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W O R D S O F W I S D O M BY DA N S AVAG E
Reading you over the years has absolutely changed my mind on gay marriage. I wanted to let
you know that. I also live in Maryland, and, as you know, we voted last week to allow same-sex
couples to legally marry. I was excited that I got to vote for marriage equality in my home state,
Dan — even I agree that it’s fucked up that people get to vote on the civil rights of LGBT people
at all. Thanks for all your writing over the years — it’s really made a difference in my love and
sex life. And congrats to you and all gay people in the United States for the big wins last week in
Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, and Washington State.
Just Some Straight Guy
There’s something I want to say about the votes — and about the voters — in Maine, Maryland,
Minnesota, and Washington State. But fi rst I want to say this to all my fellow queers: We built this.
The breakthroughs we saw last week, which included the election of the fi rst openly gay person
to the United States Senate (Wisconsin’s Tammy Baldwin), we made that. LGBT people came out,
fought back, and changed the world. We have a fuck of a lot left to do — repeal DOMA, pass ENDA,
unfi nished business with DADT (trans people are still barred from serving), defending the rights of
queers around the world — but LGBT people have made tremendous progress since Stonewall. It
has gotten better for us because we came out and fought to make it better. We demanded better.
Now here is what I want to say to straight people: Thank you.
I know so many straight people in Washington State, where I live, who worked unbelievably hard
on the campaign to win marriage equality for their gay and lesbian friends, family members, and
neighbors. I know straight people in all four states who voted, gave money, worked phone banks,
and knocked on doors — all in an effort to make it possible for same-sex couples to marry.
Gays and lesbians are a tiny percentage of the population. And while we laid the groundwork for
the breakthroughs we saw last week in Maine, Maryland, Washington, and Minnesota — we built
this — we didn’t build it on our own. The majorities in the state legislatures in Maine, Maryland,
and Washington that voted to make same-sex marriage legal? Straight. The governors who signed
laws making same-sex marriage legal? Straight. The overwhelming majority of people who voted
in favor of marriage equality in all three states after anti-gay bigots forced public votes on our civil
rights? Straight. The majority that voted against writing anti-gay bigotry into Minnesota’s state
constitution? Straight. And the president who took a huge political risk and came out for marriage
equality before his reelection campaign? Straight. It has gotten better for us — better, not perfect
— but it hasn’t gotten better for us in a vacuum. It’s gotten better for us because straight people
have gotten better about us.
Rights are rights. They shouldn’t be put up for a vote. And we shouldn’t have to say “thank you”
when they’re recognized. The sad fact is that we have had to fi ght for our rights. But here’s the hap-
py fact: We didn’t have to fi ght this one alone. Thousands and thousands of straight people stood
with us and fought for us. We had help. And that’s what we should thank the straight people for. Not
for granting us our rights — rights are rights are rights — but for joining our fi ght.
Last week on my blog, I fl oated the idea of having a big party for all the straight people who came
through for us in Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, and Washington State. But all those straight people
wouldn’t fi t in a single ballroom. But we can fi t them on a single Tumblr page. Queers? If you know
a straight person in Maine, Maryland, Minnesota, or Washington — if you know a straight in any
state or the District of Columbia — who donated money, phone-banked, went door-to-door, or took
a political risk on our behalf, take your picture with that straight person, write a few words about
what they did, and post it to www.straightupthanks.tumblr.com.
We saw a huge breakthrough in the struggle for LGBT equality last week. And it wouldn’t have hap-
pened without the help of so many righteous, kick-ass straight people. I’ll bet every queer person
reading this knows a straight person who they should thank. I certainly do. Thank them in a public
way: Go to www.straightupthanks.tumblr.com, click “submit a post,” share a photo, and thank a
straight ally.
Because we literally couldn’t have done it without them.
I am a twentysomething bi guy who loves sucking cock. I especially enjoy when the recipient
really enjoys himself (which is often) (not to gloat) (but I just did). Anyway, my problem is that
I don’t really enjoy receiving. I have received head from three guys, which I realize is not a large
sample size, but every time it has been a nonevent. It’s almost like I can’t even feel a mouth on
my dick. How do I fi x this?
Blowjob Boredom Blues
In sex comedies, sitcoms, and porn, head is always presented as the ultimate sexual experience,
but in reality, some men just don’t dig head. But three cocksuckers is a pretty small sample. Let a
few other guys suck your dick — let ’em fall face-fi rst on your sword — but don’t stress out if noth-
ing changes. It could be a preference, BBB, and not a malfunction.
My wife and I have been together for 20 years. I love to receive oral, but my wife has no interest
when I try to return the favor. She claims it does nothing for her. We celebrated Obama’s reelec-
tion with a bottle of wine in the bedroom. When I made a move downstairs, she didn’t stop me.
However, she said it tickled her like crazy. Is this common? Is there something I can do to make
this experience less hilarious for my wife?
What’s So Funny?
Some women struggle with hang-ups or body issues that make it diffi cult for them to relax and
enjoy being on the receiving end of oral sex. But some women who don’t struggle with hang-ups or
body issues simply don’t enjoy receiving oral sex. If your wife is generally comfortable in her own
skin and with her own body, WSF, you may have to take her word for it when she says that oral sex
does nothing for her. But if it truly does nothing for her — “nothing” would include “annoy” and “turn
off” — maybe she can lie back and enjoy what it does for you.
I am a 22-year-old female who’s only ever achieved orgasm during fellatio, and my boyfriend
will not perform fellatio on me! I have tried bringing it up during sex, but he didn’t cooperate. He
told me that he didn’t want to do that to me because a mutual female friend told him that I didn’t
want him to do that to me. I did tell her that at the beginning of our relationship, but I don’t feel
that way anymore! I’m way too embarrassed now to ask again, because it would feel like I was
begging him for fellatio. Please help me!
Need To Get Mine
Try asking your boyfriend for cunnilingus, NTGM, not fellatio. If that doesn’t do the trick — if he
doesn’t start eating your pussy — then DTMFA.
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