at Detroit Lake playing Shanghai, sip- ping peppermint tea and “daylight in the swamps” early morning fi shing adventures with kids and grandchil- dren. He loved hiking, camping, wa- ter skiing until age 74, snow skiing to age 84, travel, music, Bible study and writing notes of encouragement to widows, shut-ins and other friends and acquaintances. He loved everyone and “lived life large.” The Bowerlys raised their four children in Keizer: Dave (Dr. David Bowerly-deceased), Judy, Ron and Laura. The couple remained in Keiz- er for over 65 years. In 2017, after 71 years of marriage, Margo passed away. Bowerly is survived by daughter Judy Luse (Walt) of Redmond, Ore., son Ron (Shaaron) and daughter Laura Heiman of Salem, Ore., nine grandchildren and eight great grand- children. A Celebration of Life service will be held Nov. 23, at 10 a.m. at Keizer Funeral Chapel, 4365 River Road N. in Keizer. In lieu of fl owers, Bowerly request- ed contributions to Salem Evangeli- cal Church, Youth Camp Scholarship Fund. Remembrances, photos and stories can be shared online at www.keizer- chapel.com. Allen Newton Schlag October 23, 1937 – November 7, 2019 Allen Newton Schlag 82, of and friends in heaven but especial- ly his beloved daughter, Jalen Miller Keizer, Ore., died Nov. 7, 2019. He was born to the late Albert of Gervais, Ore. He is survived by and Helen Schlag (Newton) of In- his wife Janet Schlag and daughter’s dependence, Ore., on Oct. 23, 1937 Patty Johnson and Kathryn Schlag of Salem Ore., and Sharla in Salem, Ore. Hartgraves of Tempe, Ariz.. In 1955, he graduated His grandchildren include from Central High School Janay Miller, Calvin Mill- located in Independence. er, Mandy Miller, Rod- He worked as a delivery ney Miller, Crystal John- driver for 35 years at Blue son, Nicole Diaz, Maxwell Bell Potato Chip company Hartgraves, and Jackson before retiring in 1994. Al- Hartgraves. He is also sur- len loved fi shing, baseball, A. Schlag vived by nine great grand- trap shooting, dogs – in children. particular bull terriers – A Celebration of life will be held and spending time with his family. He and his cousin are the founders at the Keizer Elks on Nov. 17, 2019, of Fat Schlag’s Sausage the Philly- from 1 to 4 p.m. In Lieu of fl owers, style sausage dogs available at many the family is requesting donations be made to Bull Terrier Rescue, Inc. Oregon festivals and events. He will be joining many family It is fully tax deductible. MHS bazaar arrives Nov. 23 The annual bazaar at McNary High School is slated for Saturday, Nov. 23. More than 100 local vendors will be hosted by McNary students rais- ing money for a variety of school- based activities. Hours are 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Raffl e drawings will be held every hour. Exchange two non-perishible food items or hygiene products for an extra raffl e entry. Donated items will benefi t Marion Polk Food Share. McNary High School is located at 595 Chemawa Road N.E. SUBSCRIBE A YEAR’S WORTH OF KEIZER NEWS FOR ONLY $25 CALL 503-390-1051