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Love and Logic
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Guiding Ch ildren to Solve Their Own Problems
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Love and Logic S tep O ne:
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“How sad.”
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“I bet that hurts.”
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Love and Logic S tep Tw o:
Send the "P ow er M essage."
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“What do you think you ’re going to do?”
Love and Logic S tep Three:
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O ffer choices.
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“Would you like to hear what other kids have tried?”
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At this point, offer a variety of choices that range from bad
to good. It’s usually best to start out with the poor choices.
Each time a choice is offered, go on to step four, forcing
the youngster to state the consequence in his/her own
words. This means that you will be going back and forth
between Love and Logic steps three and four.
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Love and Logic S tep Four:
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H ave the child state the consequences.
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“And how will that work?”
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Love and Logic S tep Five:
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G ive perm ission for the child to either solve the problem
or not solve the problem .
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"Good luck. I hope it works out.”
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Have no fear. If the child is fortunate enough to make a
poor choice, he/she may have a double learning lesson.
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