Co-Personal Representative. Lynn
Shepard, Attorney for the Co-Personal
Representatives, 800 Willamette Street,
Suite 700, Eugene, Oregon 97401,
(541)485-3222, Fax: (541)344-7487
additional information from the records of
the Court, the Personal Representative, or
the attorney for the Personal
Representative, John C. Fisher. Dated and
first published on October 21, 2021.
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF
OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Case No.
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF
OREGON FOR THE COUNTY OF LANE
21PB08132. NOTICE TO INTERESTED
PERSONS in the matter of the Estate of
Vickie Lynn Rhoads, Deceased. NOTICE IS
HEREBY GIVEN that Ashley Arnold has
qualified and been appointed as the
Personal Representative of the estate. All
persons having claims against the estate
are hereby required to present them, with
proper vouchers, within four months after
the date of first publication of this notice,
as stated below, to the Personal
Representative, Ashley Arnold, c/o DC
Law, McKinney & Sperry, PC, P.O. Box 1265,
Roseburg, OR 97470, or the claims may be
barred. Dated and first published this 14
day of October, 2021. Personal
Representative: Ashley Arnold, C/O
Jeffrey D. Krebs, OSB #094110, DC Law -
McKinney & Sperry PC, PO Box 1265,
Roseburg, OR 97470, Telephone: 541-673-
4451 Fax: 541-673-1202
Probate Department Case No. 21PB08230.
In the Matter of the ESTATE OF DAVID
WILLIAM URELL, Deceased. Notice is
hereby given that JACKELENE URELL has
been
appointed
as
Personal
Representative. All persons having claims
against the estate are required to present
them to the undersigned attorney for
Personal Representative at 440 E
Broadway, Ste. 100, Eugene, OR 97401
within four months after the date of first
publication of this notice, or the claims
may be barred. All persons whose rights
may be affected by the proceedings may
obtain additional information from the
records of the court, Personal
Representative or the attorney for
Personal Representative. /s/ JACKELENE
URELL, Personal Representative. Leslie L.
Canton, OSB #172520, Attorney for
Personal Representative, 440 E Broadway,
Ste. 100, Eugene, OR 97401
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF
OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Case No.
21PB08544 NOTICE TO INTERESTED
PERSONS in the matter of the Estate of
Cynthia Ann Ermini, Deceased. NOTICE IS
HEREBY GIVEN that Larry Ermini has qual-
ified and been appointed as the Personal
Representative of the estate. All persons
having claims against the estate are here-
by required to present them, with proper
vouchers, within four months after the
date of first publication of this notice, as
stated below, to the Personal
Representative, Larry Ermini, c/o DC Law,
McKinney & Sperry, PC, P.O. Box 1265,
Roseburg, OR 97470, or the claims may be
barred. Dated and first published this 21
day of October, 2020. Personal
Representative: Larry Ermini, C/O Jeffrey
D. Krebs, OSB #094110, DC Law -
McKinney & Sperry PC, PO Box 1265,
Roseburg, OR 97470, Telephone: 541-
673-4451 Fax: 541-673-1202
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF
OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY In the Matter
of the Estate of FLORENCE SIMONE
BAELZ, Deceased. Case No. 21PB07503
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS. Notice
is hereby given that Susan M. Strand has
been appointed and has qualified as the
personal representative of said estate. All
persons having claims against said estate
are hereby required to present the same,
with proper vouchers, within four months
after the date of first publication of this
notice, as stated below, to the attorney for
the personal representative at: Marc D.
Perrin, Attorney at Law, 777 High Street,
Suite 110, Eugene, OR 97401 or they may
be barred. All persons whose rights may
be affected by the proceedings in this
estate may obtain additional information
from the records of the court, the personal
representative or the attorney for the per-
sonal representative. DATED and first
published: 10/07/21. Susan M. Strand,
Personal Representative, 86501 Lorane
Highway, Eugene, OR 97405, 541-729-5511.
Marc D. Perrin OSB #823663, Attorney for
Personal Representative, 777 High Street,
Suite 110, Eugene, OR 97401, 541-345-0003
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE STATE OF
OREGON FOR LANE COUNTY Probate
Department In the Matter of the Estate of
Carol Jean Rodgers, Deceased. Case No.
21PB08329 NOTICE TO INTERESTED
PERSONS. NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that
the undersigned has been appointed
Personal Representative. All persons hav-
ing claims against the estate are required
to present them, with vouchers attached,
to
the
undersigned
Personal
Representative at 767 Willamette Street,
Suite 302, Eugene, Oregon 97401, within
four months after the date of first publica-
tion of this notice, or the claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by the proceedings may obtain
NOTICE OF LIEN SALE ORS 87.192 Notice is
hereby given by PARKS WestSac LLC, dba
All Star Mini Storage that a public lien sale
by auction of the personal property stored
in the spaces listed below will be held on
November 6th, 2021 at the hour of 11:00
a.m. at www.storagetreasures.com. The
property is stored at All Star Mini Storage,
5353 Main St., Springfield, OR. The spaces
and occupants are: 71 Christine Ford, 84
Leland & Dena Powers, 102B Kimberly M
Bergey, 4 Donald Swenson, 40 Rick Berry,
163 Rick Berry, 7 Shawna Burr, 3 Jonathan
Daffern, 63B Joe Chiara, 99B Craig
Patterson, 25 Lori Piper, 64B Deven
Rodgers, 13B Jacob Cobb, 107B Lawana
Whipple
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS -
ESTATE OF PAUL KWAKE - LANE COUNTY
CIRCUIT COURT CASE NO. 21PB08131.
NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that Terri L.
Kwake has been appointed personal rep-
resentative. All persons having claims
against the estate are required to present
them, with written evidence thereof
attached, to the personal representative
at 1890 17th Street, Springfield, OR 97477.
All persons having claims against the
estate are required to present them within
four months after the date of the first
publication of this notice to the personal
representative at the address stated
above for the presentation of claims or
such claims may be barred. All persons
whose rights may be affected by this pro-
ceeding may obtain additional information
from the records of the Court, the person-
al representative, or the attorney for the
personal representative. Dated and first
published October 7, 2021. Attorney for
personal representative: Salvatore
Catalano, OSB#161012, Catalano Law P.C.,
P.O. Box 5026, Eugene, OR 97405.
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS Claims
against the Estate of Johanna Sylvia
Meacham, Deceased, Lane County Circuit
Court Case No. 21PB02929, are required
to be presented to the Co-Personal
Representatives, Karen Fabiano and
Ronald Perez at 180 East 11th Avenue,
Eugene, OR 97401, within four (4) months
from 10/21/21, the date of first publication,
or such claims may be barred. Any person
whose rights may be affected by the pro-
ceeding may obtain additional information
from the records of the court, the Personal
Representative, or the attorneys for the
Personal Representative. HERSHNER
HUNTER, LLP, Attorneys
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS ESTATE
OF HOWARD RAYMOND WELLS LANE
COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT CASE NO.
21PB08331. NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that
Kristi Janay Vipond has been appointed
personal representative. All persons hav-
ing claims against the estate are required
to present them, with written evidence
thereof attached, to the personal repre-
sentative, c/o Mark M. Williams, Attorney at
Law, 180 West Sixth Avenue, Junction City,
Oregon 97448. All persons having claims
against the estate are required to present
them within four months after the date of
first publication of this notice to the
Personal Representative at the address
stated above for the presentation of claims
or such claims may be barred. All persons
whose rights may be affected by these
proceedings may obtain additional infor-
mation from the records of the Court or the
Personal Representative, named above.
Dated and first published: 10/14/21.
Personal Representative: Kristi Janay
Vipond, c/o Mark M. Williams, OSB#821404,
Attorney at Law, 180 West Sixth Avenue,
Junction City, Oregon 97448
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS NOTICE
IS HEREBY GIVEN that Lori Bryan has been
appointed and has qualified as the
Personal Representative of the Estate of
Emmett Dale Egbert, deceased, Lane
County Probate Case No. 21PB07699. All
persons having claims against the estate
are required to present their claims, with
proper vouchers, within four months after
the date of first publication of this notice,
as stated below, to the Personal
Representative’s attorney at P.O. Box 1268,
Eugene, OR 97440 or the claims may be
barred. All persons whose rights may be
affected by the proceedings in this Estate
may obtain additional information from
the records of the Court, the Personal
Representative or the attorney for the
Personal Representative. Dated and first
published: October 7, 2021. Lori Bryan,
Personal Representative. Alan J. Thayer,
Jr., Attorney for Personal Representative,
P.O. Box 1268, Eugene, OR 97440
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS NOTICE
IS HEREBY GIVEN that the undersigned
has been appointed and has qualified as
the Trustee of the Jonas Family Living
Trust, created on June 27, 2017, restated/
amended on July 18, 2018, and is currently
in existence. All persons having claims
against Marjoire M. Jonas (decedent) or
the Jonas Family Living Trust are required
to present their claims, with proper
vouchers, within four months after the
date of first publication of this notice, as
stated below, to the Trustee at 875 S
Street, Springfield, OR or the claims may
be barred. All persons whose rights may
be affected by the proceedings in this
Trust may obtain additional information
from the Trustee, or the attorney for the
Trustee. Dated and first published:
10/21/21. /s/ Juli A. Jonas, Trustee.
NOTICE TO INTERESTED PERSONS:
Probate administration proceedings in the
Estate of Asher Ryan Silver, Deceased, are
now pending in the Circuit Court of the
State of Oregon for Lane County, Case No.
21PB03676, and Lisa Silver has been
appointed Personal Representative of the
estate. All persons having claims against
the estate are required to present the
same, with proper vouchers, to the
Personal Representative, c/o Gleaves
Swearingen LLP, Attorneys at Law, 975
Oak Street, Suite 800, Eugene, OR 97401,
within 4 months from the date of the first
publication of this notice or such claims
may be barred. NOTICE IS FURTHER GIVEN
to all persons whose rights may be affect-
ed by the above-entitled proceedings that
additional information may be obtained
from the records of the Court, the
Personal Representative or the attorneys
for the Personal Representative. Dated
and first published this 7th day of October,
2021.
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E U G E N E W E E K LY . C O M
SAVAGE
LOVE
Mind
the Gap
BY DAN SAVAGE
I’m a woman in her 40s in a relationship with a man and I have my first STI with symp-
toms. Genital warts — yay! I noticed them about two months ago (near my b-hole) and
went to the gyno today and had them treated. My question is, do I need to tell my boy-
friend? We’ve been dating for about five months, and we don’t use protection because
I have an IUD. More background info: My BF hasn’t gone down on me. He wants to, but
I’m very subby and it’s hard for me to get off that way, so I’ve been putting him off. And
now that I want him to try, I have warts. I don’t know if he’s seen them. Maybe? We ha-
ven’t had sex from behind in months and I think that may be why. Maybe he saw them
before I did and stopped wanting to have sex in that position? He did want to fuck me
from behind a couple of days ago, but I said no because I was embarrassed. Do I need to
tell him I have HPV/genital warts? We’ve been having unprotected sex about five times
a week for the last five months.
— Worrying About Really Terribly Situation
“Yes, WARTS should disclose this to her partner,” said Dr. Ina Park, a professor of Family
and Community Medicine at the University of California San Francisco. “Hopefully, he will be
calm and supportive about it, and it won’t be a big deal for the two of them.”
What you’re facing, WARTS, is what I’ve long described as a “one thing/everything” dis-
closure scenario. Meaning, you’ll be telling your boyfriend one thing he needs to know about
you when you make this disclosure — that you have a very common and easily transmissible
STI — but his reaction will tell everything you need to know about him. If he isn’t calm and
supportive out of the gate, WARTS, or can’t pivot to calm and supportive quickly, you’ll know
he’s not anyone you want in your bed or up your butt.
“And while I usually don’t try to pinpoint where HPV comes from in terms of ‘blaming’ a
specific partner,” said Dr. Park, “if the boyfriend does freak out, I would make this next point:
Given that the warts showed up for the first time so soon after starting this new relation-
ship, it’s likely that WARTS’ current partner gave her the HPV that’s causing these warts.”
Dr. Park, who is also an STI prevention consultant to the Centers for Disease Control
(and so knows what the fuck she’s talking about), points out that the strains of HPV most
likely to cause genital warts — types 6 and 11, for those keeping score — will typically start
showing symptoms a few months after someone starts sleeping with a new partner who
has undisclosed or undiagnosed HPV. “In some cases, it can be longer, and some folks won’t
manifest warts for two years after exposure,” added Dr. Park. “But there have been several
studies in U.S. women showing the average time to development of warts after HPV exposure
is 3-6 months. So, while we can’t prove which of WARTS’ partners gave her HPV, she is in the
perfect window timewise with the current relationship.”
Which is not to suggest your boyfriend knew he had HPV and didn’t disclose or take pro-
active steps to protect you, WARTS, like wearing a condom, which would have provided you
with a significant degree of protection. Like most people with HPV — assuming he has HPV
your boyfriend most likely wasn’t aware he had it. (And he may not have it, but he proba-
bly does; most sexually active adults do.) Now there’s a safe and effective HPV vaccine — a
vaccine that protects people against HPV-related cervical cancers, penile cancers, rectal
cancers and throat cancers — and ideally people should get their children vaccinated against
HPV before they’re sexually active. But even sexually active adults up to age 45, including
adults who’ve already had HPV, can benefit from getting the HPV vaccine.
“Since we know that WARTS’ immune system didn’t clear HPV very easily — because she
had warts — it’s a great idea for her to get the HPV vaccine,” said Dr. Park. “It will protect
her from the strains of HPV that she hasn’t already been exposed to, including other strains
that cause warts and cancer. And WARTS should bear in mind that it often takes multiple
treatments to get rid of warts. So, if they don’t go away immediately or appear to go away
and come back, she needs to know that can be a normal part of the process.”
Dr. Ina Park is the author of the wildly entertaining memoir Strange Bedfellows: Adven-
tures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs. Follow her on Twitter and
Instagram @InaParkMD.
My brother has been submitting to a “FinDom,” something I didn’t need to know and
only found out after our mother “accidentally” read his emails during a visit. (No ac-
cident. Our mother snoops.) I spoke to him about it because I was worried my brother
— who has a well-paying job but has never been good with money — was being ex-
ploited. Well, as it turns out, this woman put my brother on a budget. She accepts his
$200 “tributes” on the condition that he sends proof of having put $500 into a retire-
ment savings account. So, my brother went from having zero savings to having nearly
$120,000 in a retirement account. (This has been going on for a while.) I wanted to
send this woman a thank-you note (I have her email, thanks to mom), but I thought that
would be intrusive, so I’m writing to you instead in the hope that she reads you: Thank
you for being an ethical person and getting my brother to do what I never could — save
for his future — and I’m sorry about that crazed email from our mom.
— Intrusion Reveals A Sincerely Ethical Person
I’m glad your brother found a goodie when he went looking for a FinDom, IRASEP. That said,
I’m sure there are unscrupulous FinDoms out there — just like there are unscrupulous financial
advisors and real estate developers and megachurch pastors. But while some FinDoms presum-
ably take more than their subs/clients can afford to give, I think abusive FinDoms are rare. You
don’t have to take my word for that: a lot of FinDoms share their receipts on Twitter, and it’s
rare to see one accepting more than $100 from a client/sub during a single “draining” session.
P.S. Seeing as the good FinDom your brother serves has already received an unhinged
email from one member of your family — that “crazed” and most likely abusive and shaming
email from your mother — you should go ahead and email her your thanks directly instead of
hoping she sees your note in my column.
I’ll keep the background brief: I’m a woman in a nearly 20-year monogamous marriage.
Before we were married, my husband was involved with a particular woman. She left
him, but they stayed friends. Early on, I was jealous and more than a little insecure.
He ultimately married me, but she never got married. Since then, he and I have gone
through the ups and downs of raising two kids together, but we’re in a really solid
place, and this woman and I became friends long ago. She was recently diagnosed with
an aggressive, early-onset breast cancer. It had already spread before she found the
lump. They’ve given her a year. My husband went with her to her first chemo treat-
ment. That night, he told me she was nervous and he wanted to make her feel better,
so he kissed her “to distract her.” I asked if he also slept with her “to distract her.” He
said of course not and apologized and said it wouldn’t happen again. I’ve had a couple
of weeks to think it over and now I’m thinking I should give him my blessing to sleep with
his ex. My 20-year-old self would be horrified, but honestly, Dan, if I had only one good
year left, I would want some hot sex with someone who cared about me before I went.
If he can give her some pleasure in what little time she has left, I wouldn’t hold that
against him. Bad idea? Crazy idea?
— Sharing Is Caring, Kapiche?
It’s not a crazy idea, SICK. It’s a beautiful, complicated, generous, fraught and compas-
sionate idea. You want this woman, this rival who became your friend, to feel loved and to feel
physical pleasure at this terrifying and heartbreaking time. We should all be so lucky to have
rivals in our lives like you, SICK. Talk with your husband about it. It may not be something he
wants, and it may not be something his ex wants or needs right now. But if they both want it,
and sex would come as a comfort to the rival who became your friend, giving them the gift of
your blessing would be a mitzvah to top all mitzvahs.
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