SAVAGE LOVE
BY DAN SAVAGE
Attorney at Law, 975 Oak St., Suite 615,
Eugene, OR 97401, (541)345-0795, within
four months of the date of first publica-
tion of this notice, or the claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by the proceedings may obtain
additional information from the records
of the court, the personal representative,
or the personal representative’s attorney,
Robert Cole Tozer. DATED and first pub-
lished July 21, 2022. Personal
Representative /s/ Michael Frederick
Smith
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE
OF OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Probate
Department. In the Matter of the Estate
of: WALTER HENRY PIERCE, Deceased.
Case No. 22PB06697 NOTICE TO
INTERESTED PERSONS NOTICE IS GIVEN
that Pamela I. Stanley has been appoint-
ed personal representative of this estate.
All persons having claims against the
estate are required to present them, with
vouchers attached, to the personal rep-
resentative c/o Robert Cole Tozer,
Attorney at Law, 975 Oak St., Suite 615,
Eugene, OR 97401, (541)345-0795, within
four months of the date of first publica-
tion of this notice, or the claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by the proceedings may obtain
additional information from the records
of the court, the personal representative,
or the personal representative’s attorney,
Robert Cole Tozer. DATED and first pub-
lished July 21, 2022. Personal
Representative /s/ Pamela I. Stanley
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE
OF OREGON FOR THE COUNTY OF LANE
PROBATE DEPARTMENT. In the Matter of
the Estate of CHARLES F. MONTAGUE,
Decedent. Case No. 22PB04817. NOTICE
TO INTERESTED PERSONS NOTICE IS
HEREBY GIVEN that Christopher Todd
Montague has been appointed personal
representative. All persons having claims
against the estate are required to pres-
ent them, with vouchers attached, to the
personal representative at the law office
of Bassinger Hoyt LLC, Attn: Thomas H.
Hoyt 1200 Executive Parkway, Suite 320,
Eugene, Oregon 97401 within four
months after the date of first publication
of this notice, or the claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by the proceedings may obtain
additional information from the records
of the court, the personal representative
or the attorney for the personal repre-
sentative Thomas H. Hoyt, OSB
#660662, Bassinger Hoyt LLC, 1200
Executive Parkway, Suite 320, Eugene
Oregon 97401, 541-687-8700, thoyt@
bassingerhoyt.com.
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS
NOTICE OF LIEN SALE ORS 87.192 Notice
is hereby given by All Star Mini Storage
that a public lien sale by auction of the
personal property stored in the spaces
listed below will be held on August 11,
2022, at the hour of 11:00 a.m. at www.
storagetreasures.com. The property is
stored at 5353 Main St., Springfield, OR.
The spaces and occupants are: 9B Nellie
Brown, 98A Daniel Lynn, 106A Joe Long,
29 Phillip Barrier, 14A Jeana Thompson,
28 Woodside Senior Living, 154 Corina
Moreno, 74 Corina Moreno, 8 Jeremy
Larsen (IBGB), 103A Sean W Troute
ESTATE OF DALE EDWARD TAXDAL LANE
COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT CASE NO.
22PB06237. NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN
that the undersigned has been appointed
Personal Representative. All persons
having claims against the estate are
required to present them, with written
evidence thereof attached, to the
Personal Representative Pamela Jean
McGinley, c/o Frank C. Gibson,
Hutchinson Cox, PO Box 10886, Eugene,
Oregon 97440. All persons having claims
against the estate are required to pres-
ent them within four months after the
date of first publication of this notice to
the Personal Representative at the
address stated above for the presenta-
tion of claims or such claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by these proceedings may
obtain additional information from the
records of the Court, the Personal
Representative, or the Attorney for the
Personal Representative, named above.
Dated and first published: 07/14/22
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS
ESTATE OF CHARLES CLIFFORD GRAY
LANE COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT CASE NO.
22PB05454. NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN
that Judith C. McDaniel has been
appointed personal representative. All
persons having claims against the estate
are required to present them, with writ-
ten evidence thereof attached, to the
personal representative, c/o Mark M.
Williams, Attorney at Law, 180 West Sixth
Avenue, Junction City, Oregon 97448. All
persons having claims against the estate
are required to present them within four
months after the date of first publication
of this notice to the Personal
Representative at the address stated
above for the presentation of claims or
such claims may be barred. All persons
whose rights may be affected by these
proceedings may obtain additional infor-
mation from the records of the Court or
the Personal Representative, named
above. Dated and first published
07/07/22. Personal Representative:
Judith C. McDaniel, c/o Mark M. Williams,
OSB#821404, 180 West Sixth Avenue,
Junction City, Oregon 97448
ESTATE OF JOSEPHINE A. KARASCH -
LANE COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT CASE NO.
22PB05951. NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN
that John Karasch has been appointed
personal representative. All persons hav-
ing claims against the estate are required
to present them, with written evidence
thereof attached, to the personal repre-
sentative at 83825 Hwy 101, Florence, OR
97439. All persons having claims against
the estate are required to present them
within four months after the date of the
first publication of this notice to the per-
sonal representative at the address stat-
ed above for the presentation of claims
or such claims may be barred. All per-
sons whose rights may be affected by
this proceeding may obtain additional
information from the records of the
Court, the personal representative, or
the attorney for the personal representa-
tive. Dated and first published July 7,
2022. Attorney for personal representa-
tive: Salvatore Catalano, OSB#161012,
Catalano Law P.C., P.O. Box 5026, Eugene,
OR 97405.
From the end of Roe to the assault on democracy to the climate crisis to the war on Ukraine,
it’s all bad news, all the time, for everyone. But the monkeypox outbreak is an extra little
helping of bad news, specifi cally for gay and bi men. (More than 96 percent of monkeypox
cases have been in gay and bisexual men.) Hey, faggots? If you have a rash or feel like you
have swollen glands, stay home. And if you’re sexually active or hope to be soon, get the
monkeypox vaccine at your earliest opportunity. In the meantime, here’s a column featur-
ing all gay questions to remind us that gay life isn’t just freaking out about ingrown hairs.
— Dan
I’m a mid 50’s gay man, married to a man. We’ve been together for 30 years. We love
each other and have built a great life together, but our sex life is so lackluster it’s nearly
extinct. After years of trying to get my spouse to talk about our likes, wants, needs and
diff erences — and after years making suggestions about how or what we could do either
together or apart to improve our sex life — I fi nally had enough and began having dalli-
ances here and there. I encouraged him to pursue sexual satisfaction where he likes, but
his response is always, “I couldn’t do that.”
So, what’s the problem? I’ve always been drawn to Daddy/boy scenarios — it plays into
my submissive tendencies — and I recently met a hot Daddy. We’ve been meeting up for
six months, we’re both GGG, and the sex is awesome! But my spouse does not know about
my relationship with Daddy. I would love for the two to meet, as I think they would enjoy
each other’s sense of humor and personality, as they are both wonderful men. Is it possi-
ble to introduce them so that the three of us could be friends and maybe ease my spouse
into opening things up? My spouse and I are both sub bottoms and my Daddy is a gentle
Daddy Dom. Do I bring them together or do I keep these two relationships separate?
— Lusting After Daddy
If what you’re seeking from me, LAD, is some way to tell your husband you’ve been fucking
another man for six months without upsetting him, I can’t help you. He’s most likely going
to be upset. Additionally, there’s no way to tell your husband about your recently acquired
fuckbuddy without putting your vague DADT agreement at risk.
Now, assuming your husband isn’t an idiot, LAD, he knows you’ve been having sex with
other men. When you told him to pursue sexual satisfaction elsewhere, he must’ve known you
planned to do (or were already doing) the same. But there’s a diff erence between knowing
something because you kinda sorta fi gured, LAD, and knowing something because you were
literallyfucking told. And there’s a diff erence between having sex with other men — one-off s,
one at a time — and having sex again and again with one man. (Which, during this monkeypox
outbreak, is a far safer option for you and your husband than one-off s.) Sexual infi delity is one
thing, emotional infi delity is another.
But the odds your husband will leave you — after 30 years — seem slim. And even if he’s
upset at fi rst, who knows? If he’s open to meeting your boyfriend/daddyfriend once his anger
dissipates, and if he’s attracted to your Daddy Dom and your Daddy Dom is attracted to him,
a series of hot threesomes might revive your sexual connection with your husband. Things
could also go from not great to truly terrible — you could wind up getting divorced — but
things aren’t going to get better on the sexual front without a shakeup, LAD, and telling the
truth is a pretty good way to shake things up.
All that said, LAD, telling your husband, “I have a boyfriend, I’d like you to meet him, I think
you two might click,” is a big risk and there are no backsies.
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Meet Max, a little dog with lots of
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Max absolutely adores his toys and
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