Page 16 Illinois Valley News, Cave Junction, OR Wednesday, September 24, 2003 Meeting to Program urges kids to express grief understand that other chil- children and their loved Hospice will shed light offer Lovejoy dren are experiencing grief ones a safe place to discuss Good Grief!, a grief too,” said how their family is coping support program for chil- on wildlife dren and their families be- with its loss. The program in Barb their Knox, family program facili- NEW HOME -- Bear sculptor Pete Sedlow, his wife, Lindi, and an area child look over one of two bears placed at Evergreen Federal Bank on Saturday. Senate approves millions for projects, but not in JoCo Senate approval of more than $100 million for energy and water projects in Oregon, none of them in Josephine County, was announced by U.S. Sen. Ron Wyden (D-Ore.) Wyden and Sen. Gordon Smith (R-Ore.) were able to restore fund- ing for dredging the state’s small ports including Brookings and Gold Beach. They also “won $20.8 million to deal with continuing water issues in the Klamath Basin, and $3 million from the U.S. Dept. of Energy to support nanotechnology research. Once the Senate and House agree on a final ver- sion of the energy and wa- ter spending bill, it will be sent to President Bush for his signature. Closed Tuesday & Wednesday Proposed changes to Wildlife Safety Standards in the county Rural Land Development Code will be presented during an open house on Wednesday, Oct. 8 from 6:30 to 9 p.m. in Cave Junction. The meeting, spon- sored by the Josephine County Planning Dept., will be held in the Jose- phine County Bldg. An open house also will be held in Anne Basker Audi- torium at the county court- house in Grants Pass on Tuesday, Oct. 7 at the same times. The open houses are not for changing the draft, but informational to pre- sent it to the public. Changes will be consid- ered when the draft is re- viewed by the county plan- ning commission at a later date. “During the 2001 fire season the planning staff and commission became concerned about the dan- ger of fire and drought to the community,” said staff. “The commission held sev- eral workshops to explore what could be done to re- duce the risk of fire to structures and wildlands. “Late last year the de- partment formed a Wild- land Standards Committee consisting of planning staff, planning commis- sion, Oregon Dept. of For- estry and a representative of local fire service provid- ers. The committee has carefully worked through much of this year to de- velop a new draft Article 76 designed to make our homes, our community, our citizens and our wild- lands safer in the face of the continuing threat of fire.” The public is encour- aged to attend and ask questions, planning staff ginning on Monday, Sept. 29 and continuing through Dec. 1 on Mondays from 6:30 to 8 p.m. The program will be held at the Lovejoy office, 939 S.E. Eighth St. in Grants Pass. Good Grief! group counseling will provide offers a group for all ages from preschool to parents. Nursery care is available. “In Good Grief! groups, children will be given the opportunity to express their feelings in art, music and play, to share their memories of the loved one who died, and to Meidinger Concrete Construction Serving the Valley since 1974 Questions and Answers by Christina Snell Licensed - Bonded - Insured Executive Director at Lovejoy Hospice In order to help you become better informed about hospice services, L o v e j o y Hospice is publishing this question and a n s w e r column every month. Look for us on the fourth Wednesday of every month in 'Illinois Valley News.' If you have questions you would like answered in this column, phone Q: “Would the ‘GOOD GRIEF!’ PROGRAM BE RIGHT FOR MY GRANDCHILDREN? They have had a lot of losses. Two of their grandparents died; their parents divorced; and, their custody has been moved from their father to their aunt who lives in a different town.” A: Generally we find that the children who are dealing with a death, benefit most from ‘GOOD GRIEF!’ or an- other children’s grief pro- gram, because it is de- signed to address their particular type of loss. If they were to attend this type of meeting they may wonder why they are expected to be pre- sent. I would encourage you t contact the hospice in your area and ask to speck with their grief counselor. This person may be able to direct you to the best resource for your grandchildren. 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The Sept. 25 date was chosen to honor Lisa Hullinger, 19, daughter of POMC co-founders Robert and Charlotte Hullinger. It is noted that since the organization’s incep- tion in 1978, and through ‘98, there were nearly 444,000 non-negligent homicides in the United States. POMC statistics show that for every murder vic- tim, there are seven to 10 family members “left be- hind to suffer the after- math.” tator. “Parents will have op- portunities to learn about children’s grief and to share their own grief jour- neys,” she said. For more information and pre-registration phone Lovejoy at (541) 474-1193 or (888) 758-8569. 939 S.E. 8th St. 474-1193 or 1-888-758-8569 Email: christina@lovejoyhospice.org Bankruptcy - Eliminate financial problems Living trusts - Avoid probate Estate planning - Wills, power of attorney Domestic relations Auto accident - Personal Injury Criminal - DUII Real Estate contracts - Foreclosure 592-2195 People need to re- spect each others concerns and differ- ences. 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