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These intruders arc in no hurry, under­ standing from experience that there will be plenty o f time to play. Qattery International 10024 S 'W Canyon % d ‘P ort[and, Oregon 9 7 2 2 5 503 644-9766 - Visit our gallery soon to see a selection o f Mr. Wysocki’s whimsical art prints. E very S tory Cutting-edge process hopes to bring OCA and gay community face to face by Jonathan Kipp ome people argue when they disagree. But the Global Process Institute suggests a better way— listening. Its goal seems lofty: bringing together people representing the entire spec­ trum of opinion on an issue and making space for all voices to be heard while facilitating dia­ logue between them. In this case, an open forum Oct. 2 will make the issue Measure 9— the Oregon Citizens A l­ liances Student Protection Act. The gathering will be held from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Portland Conference Center, 300 N.E. Multnomah St. Organizers have extended invitations to the Forum participants learn to listen OCA, Basic Rights Oregon, the No on 9 cam­ Although facilitators will be trained in the paign, activists, churches, politicians and repre­ method of process work, the fomm will have few sentatives from other organizations. The forum rules or expectations. Organizers say some is also open to the general public. breakthrough moments come by letting The institute is a not-for-profit organi­ things get a little out of hand. zation dedicated to building communi­ People show up with a broad range ty around the world by playing host to of communication styles, Siver says. open forum group processes. Stan Despite the mix of such polarized Siver—a student of process work, a cross-disciplinary approach to opinions and the deep emotions that go with both sides of most individual and social change "The basic idea developed in the 1970s— is help­ issues, he rTever has seen any vio­ ing organize this years event. lence during a forum, although o f process work He believes in the process he admits it could occur. is to promote he is studying. “People change Organizers don’t plan to have by having the opportunity to security on hand at the event. awareness and understand the experience of During the 1992 forum, someone else.” both sides reported learning respect people But the open forums goal something, according to and nature, is not to resolve the issue, Siver. Some members of the organizers say; they want to gay and lesbian community to treat every bring greater awareness to said they previously hadn’t each of the viewpoints with­ understood the fear behind moment as in the conflict and to give an Measure 9’s supporters. Like­ precious and to opportunity for increased wise, one O C A member understanding in the hopes of hadn’t realized people on the consider each and building community, a deeper other side were suffering. democracy and a civil society. every event from as T hat awareness changes That might be difficult for people, says Siver, a doctoral many sides as may campaigners on both sides candidate in social conflict who already are using fighting facilitation. Also known as be present while words as the fate of Measure 9 is process-oriented psychology, protecting those played out in the media. process work offers new ways of But the forum is not without ‘ with least power." working with painful or problem­ precedent. In 1992, a similar atic areas of life, organizers say. gathering dealt with homophobi A — Dr. Arnold Dr. Arnold Mindell, a physicist during the heated debate over the and Jungian analyst, developed the Mindell first Measure 9. approach with his colleagues. “The That initiative, like the current basic idea of process work is to pro­ one, aimed at stopping what the OCA mote awareness and respect people and referred to as the “gay agenda" in Oregon. nature, to treat every moment as precious It failed to pass. and to consider each and every event from as Julie Diamond, who holds a doctorate in many sides as may be present while protecting communications, helped organize the 1992 those with least power.” forum. “It was very interesting. It was an oppor­ The institute plays host to forums around the tunity for two sides to see each other, which world facilitated by process-oriented psychother­ hadn’t happened.” apists, psychologists and conflict resolution spe­ The supporters and foes of Measure 9 were cialists. It is affiliated with Process Work Centers antagonistic with each other, Diamond says, around the world, including one in Portland. but when they got in the same room, she saw something change. “It wasn’t just vilification ■ S itting in the F ire : A n I ntroduction to but dialogue." WORLDWORK, a documentary about a conflict facib The forum had its really contentious itatum method used on issues such as racism, sexism, moments, she admits, but people seemed to lis­ homophobia, war, Third World relations and disabil­ ten. Diamond, who trains facilitators in the ities, will premiere 4:30 p.m. Sept. 24 at the Guild process, says seeing a human face on the other Theatre, ¡219 S.W. Park Ave., Portland. An open side of an issue affects people. dialogue will follow the free screening. Call Jill Siver says the OCA was positive about its Spencer at (503) 227'61H4 for more information. involvement in the forum eight years ago. "Peo­ ple change by having the opportunity to under­ For more information on the GLOBAL PROCESS stand the experience of someone else.” S