July 2, 1999 I— — 5 Q H out T anya P luth Portland Where the boys aren’t To the E d ito r : As 1 looked through the schedule of events for Portland pride this year, I noticed how this year, as in all years, we have such a wonderfully thorough lesbian pride festival. I have a novel idea for Pride Northwest— why not also include some events for gay men in next year’s pride m onth— this might make things better yet! T om S oppe Portland Whose peace? To E ditor : Carole Scholl’s letter in the June 4 issue of Just Out urging support during gay pride for the Gays and Lesbians for Peace is morally and intellectually inadequate and even offensive. Her concern for “the rights of people to live in a peaceful society” would be more convincing if it were not so outrageously selective. In her litany of complaints about “children in Belgrade sleeping in bomb shelters” and other costs of the U.S.-NATO bombing campaign, there is not one single word about the Kosovars and their suffering, not one single word about the mass expulsions, murders and rapes, the destruction of houses and villages, that Slobodan Milosevic and the Serbian authorities were carrying out months before the NATO bombing began, not one word about Milosevic’s 10-year record of “ethnic cleansing” and ethnic war. Effective work for peace requires more than pious hand-wringing directed only at those like NATO who are trying, however clumsily, to pre­ vent the international crimes for which Milose­ vic and his associates have now been formally indicted. It requires moral and intellectual courage to come to grips with the proper and inevitable role of force in international rela­ tions. It requires clear-eyed rather than one-eyed judgment about the source of international the unrest and oppression—as opposed to the ideo­ logical insistence of many in the peace move­ ment on blaming all international ills on the United States and the West. And it requires a sober recognition that “peace” and “justice" in the real international world may well be incom­ patible, because working for justice may in fact entail a sacrifice of peace, and working uncriti­ cally for peace may mean a real sacrifice of jus­ tice. Just ask any Bosnian or Kosovar who has been victimized by Serbian nationalism in the past 10 years. Marvin Salles Associate Broker tel. 320-1271 SohnC.Scott E d S egel E-mail marvm@spiritone.com \ www.johnlscoUTcom/home/marvins/index2.htm Portland n o t a b le s 20 years marketing negotiating experience • Multi-milium dollar producer The Spirit off Pride The Spirit of Pride Awards were handed out during Portland’s annual pride festival on June 20. The honors, which have been distributed annually by Pride Northwest Inc. since 1993, recognize individuals and organizations for their contributions within the queer community. The 1999 recipients are: the Imperial Sover­ eign Rose Court of Portland, a nonprofit organi­ zation that raises money for various charitable causes and scholarship funds, including the Audria M. Edwards Scholarship Fund and Esther’s Pantry; Babalou (Louanne Floding), a past president of the ISRC board and the cur­ rent board president of Esther’s Pantry, who has worked on behalf of the sexual minorities and HIV communities for two decades; Cliff Jones, who has been active in the community since the early 1980s, recently served as a consultant on Pride Northwest’s Conversations Project, and is a founding member of Brother to Brother in Portland; and Holly Mulcahey, owner of It’s My Pleasure, a Portland-based gift store that doubles as a resource center for the queer community and provides free meeting space for lesbian and bi women’s social events. Audria M. Edwards Scholarship recipients The recipients of the Audria M. Edwards Scholarship were announced during the annual Peacock in the Park, held June 27 in Portland’s Washington Park. The scholarships benefit sexual minority adults and/or their children who are seeking to further their education. This year’s awardees are: Chelsea Bendele, Orchid Cavett, Justin H. “Jay” Clark, Chris Eglinton, Bobbi Jo Epperson, Justin Hovey, Donna Johns, Chris Reynolds and Nancy Slocum. More school money Nicole Hooper, a student pursuing an associ­ ates of arts transfer degree at Portland Commu­ nity College, is the recipient of the David Evans Memorial Scholarship. Boardroom news Basic Rights Oregon has added new mem­ bers to its board. They are: Paige Richardson, a longtime political strategist, and queer youth activists T. Dunn, 17, Lauryn Steele, 17, and Zarah Walker, 18. c o r r e c t io n Just Out 's June 18 world news incorrectly identifies Australia’s largest city. Sydney, which is in New South Wales, is larger than Mel­ bourne, which is in the state of Victoria. Just Out regrets the error. mmm queer community, Davis invokes the self hate and shame experienced by those of us who do not fit into the racist, classist rhetoric of “good taste, good manners, and good common sense.” Assimilation is not the answer. W hile some of us may be able to pass and benefit from con­ forming, the rest of us will still be beaten, harassed, thrown out of jobs and homes and made to feel that the harassment we experience is our own fault— i.e., if only we had employed our sense of good taste, everything would be OK. The myth that we have control over how others think about and perceive us has resulted in the fracturing of our community, as commu­ nity leaders decide that the best way to win in politics is to sell out our most marginalized groups. Why further the sense of alienation felt by those who do not fit into the white, Christ­ ian, middle-class model of the Queer American dream? I am disappointed with Davis’ rhetoric. I can only hope that those who agree with Davis will realize that they are simply perpetuating oppres­ sion. Perhaps Davis should have followed her own advice and exhibited better behavior before writing an editorial advocating for the normalcy of queerdom, as though our rights will grow exponentially in proportion to the percentage of us who keep our pants on during a pride parade. Ellen DeGeneres, perhaps the most visible and “normal” queer in this nation, kept her pants on and still felt the wrath of homophobia. W hat does that suggest to you? An innovative marketer and Buyer's Agent who listens to your needs Financial Planning With A Clear Commitment. At American Express Financial Advisors, we want to make our commitment to gay men and lesbians clear. 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