September 15.2000 GUEST COMMENTARY by R on G * ju s t out. 3 l a n v il l e The IN publication for the O UT population F ounded 1983 • J \ y B rown and R enee L a C hance A rt D irector • R upert K innard V ol. 17 N o . 22 S e p te m b e r 1 5 , 2 0 0 0 Complancency complaint FEATURE The No on 9 Campaign needs the entire community’s awareness ANIM AL INSTINCTS: Five folks who’ve found unique ways to talk to—and for—the animals p 22 NEWS NORTHWEST • Picketers protest premiere of Dr. Laura; Metropolitan Community Church of Portland plays host to district conference pp 6-17 NATIONAL • Eminent melts in your mouth, not in your hands pp 18-19 WORLD • Get Thai’d, you’re talking to a tourist whose every move’s among the purest p 21 ENTERTAINMENT & CULTURE MUSIC • Everything you ever wanted to know about opera p 33 ROOKS • Rodger Larson speaks out for inclusion p 35 THEATER • Maligned critic gets his say p 36 THEATER • Chris Coleman readies a revolution p 37 CULTURE • Showbiz hotshot in our midst p 38 MUSIC • Life with a legend I P 39 DIVERSIONS • Pedro & Judd; Jack & Karen; Misha & her new tiara pp 40-41 COLUMNS s many of you know, 1 am actively involved in No on 9, the campaign to defeat the Oregon Citizens Alliance’s latest anti-gay, anti-education ballot measure. 1 serve as co-chair of both the finance and steering committees. I wish to write to you today about how serious this ini­ tiative is and the sense of complacency 1 detect within our community to defeat this dangerous act. Measure 9 is dangerous to our kids and danger­ ous to our schools! In conversations with some people, I’ve heard the overly optimistic belief that Oregonians just will vote no on this issue because they are pro­ gressive, liberal or educated or because we have done so in the past. This is naive! W ho are we kidding? Does anyone remember a few short months ago the devastating defeat in California of the No on Knight Campaign? Do you remember the Defense of Marriage Acts that have swept the country? Do you remember how close the vote on our last OCA measure was? In fact, 1994’s Measure 13 failed hy just 4 percent! Recent visits by Judy Shepard, mother of slain gay man Matthew Shepard, and her wonderful support of No on 9, and the Westboro Baptist Church of Topeka, Kan., with its message of hate, have raised awareness. Unfortunately, many people I talk to have no idea we are in the midst of another O CA measure fight! Awareness of this divisive initiative is vital to our success. Our cam­ paign and message are well-developed. Our llnlocc nil nonnlo campaign is on course. Our success Ulllcbj Ull fJcUfJlc wj|| j epentj on trie entire commu- who wish this initiative nity coming to terms with itself, rallying and bringing forth the to be defeated rally their necessary dialogue to help get the message out! energies, resources and time Lon Mabon of the OCA, now an d everv day until Nov. Scott , Lively of the Pro Family Law Center we m ight well have and Lou Beres of the Oregon Christian Coali­ an anti-education, anti-gay law tion are calling this the last great battle to save on Oregon's books. Oregon from moral decline. D o n 't wake up Nov. 8 They want to legislate to us what will he taught in schools. depressed an d wishing They wish to take us back to you had done m ore. the time when I can remember being in fear of taunting, jeers and 7 REFLECTIONS sneers and to keep our children and those who are seeking awareness of their sexual orientation in the dark, dangerous closet—the closet many have escaped from and have vowed to destroy. We have to fight to keep kids from risk, depression and taunts. If Measure 9 passes, it would create an environment in schools in which gay and lesbian kids and teachers and children of gay and lesbian parents are stigmatized. We would lose crucial HIV/A1DS courses that provide frank, life­ saving information to youth. We would lose local control of school boards. And schools that do not comply with the OCA’s man­ date would be penalized by loss of state funding. Unless all people who wish this initiative to be defeated rally their energies, resources and time now and every day until Nov. 7, we might well have an anti-education, anti-gay law on Oregon’s books. Don’t wake up Nov. 8 depressed and wishing you had done more. We can stop this dangerous measure! It’s up to you! Write a check! Throw a house party! Volunteer! Join our Speakers Bureau. Tell everyone you know to vote no on 9. We have an excellent staff and excellent steering and finance committees. But we need everyone to volunteer to defeat this measure. It will take all of us to win! Call the campaign office at (503) 232-7176 or log on to www.ncxm9.org. Don’t wait another minute j n VOTE is N o on 9 Campaign co-chair and serves on the Human Rights Campaign’s board o f governors. R o n GLANVILLE 15 years ago in T i I gUf T T n ® 1 m I 1 Ì ! . i I % <» * Rflft] PBMiwrilB 1 WCl a à 1 a.Ti :) a ; M S . 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