and pow erful member of the adnurastrahon. GIVE 'EM HELL. HILLARY B y A lison P ride AB through the election, we watched her. how ahe moved, talked, unilcd, frowned, and stood by or upstaged her man. W e watched (i.e., a d w e d ) so ahe m ahe was manipulated would make a more pleasing, and palatable, image for the tim id Am erican voters Apparently the softening and mellowing o f her image worked, because by the tone Americans steppod mto the voting booths, she had been deebrwed and we were no longer afraid o f what ahe nughi do m an unguarded mom ent O r at least the image m aken make managed to enough to um suicr us forget while, there were her her aa harmlcaa as a Nancy Reagan or a Barbara Buah AD the those of ua who were aecreth pleased, r v n i elitcd, that a woman of independent moving mind «tcakfnfv and and ambition steadily was toward hallowed halls o f the W hite House one o f those. the I was I would have voted Hillary Rodham Clinton mto the W hite House if she'd been running herself for ffresident. I hiring the election, she was one of my favorite topsca I was appalled as ahe was lambasted for everything from her hairhand* to her apparent diamterest m the cuhnary arts I agonized as ahe waa picked apart for her taste in clothes and her taste in politics I fum ed when the debate raged over whether ahe could truly be a role nxxicl for mothers w ho chose to w ork outside the home I considered it poebe justice o f the highest degree when BUI (h n to n won the election and muncdiatcfy made it clear that the would have a position o f genuine importance tn the new administration Neanderthal la k e dxmwtta and that, Rush you I inibaugh groupies O f course, those o f ua who fch from the beginning somehow protective o f her (and she doesn't need our protection, I might sdd) were tn fo r more months o f angst alter the election I f the apothght seemed to glare unnaturally H ig h I before afterwards it burned the ckc bon, N o sooner had the new administration celebrated ita victory than the press had a speculative hohday be het role? W hat would H o w much power would ahe actually have? redecorate W ould ahe settle down and the W hite House and throw dinner parties hkc a proper praudcntiaJ w ife or would ahe continue to appear domestically impaired? W ould noncontnnrrsxal she pet qutetfy cause or a pack would she continue to thrust herself headlong mto the most volatile issues? W ould R ill (Tm ton make gixxi on his prumase to give us "two for the price o f one" or would he acquiesce to the critics and abut her out'’ What became e x m dcctxin apparent was that Hillary aftcT the Rodham ( hnton was not going to disappear qinctfy mto the background. unnamed There W hite were House reports sources from that she harbored an ambition and a vision at least as strong aa her stronger husband's, Forget some that their» said erven both was Clinton* an maintained that partnership Forget that both expressed open equal adm iration for the other’s leadership style, and that they seemed to be comfortable with their complementary abilities. H illary the Ifrag n n la d y became H illary the Potential Dictator HiDaiy the rabid feminist, intent on destroying everything traditional and safe about womanhood It seemed hkc every tune thing? would settle down, something would pop up to rem axl us that she was unlike any First laxfy w e’d ever had before. change thing There was the name After the election, ahe let it be known that she wanted to be adtfrcaacd aa IhQarv Rodham ( hnton. from conservative every where Ih e cry went up and hberal circles W hat was ahe trying to puIT’ Ih d she think she could just sneak that one over on us? Before we knew it, she'd be trying to drop the ( hnton name altogether Forget that thousaruls o f women tn this country either maintain their own name« after marriage or choose to hyphenate then names- -hers had to be subversive motive an underhanded and Fhen Bill ( ’hnton had the gall to appoint her to head the I ask Force on health care reform , and ahe in turn had the gall to close the sessions to reporters and members o f the A M A . What's more, now she's actually audacious enough to present this proposal for health care reform to the country just hkc any other htghh appointed 10 u m ft LIFT DM OCTOULK 4 (K4. When th« October issue was coeceieed it was planned as a women's tssne Dne to circumstances th a t are all too common it d id n 't tu rn oot th a t way. b u t we asked several women to contribute something on the thoughts of women today and this is the p artial resu lt We w ill be doing an issue th at focuses on women's issues in the fu tu re and in v ite women and men to share w hat they are thinking these days ) la there no end Io what this woman expects us to accept from her? F o r those o f us who can see her fa r what ahe ia -a n ambitious, compassionate, ttW intelligent, complicated, politically accomplished and astute wom an—the answer ia a resounding no. W’c expect great things fro m Hiflary Rodham < hnton, and so far we are not disappointed Every time ahe sends those ripples o f anxiety through the m urky waters of unenlightened and stagnant attitudes, we cheer dangerously (hve cm hell, I ’ M »1 H iflary W c may not neceasanfy agree with her, but we're glad she'» tn there shaking thing* up Every tone a new poO comes out that says Americans generally approve o f her, we secretly m ule We know H's only a matter o f tone before she does something else to chstrcsa the people whose acceptance o f her ia uneasy and marginal W e know that ahe is sure to cause controversy throughout her tenure m the W hite House simply by the way she wears her hair or wears her make-up She w the test case for how Americans might take to a woman president Ih e results have not been always encouraging; tn fact, they were at times bleak believed in her But those of us who before the election and continue to do ao now realize that change n often agonizing for the m dnidual who dares to pioneer it M y guess m that Hillary Rodham (Tm ton w ill go down m history as one o f the great First la d ie s o f this country wiD teach us speculation is open W hat her term to, alas, more H o w we have reacted to her independence and outspokenness wiD perhaps teach us something about ourselves It should. I hat wc were warv and at times downright afraid o f her should serve as a warning. The battle for true equality between the aexes has a long way to go W hen the debate over a pow erful woman centers on her image rather than her content, we axe in ilangcr o f regressing to the days when a woman was judged more appearance than true accomplishment on ago, that gender neutral insurance doesn t have to be a threatening term, that you can define sexual harassment We made some progress this session, but the dialogue has to continue These aren t just womens issues and they can t be won by only allowing through the door those who 'pass the te s t' We must invite everyone in who cares, put the labels away and agree that we w ill sometimes disagree on issues It's a dialogue that I hope w ill begin soon But It must be a broad based, inclusive dialogue That w ill make some people nervous, but these issues have been doing that for years It s tim e to move ahead together, to understand each other, to educate and to realize the potential we have ignored for far too long (Ed We asked Senator Dukes to talk to the issues that face women p o litic a lly , and she expresses a view that we cannot argue against As long as there are loyalty oaths on any issues we w ill never find the value that resides in our opponents, nor they in us We thank her for her thoughts) We are saying that what a wom an does is less important than how she look» or how wefl she adherer to the role society assigns or permits her. W c are saving that not all chokes are okay for women to make, even when they arc choices arrived at by caref ul thought and hard reflection com fort with Rixlham (h n to n and n O u r level o f acceptance an of 1 Hilary tndkabon o f our willingness to accept change. For some o f ua, she is more than just the First I ady, she is a reason to hope tor such a change S tate Senator Joan Dukes I've never been known as a 'fem in ist", whatever that means, and I don't belong to any 'women s' organizations unless the League of Women Voters qualifies (and I don't think it does) I've never been comfortable putting a label on who I am My opposition to abortion has marked me by some and led to comments like 'you know she's not one of u s ‘ Yet. I believe those very issues have prevented all of us who believe in equality at all levels from working together and moving forward on an agenda that simply can't wait On the Inside It looks different This past legislative session brought men and women who cared together without labels, without prejudice for their position on other Issues, but w ith a willingness to fight for basic rights Much of the Women s Health and Wellness Act was stonewalled In the House of Representatives, the Senate was deeply divided over creation of a Standing Committee on Sexual Harassment to deal w ith employment related problems that may arise In the Senate The House hadn't even considered such a thing at that point But the men and women who cared pulled together to educate and lobby It takes time to explain why gynecological care covers more than was thought 20 years S a v to n ® M l!® p a m a u u f Stolts flefoi®» 2 j 4 by n«r«l Cartts Saturday afternoon, painting alone, aided only by a local radio station, my thoughts wander about the tra ils of old songs or some smoldering opinion fanned into flames by half hourly newsbreaks A song about 'forgiveness' causes the teenage face of Candy to appear in the center of my mental screen She was 16 when I met her, so she is not a teenager now What could have become of her, I wonder w ith a sense of sadness and pity She crossed my path as a long term 'guest' at a Youth Detention F acility where I worked 3 years ago Candy and several others s t ill haunt my thoughts regularly, for I had spent many hours playing cards or basketball w ith them, teaching some w riting, listening, sharing stories and lives, feeding them and wornng about their coughs At least 2 of them are no longer alive, both suicides which did not occur in our fa c ility A 14 year old g irl and a 17 year old boy, w ith beautiful, sensitive faces haunting On the same radio as the song about ■forgiveness' plays a news story of a young Kansas woman who attempted to murder an Abortion Clinic Doctor I've wanted to te ll people about Candy so often because she Is such a tragic archetype of the negelected and/or abused young human, thrown haphazardly into a life in which given a choice. 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