spptamhof P i, 200L* um a i : ivi+i m ew s bout 13 years ago, Clackamas resident Marte Sheeran was diag­ nosed with multiple sclerosis. Although she is not in a wheelchair and she is pain-free, the disease has drastically altered her life. Sheeran recently retired, and she and her partner have been forced to readjust most details of their day-to-day lives to accommo­ date MS. According to the National Multiple Scle­ rosis Society, the chronic disease attacks the central nervous system. The body’s own defense system attacks the fatty substance sur­ rounding and protecting the nerve fibers of the brain and spinal cord. As a result, nerve impulses to and from the brain are distorted or interrupted. Symptoms of the disease range from numb­ ness in the limbs to paralysis or loss of vision and affect each person differently. Although medica­ tions are available to treat the symptoms, MS has no cure. Perhaps most notably, two-thirds of those afflicted with MS are women diagnosed between the ages of 20 and 40. Sheeran’s own experience with the disease led her to join forces with the Oregon Multiple Sclerosis Society to form a support group specifically for lesbians liv­ ing with MS. As she begins the planning process, she is closely studying similar efforts in other cities such as San Francisco and Los Angeles. What she is finding is that people living with MS are often more comfortable meeting in support groups where members of the opposite sex are not present. “San Francisco tried to do a joint group and very quickly found that there are tremen- is so lucky. Many women struggle with MS alone, unable to retire or take care of them­ selves physically or emotionally. She would like to see these faces among the members of Support group for lesbians with multiple sclerosis coming to Portland the support group. In her spare time Sheeran also works with by Sarah Leimert the Portland Area Business Associ­ ation on its newsletter. She assists ö dous differences between 3 the editor in recruiting people to submit articles and become how MS affects men and members. how MS affects women,” Sheeran says. “They felt “W hat I’m trying to do is help that they had to do two us get acquainted with the mem­ groups.” bership and what they’re doing in their businesses and about them as Because MS often in­ people,” Sheeran says. PABA exists volves very personal symp­ “not only to help the members who toms, many women do not belong to he able to network...but feel comfortable discussing also to represent the gay and les­ them around men. Sheer­ bian community to the outside an would like to provide a world and show that we are work­ safe place for women with ing members of the community.” MS to give support and Although not directly related to discuss issues they might Sheeran’s work with the Oregon MS not bring up with anyone Society, PABA will help get the word else in their lives. out to those who are interested in her When asked why the most recent project. She is looking group specifically was for women who would like to help planned for lesbians and build and lead the MS support group, not as a general women’s group, she says: "I feel Marte Sheeran says people often are uncomfortable discussing the very personal which tentatively is planned to begin meeting this month. jH that it would he really symptoms of MS around members of the opposite sex helpful to have a support group where we’re Sheeran makes it very clear that MS “a dealing with the same issues and provide sup­ lifestyle disease.” Although it is degenerative, it If you are interested in the LESBIANS WITH MULTI­ port at that level. I think the same things is nonfatal. Because MS is diagnosed relatively PLE SCLEROSIS SUPPORT GROUP ca d Astrida Berzs would he true if you were dealing with an age early, the symptoms must he dealt with for at 503-223-9511. For more information about the disease visit the Internet site imvw.nmss.org. group or with all women that want to have many years. children and how they deal with MS and have Sheeran feels fortunate to have the support children. The same thing is true for the les­ that she enjoys at home and that her partner S a r a h L e im e r t is a Portland free-lance writer. enjoys at work, but she points out not everyone E-mail her at scleimert@earthlink.net. bian community." A L ifestyle D isease . Trust Respect Providing quality funeral, cremation and cemetery services with care, compassion and dignity. Dignity TM www.dignitymemorial .com www.BestHalf.com Caldwell’s Colonial Chapel Ross Hollywood Chapel 20 N.E. 14th Ave. Portland, OR 97232 4733 N.E. Thompson Portland, OR 97213 (503) 232-4111 (503) 281-1800 Sunnyside Little Chapel of the Chimes 11667 S.E. Stevens Rd. Portland, OR 97266 (503) 659-1184 ADULT DVD VIDEO MAGAZINES TOYS NOVELTIES LOTIONS AND MORE... 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